"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why do some girls post on Facebook "even though we fight you mean the world to me"

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From time to time I see girls writing these sappy facebook posts about their boyfriends. Saying stuff like "even though we fight, you mean the world to me" or "through our ups and downs you've always been there" or "even though we don't always see eye to eye, I love you and you're amazing"

I most recently noticed this with a girl that I went to school with. She posted something like this about her boyfriend (who at first, didnt seem like her type AT ALL. Of course, he's mr. nice guy and she always went for rebels in the past.)

Why do some girls say stuff like this? It's like they over-dramatize their relationships for the facebook spotlight. These types of comments seem suspicious to me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sometimes people post cr@p to see what reaction they get from friends, it's almost a cry for attention. Here is an example, one of friends liked one of his friend picture of him posing next to an exotic car, not knowing the guy I posted a stupid comment "congratulations on the purchase of your new car", then all his real friends started to congratulate him because they thought he really bought the car, at the end the guy cleared things up and mention the car was rented. Was his intentions in people thinking he bought the car, showing wealth or attention seeking, I don't know but at the end he was called out on it.
Yep that sounds like a typical attention-seeking thing to do on social media. I just feel like so many girls I know love to over-dramatize thejr relationships on social media and make then appear better than they actually are
 

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These women love drama, create it because their man isn’t floating their boat, and are willing to display it online. Helps their emotional rollercoaster go even faster and they get added attention from female friends…
It’s a double play
Second option, they’re liars doing for attention only…
 
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She's getting tiered & looking for new orbiters attention wh*re ready to jump ship red flag..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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it means "their world" sucks!:p
 

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Who gives a fvck.



You'll find that life gets much better when you focus on what's in your circle of control.

Make yourself happy. Women talk ****e. They are emotional and fickle.
At first I thought you were a female who got offended by my post

I'm just trying to understand female psychology

Imho, I think it's typically girls who want the world to THINK they're in a satisfying relationship. Or girls who love drama. Or both. It's like "oh even though we argue I love you so much." Why do you even have to mention the arguing part? To try to convey to the world that your relationship is stronger and more fulfilling to you than it actually is?Just to include the element of drama in your relationship and your life?
 
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