How indifference is going to get me laid tonight - Field advice

[TheGambino]

One year ago I met this girl in a club, we made out and had fun...
Blonde HB7.5, 3 years older then me.

Got her number and scheduled a date. She flakes, she doesn't show up and doesn't text to cancel.

Called her at 9 pm and once more 9:10. We had the appointment at 9 for a drink.

I immediatley deleted her phone number and moved on, I made a thread about it I remember.

Anyway, we crossed paths a couple times at clubs and parties in our region. I never approached her, but I did smile towards her friendly and never acted bvtthurt. She sometimes eyed me a bit and I just moved on. I lost complete interest, focussed on other women at the time. I also saw her with a dude once.

Anyway I meet her at the party I was at last friday with old oneitis. Not sure if she saw us together but I think she did. (couldve raised her IL)

I approach her, make a small convo and were flirting. I try to isolate her away from her friends. She says no sory, im with them.

I friendly excuse myself and bail at that point.

Then I was dancing and having fun and she passes me, I grab her arm we talk a bit and I number close her. I kiss her on her cheek mouth too in front of my old oneitis and her friend. This girl probably notices old oneitis and friends reaction too that.

Next day I text her and she kinda blows up my phone. I schedule a drink for tonight. We text back and forth now and I give her a x time and x location.

She says that she is baking an apple pie and that she can't make it at time x but invites me to her house instead at that time. So guess where im going in 1.5 hours.

What made her invite me to her house immediatley (kinda red flagg in my books, she doesnt know me well, we never talked for longer then 30 mins by ourselfs outside of a club, so probably low quality)

*Maybe she saw me hanging out with the hb9s, they are from her city and have a high class NON slutty reputation. Don't fvck around and dont go out much
*Shes attracted (ofcourse)
*I showed abudance mentality, no needines, no emotion fleeks, not bvtthurt and always friendly
*Im direct, to the point, flirting and showing her that I want her.
*INDIFFERENCE

Use this to your benefit guys.

 

[sosousage]

Good but is accepting her **** "abundance mindset"?

 

[TheGambino]

Good but is accepting her **** "abundance mindset"?

Its free pvssy, that's the goal lmao. I dont give a sheit about her, key is fvcking her and dont let her games affect You.

 

[zekko]

*Maybe she saw me hanging out with the hb9s, they are from her city and have a high class NON slutty reputation. Don't fvck around and dont go out much
*Shes attracted (ofcourse)
*I showed abudance mentality, no needines, no emotion fleeks, not bvtthurt and always friendly
*Im direct, to the point, flirting and showing her that I want her.
*INDIFFERENCE

Gambino, I think you're a good example of what a lot of the guys here are trying to be, at least from the pickup side of things. You're out there, you're having some success, you're documenting your experiences, but you're just new enough at it that you still have some humility. This site would benefit from more posters like you. Now if you'd just throw in some pics of some of your girls...

 

[TheGambino]

Gambino, I think you're a good example of what a lot of the guys here are trying to be, at least from the pickup side of things. You're out there, you're having some success, you're documenting your experiences, but you're just new enough at it that you still have some humility. This site would benefit from more posters like you. Now if you'd just throw in some pics of some of your girls...

Thank you man. I really put myself out there for years, but I learned how not to fvck up and that I should improve myself to get what I want.

I love women, and Im happy that my game and inner game improved so much that Im getting this success but dont forget. I really put myself out there, I approach, approach, approach at clubs for years, fell down, stood up.

Ill see what i can do for the pics later, word.