"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

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Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I don't know why, but for most of my short life I've had a super weak stomach. I can't seem to figure out an explanation for this because both my parents can eat anything, like literally anything. My dad eats bugs off the ground and has no trouble swallowing maggots or beetles if he wants to. My mother can eat sour cream that's rotten. Next day they're perfectly fine. Me? Raw vegetables give me stomach aches and don't sit well. I don't eat unhealthy, but I can't eat the typical 'healthy' diet either. I can drink a shake made from avocados, spinach, broccoli, and onions, and that stuff doesn't bother me as much as a salad with cauliflower and carrots. It's probably because it's shredded. Soups are a hella lot easier too, I think because it's heated up so it softens it a bit. Thoughts?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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If I understand correctly...

1. Avocados, Spinach, Broccoli and Onions are tolerated if blended?

2. Cauliflower and Carrots don't sit well?

I find that a lot of people do well digesting soups that have trouble with digesting the same veggies raw.

How are you with meats, fruits, nuts and other veggies (leafy greens, peppers, squash, eggplant, celery, etc)?

What does a typical day of eating look like for you?
 

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Gluten and lactose should be the first two substances you remove as a test to see if that helps. Most people are fine with both of them, but some people have an intolerance.

Probiotics would be the next thing to explore. You can take supplements or just ferment your own food.
 

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If I understand correctly...

1. Avocados, Spinach, Broccoli and Onions are tolerated if blended?

2. Cauliflower and Carrots don't sit well?

I find that a lot of people do well digesting soups that have trouble with digesting the same veggies raw.

How are you with meats, fruits, nuts and other veggies (leafy greens, peppers, squash, eggplant, celery, etc)?

What does a typical day of eating look like for you?
So for #1, my stomach gets pretty gurgly but it does still goes through without much trouble.
For #2, I'm just using those as an example. Raw vegetables are really hard on my body for some reason.

And yeah soups are fine for some reason. I love soups. With meat I feel fine, sometimes for steak it just kinda sits there but not usually. Fruits are fine and nuts are too. Vegetables in general are just hard for my body. No clue as to why.
Gluten and lactose should be the first two substances you remove as a test to see if that helps. Most people are fine with both of them, but some people have an intolerance.

Probiotics would be the next thing to explore. You can take supplements or just ferment your own food.
I doubt it's gluten. I became lactose intolerant at 13 but that's because I was drinking too much milk (9/10ths a gallon each day lol) so my body stared rejecting it.
 

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I don't know why, but for most of my short life I've had a super weak stomach. I can't seem to figure out an explanation for this because both my parents can eat anything, like literally anything. My dad eats bugs off the ground and has no trouble swallowing maggots or beetles if he wants to. My mother can eat sour cream that's rotten. Next day they're perfectly fine. Me? Raw vegetables give me stomach aches and don't sit well. I don't eat unhealthy, but I can't eat the typical 'healthy' diet either. I can drink a shake made from avocados, spinach, broccoli, and onions, and that stuff doesn't bother me as much as a salad with cauliflower and carrots. It's probably because it's shredded. Soups are a hella lot easier too, I think because it's heated up so it softens it a bit. Thoughts?

yeah your parents were eating bees and rotten things now your genetics are skewed
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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