“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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so ive been bk online dating and even had 50% of women initiate on me chat away although i try to keep it short

then when i bring up getting together a handful go ghost i obviously dont pursue

how weird and pathetic the female race if this is there "life"

why?
 

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They are using the site and you to get needed male attention. In many cases they are lacking in it. Takes really tight online game to weed out the attention wh0res.
Probably boast to female friends about how many matches they got last week also…
 
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i dont think anyone realises how strange i find it that a bloke offers to take a woman out for a good night and she ghosts him..EVEN WORSE so after shes initiated , yet shell txt all day if he lets it ..........absolute weird and they all do it so its nothing ive done
 

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i dont think anyone realises how strange i find it that a bloke offers to take a woman out for a good night and she ghosts him..EVEN WORSE so after shes initiated , yet shell txt all day if he lets it ..........absolute weird and they all do it so its nothing ive done
yeah like she doesnt realise shes just wasting HER time as well as yours.
 

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Because they can.

Come on men. These girls don't owe you anything. I've had girls ghost me after several years of being together and crazy sex. You are talking about girls online where you don't even know if the girls is real
or not.

Go and meet women in real life. Much better!
 

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i dont think thats a valid point really trump, i live in a small town id be happy to meet a fresh face 5 miles away but im hardly gonna sit in bars 5 miles away just incase
 

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Because they can.

Come on men. These girls don't owe you anything. I've had girls ghost me after several years of being together and crazy sex. You are talking about girls online where you don't even know if the girls is real
or not.

Go and meet women in real life. Much better!
Its not about owing you anything its about basic logics.
The baker doesnt owe me any bread but if he puts a sign near his shops Im kinda annoyed if I go inside and he tells that since the previous week he decided to become a pro videogamer instead of a baker.
 

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Its not about owing you anything its about basic logics.
The baker doesnt owe me any bread but if he puts a sign near his shops Im kinda annoyed if I go inside and he tells that since the previous week he decided to become a pro videogamer instead of a baker.
now thats good analogy. imagine 90% of bakeries refusing to sell bread and ignoring you when you attempt to buy
 

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Its not about owing you anything its about basic logics.
The baker doesnt owe me any bread but if he puts a sign near his shops Im kinda annoyed if I go inside and he tells that since the previous week he decided to become a pro videogamer instead of a baker.
Could not agree with you more. Very good diagnosis of most of the current OLD situation.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I haven't used online dating for several years. But here are my approximate stats that I can recall:

One or more dates: 70+
One or more lays: ~10
LTRs of 3+ months: 5
Weddings: 1
Initiations by me: 300-400 or maybe more

Moral of the story? Numbers game!
 

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I haven't used online dating for several years. But here are my approximate stats that I can recall:

One or more dates: 70+
One or more lays: ~10
LTRs of 3+ months: 5
Weddings: 1
Initiations by me: 300-400 or maybe more
So you're saying roughly about 75% of OLD is trash.
 

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So you're saying roughly about 75% of OLD is trash.
Pretty much. You have to play a lot of hands before you get even a partial win.
 

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Tight game and determination is a must have. I like real life better.
Me too. I've had much more success going the real life route
 

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If you meet her online she will assume your a creepy stalker. A majority of the guys messaging her are omega males.

It's not your fault but rather the desperate males who keep spamming the women with nonsense. Technology is most of the time your enemy when it comes to women. Face to face is the way to go, and as long as you're messaging her from your phone or computer you're just another penis to her.
 

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so ive been bk online dating and even had 50% of women initiate on me chat away although i try to keep it short

then when i bring up getting together a handful go ghost i obviously dont pursue

how weird and pathetic the female race if this is there "life"
why?
How weird and pathetic the female race human race is if this is their life.
 
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What LogicallyLefty said is spot on. I met my now-fiance via online dating, and some of my other girlfriends/hookups before her.

We need more details, though - specifically:

- How many messages are you sending before asking them out?
- What kinds of things are you saying in these messages to build rapport/comfort?
- What is your transition from normal convo to asking for a date?
- What kind of dates are you asking for in your request?
 

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Its not about owing you anything its about basic logics.
The baker doesnt owe me any bread but if he puts a sign near his shops Im kinda annoyed if I go inside and he tells that since the previous week he decided to become a pro videogamer instead of a baker.
I think the woman is more the consumer. There are one hundred brands of toothpaste on the aisle. Unlike the male of the species, she actually enjoys the process of shopping. She will stop and consider a single brand, and read the label, before moving on and dallying about before the next one, and then the next one, and so on. After an extended process of deliberation and distraction she may or may not decide to buy one. She is in la la land.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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