"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fat Excuses

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It's disgusting how many fat women are rolling around. I really think it's causing an impotency pandemic among men. Why can't women get it through their fat skulls that men just aren't sexually aroused by fat women? I am constantly hearing the complaints that they are worth the effort but men have unrealistic standards and want women who are toothpicks. I think we can all agree that we just want someone who looks healthy and has a feminine figure without bags of fat hanging on it unless it's their breasts. I also hear them say it's not a man's fault because society taught him to not like women who can't stop shoving calories down their pie holes. As if I'm going to see a bag of lard hanging over her crotch and think "oh man that's hot and I wanna splooge all over it". But society says it's wrong. I have 7 women in my office and 6 are fat, just nasty and fat. They are all under 35 and shove cheese puffs into their mouths all day and drink 2 liter bottles of coke or Hawaiian punch. They bring in 2 boxes of a dozen doughnuts in the morning and think I'm weird for not eating them. I mean I guess I could eat them and lose my six pack and get nasty case of artherosclerosis. The other 2 are about 55 and look pretty hot for their age. I would bang them before the young ones in a heartbeat. Fat people and their excuses just piss me off. Whatever happened to a sense of pride in your health and appearance and a genuine effort to look attractive for your sexual partners?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Same can be said for the amount of fat men rolling around. A lot of young college aged people overweight it's crazy. Texting, playing Call of Duty, and posting selfies on social media 12 hours a day doesn't burn many calories.
 

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It's disgusting how many fat women are rolling around. I really think it's causing an impotency pandemic among men. Why can't women get it through their fat skulls that men just aren't sexually aroused by fat women? I am constantly hearing the complaints that they are worth the effort but men have unrealistic standards and want women who are toothpicks. I think we can all agree that we just want someone who looks healthy and has a feminine figure without bags of fat hanging on it unless it's their breasts. I also hear them say it's not a man's fault because society taught him to not like women who can't stop shoving calories down their pie holes. As if I'm going to see a bag of lard hanging over her crotch and think "oh man that's hot and I wanna splooge all over it". But society says it's wrong. I have 7 women in my office and 6 are fat, just nasty and fat. They are all under 35 and shove cheese puffs into their mouths all day and drink 2 liter bottles of coke or Hawaiian punch. They bring in 2 boxes of a dozen doughnuts in the morning and think I'm weird for not eating them. I mean I guess I could eat them and lose my six pack and get nasty case of artherosclerosis. The other 2 are about 55 and look pretty hot for their age. I would bang them before the young ones in a heartbeat. Fat people and their excuses just piss me off. Whatever happened to a sense of pride in your health and appearance and a genuine effort to look attractive for your sexual partners?
Because they always have pathetic orbiters on standby throwing them attention so they can remain fat and terrible people as it is just another reason why women are worthless today
 

oOh Nasty

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Same can be said for the amount of fat men rolling around. A lot of young college aged people overweight it's crazy. Texting, playing Call of Duty, and posting selfies on social media 12 hours a day doesn't burn many calories.
The difference, I've noticed, is that men are less likely to try to rationalize to others that their fatness is "healthy and normal." Sure, they'll say that they're fat and they've accepted it, but the majority of those men would openly say that they'd lose the weight if they had the discipline to. Women, on the other hand, are more likely to try to tell people that the fat rolls hanging from their bodies are *beautiful*.
 

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dunno if its related but all fat women i know have REALLY terrible personalities. they will probably cry in five years or more, but still wont change, its up to them tho!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dunno if its related but all fat women i know have REALLY terrible personalities. they will probably cry in five years or more, but still wont change, its up to them tho!
Agree with this. The fatter women are insecure and thus many of them add an extra element of "b|tchy" to try and mask the insecurities of being fat.
 
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The difference, I've noticed, is that men are less likely to try to rationalize to others that their fatness is "healthy and normal." Sure, they'll say that they're fat and they've accepted it, but the majority of those men would openly say that they'd lose the weight if they had the discipline to. Women, on the other hand, are more likely to try to tell people that the fat rolls hanging from their bodies are *beautiful*.
True. A guy could say to his buddy, " hey, if you hit the gym and lost some weight girls would date you."

Can you imagine how that conversation would go between two female friends? Neither can I, because as a female I can garuantee you that that conversation simply would never occur in female social circles.
 

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Why can't women get it through their fat skulls that men just aren't sexually aroused by fat women?
For the same reason men can't get it through their short skulls that women just aren't sexually aroused by short men.
 

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True. A guy could say to his buddy, " hey, if you hit the gym and lost some weight girls would date you."

Can you imagine how that conversation would go between two female friends? Neither can I, because as a female I can garuantee you that that conversation simply would never occur in female social circles.
Allow me to share a brief anecdote. I occasionally have a group chat app going during the day to kill time at work. It's all local folks and they are very friendly. I'm actually amazed its a pretty solid 50:50 ratio of men/women. Anyway, the women are nice enough and the people in the group get bored at work too so they sometimes post selfies at work. There are some cute photos of the women, but they don't usually post full body shots of themselves. I've been around long enough to know 95% of the women in this chat group are fatties.

When it comes to the topic of working out and exercising in general, the topic rarely comes up, or when it does, one of them will say going for a jog. Back about 10 minutes later. Another will say trying to lose weight by eating paleo or some bulls#it...eats paleo for a couple days, and after each paleo meal pigs out on banana split as her reward, which she happily takes a pic of.

And of course there is constant sexual flirting among the men/women...there are a couple of guys the women all have the hots for and they make it very well known. Those guys are welcome to them too.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Allow me to share a brief anecdote. I occasionally have a group chat app going during the day to kill time at work. It's all local folks and they are very friendly. I'm actually amazed its a pretty solid 50:50 ratio of men/women. Anyway, the women are nice enough and the people in the group get bored at work too so they sometimes post selfies at work. There are some cute photos of the women, but they don't usually post full body shots of themselves. I've been around long enough to know 95% of the women in this chat group are fatties.

When it comes to the topic of working out and exercising in general, the topic rarely comes up, or when it does, one of them will say going for a jog. Back about 10 minutes later. Another will say trying to lose weight by eating paleo or some bulls#it...eats paleo for a couple days, and after each paleo meal pigs out on banana split as her reward, which she happily takes a pic of.

And of course there is constant sexual flirting among the men/women...there are a couple of guys the women all have the hots for and they make it very well known. Those guys are welcome to them too.
10 minute jog haha must of been one of those high intensity sprint/jog/sprint/ jogs.

While I don't think we should blatantly shame fat people I don't think we should try to 'roll' obesity into some mainstream standard of attractiveness. It's not, and it's not healthy.

Body acceptance should stop where type 2 diabetes begins.
 

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Just as a follow-up I thought others might find interesting. I am not fat, far from it in fact, but I work hard to keep a sleek muscle tone. It's difficult for me to put on weight and I've done a lot of work over the years to get to where I am. I'm proud of the progress I made.

This same group I chat in that I mentioned has fatty women in it. They all flirt pretty heavy in chat to the point it's pretty much blatant sex talk, deviant to the point of porn group orgies or whatnot. It's amusing to read and it passes the time; that's all i get out of it.

Apparently one of the fatty women got the impression in her head that I was interested in her. She's f*cking ugly as sin and lazy as hell. Complains that she feels like sh!t after sleeping for 10 hours for example. I posted a couple of pictures of myself a long while back but nothing recent. Well apparently one of her other fat friends there saved my pics and passed them on to her. She realized I'm not fat, and started flirting with me heavy. I told her to f*ck off cause I'm married, it apparently caused her to spend the entire day in bed, now she's trying to ostracize me from the group.

I know, soap opera drama and all that but I think it's funny as hell how fat women get wrapped up in this illusion that life should cater to their every whim. They're almost as bad as hot 20 year old chicks...almost.
 
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