Shutting it down for a while

[Glassguy]

When chicks start getting me frustrated, it's time to shut it down for a while. It's best I think when that happens to take a step back, hit my business harder, hit the gym harder, play golf, etc. Frustration reeks and women can smell it a mile away.

Truthfully, today's dating pool is just getting worse and worse. Everyone keeping their eye out for the next best thing that could come along (including me lol). That being said, I am not one to drop my standards just to have several women around. So time to abort, get refocused and let the game later come to me instead of feeling like I have to be putting in too much effort to keep the game going. I'll still be trolling the forum and I'll be back once I feel rejuvenated!

Next on the hit list is OLD, FB, Instagram, etc. Complete purge of the social media and online interaction.

Good luck fellas!

 

[Roober]

Good luck dude. Think a lot of guys could use time away from women to really build themselves

 

[Von]

Good luck dude. Think a lot of guys could use time away from women to really build themselves

Agreed... women are the side dish

Thanks Glass for the tips

 

[Solomon]

where do you live sir?

 

[ubercat]

Good call. You r your biggest project. And any good project takes time.

 

[Red Legg]

When chicks start getting me frustrated, it's time to shut it down for a while. It's best I think when that happens to take a step back, hit my business harder, hit the gym harder, play golf, etc. Frustration reeks and women can smell it a mile away.

Truthfully, today's dating pool is just getting worse and worse. Everyone keeping their eye out for the next best thing that could come along (including me lol). That being said, I am not one to drop my standards just to have several women around. So time to abort, get refocused and let the game later come to me instead of feeling like I have to be putting in too much effort to keep the game going. I'll still be trolling the forum and I'll be back once I feel rejuvenated!

Next on the hit list is OLD, FB, Instagram, etc. Complete purge of the social media and online interaction.

Good luck fellas!

Oh you will be back....like a dog returns to it's vomit !

 

[resilient]

When chicks start getting me frustrated, it's time to shut it down for a while.

Agree.

Frustration reeks and women can smell it a mile away.

Amazing how that works out, huh? It's like an interdependent vibe that's given off. Women love to be around the happy-go-lucky fun dude. They run as fast as they can away from the bitter, jaded, and wounded (or just a guy down on his luck, or having a bad luck streak).

Have you ever noticed when you shut it down, double down on you, go get rad and such they get curious and want a slice of the new pie you're baking? I've done this last few months and am starting to see more subtle IOIs. I wrote about it in a thread recently, Killing the thirst...

Truthfully, today's dating pool is just getting worse and worse. Everyone keeping their eye out for the best thing that could come along...

I've seen a huge uptick in this behavior lately. You think you're going steady with a plate and they pull the carpet out from under your feet with the hot/cold signals, flaking, excuses, sh!t tests, etc. I feel like those moments are almost always revealing the subtle (or not so subtle) fact that there's another dude moving in for the kill as the new shiny "it" guy that she views as an upgrade and weighs the pros and cons of branch swinging. That goes hand in hand if the DJ slips up and makes some beta moves to drive down her IL hard.

That being said, I am not one to drop my standards just to have several women around.

Good for you, that's self-respect that the Don Juan should hold himself accountable to.

Next on the hit list is OLD, FB, Instagram, etc. Complete purge of the social media and online interaction.

Nice. So... more or less monk-mode?

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

. You think you're going steady with a plate and they pull the carpet out from under your feet with the hot/cold signals, flaking, excuses, sh!t tests, etc. I feel like those moments are almost always revealing the subtle (or not so subtle) fact that there's another dude moving in for the kill as the new shiny "it" guy that she views as an upgrade and weighs the pros and cons of branch swinging. That goes hand in hand if the DJ slips up and makes some beta moves to drive down her IL hard.
Good for you, that's self-respect that the Don Juan should hold himself accountable to.
Nice. So... more or less monk-mode?

Besides being less than ideal material, another factor is she could just feel like a... plate.... and act accordingly.

 

[Floydispink01]

Agree.
Amazing how that works out, huh? It's like an interdependent vibe that's given off. Women love to be around the happy-go-lucky fun dude. They run as fast as they can away from the bitter, jaded, and wounded (or just a guy down on his luck, or having a bad luck streak).

Have you ever noticed when you shut it down, double down on you, go get rad and such they get curious and want a slice of the new pie you're baking? I've done this last few months and am starting to see more subtle IOIs. I wrote about it in a thread recently, Killing the thirst...
I've seen a huge uptick in this behavior lately. You think you're going steady with a plate and they pull the carpet out from under your feet with the hot/cold signals, flaking, excuses, sh!t tests, etc. I feel like those moments are almost always revealing the subtle (or not so subtle) fact that there's another dude moving in for the kill as the new shiny "it" guy that she views as an upgrade and weighs the pros and cons of branch swinging. That goes hand in hand if the DJ slips up and makes some beta moves to drive down her IL hard.
Good for you, that's self-respect that the Don Juan should hold himself accountable to.
Nice. So... more or less monk-mode?

Good thread.

Agree mate. That's why it's always best to remain calm and composed even if the girl has plssed you off or frustrated you. Some say confront or give her a piece of your mind but in the long run she will look at you as some chump and you will be wasting energy thinking about her.

All about self respect.

A girl can sit back and expose you without doing anything if u get frustrated or blow up her phone.

Equally, she can find out everything about you when you do NOTHING.

Relax and go about your life with a smile on your face focusing on your goals and priorities.

Edit: Looking back I can count many times at how frustrated I was at a girls behaviour and calling them out on it. It achieved nothing. It's actually quite absurd in hindsight that you can get emotionally drained by a chick. That's the benefit of experience I guess.

 

[TheGambino]

Im doing that after this saturday, gotta focus on my last year of university, girls and parties distract me so much..

 

[exhausted]

I'm in straight monk mode.
Work.
Gym.
Box
Nutrition. Learn some new recipes.
Dog..

Repeat..


Done with the losing battle of finding a quality woman.. they don't make those anymore due to the divorced households, social media, beta cuck men feeding these inadequate women to remain low level skanks .
It's not a fulfilling life but it is better than the emotional trauma these girls torture you with.

Why is life so hard for these females?.
Is it really that hard not to be a pos?..
honestly that is what i would like to ask my ex..
you had a great man, good to you and your child, responsible ,loyal, honorable, good job, a leader , yet you cant go through a week wothout being a selfish, unappreciative no love giving cvnt..

Tired of these lowlife women

 

[attic]

Hits home.

Women are incredible, if they are exposing anything in us, look at it as a favor they are doing for you. A bit of mirror. You know, we are what we see in the world and such. So if you or I or the other guy is frustrated, own it and improve.

None of us should be blaming women for any of the **** we feel. A man, in the best sense of the word, goes out and handles his **** and doesn't hold a grudge against a woman, or women in general.


Thanks for the grounding effect your posts convey.

 

[exhausted]

Hits home.

Women are incredible, if they are exposing anything in us, look at it as a favor they are doing for you. A bit of mirror. You know, we are what we see in the world and such. So if you or I or the other guy is frustrated, own it and improve.

None of us should be blaming women for any of the **** we feel. A man, in the best sense of the word, goes out and handles his **** and doesn't hold a grudge against a woman, or women in general.


Thanks for the grounding effect your posts convey.

Not always true..
you have a ltr progress to the next level and all a sudden the woman's true colors come out.. she is lazy, manipulative and selfish. You give 100 and she gives 30..
so you get rid of her but wasted 3 years to learm all this as the woman puts on a charade.

You did what u were suppose to and the woman wasted years from you even tho u walked, not to.mention resources.

This is not a mans fault, women are brought up spoiled worthelss cvnts and in this society it is up to the man to screen this and waste time and money doing it.

Why should we be diagnosed with something wrong within us when its not us?.

My buddy married 6 years now, his wife was wonderful for 3 but now all she does is scream and yell and with hold affection from him.. he's a great guy, she is overwhlemed by having 2 kids she wanted now abuses him.


Get it?.

Its not always us.. women are CHIT