Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
It is what a completely democratized life ultimately devolves to. Group/ Identity politics. Back in a state of nature, where all are pitted against one another [and must make alliances], where life is solitary, nasty, brutish, and short.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
This is an "air ball" in response to the guy's post. Good sex won't keep them around either. Not when Mr. Beta shows up and gives them the listening ear and attention that you, the NOW f*ck buddy and nothing more, wouldn't give her.
Stick around and read some of my posts. I will show you how to make a harem of soldiers, who will help not only be loyal (while you aren't exclusive) but also help you make more money.
Please enlighten us grand master. My experience is eventually they lose hope and branch swing to the guy that supplies them with the attention you aren't. Actual "relationships" are high on a female's agenda.
The key to extreme financial wealth and the loyalty of the hottest woman is what I coined the "god" frame. This is the superlative frame, which owns all audiences. Within this frame, exists only your agenda; others' wills collapse within its ostensible confines.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Being loyal to your emotions is not loyalty. It is an animal response to stimuli.
I get what you're saying but..
I never said it was loyalty. I was simply explaining the irony he was trying to convey. That's why I put the quotation marks around "loyalty".
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
So much for nature then. Our natural state is one on concupiscence. A quality such as loyalty is attained by over-coming our natural state.
