"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Red Pill...

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Looking back on it, I can't believe that I wasted years of life trying to learn about how to be a PUA, when it turns out that stuff doesn't even work. It's all about the Red Pill now...

I have yet to read an exact definition of the Red Pill so I will tell you what it means to me. It means that women are self-serving, 99.9% likely to be disloyal to you or anyone if the right situation comes along, it means that they lie and manipulate as part of their basic genetic structure. On top of this, many of them are just plain STUPID, but that has nothing to do with Red Pill.

After realizing this stuff, there are one of two things you can do....

1. You can go MGTOW. I can't do this because I still want to have sex. I still want to reproduce and I still wake up thinking about females.

2. You can try to find some way to adapt. I don't know that anyone has found a permanent answer for this. The only thing I can think of is to meet their hypergamy standard.

This standard is based on Money, Looks, Status.

By the way, is there anyone who disagrees with Money, Looks, Status?

I can only "work" on my looks so much. I don't even know what status is past the age of high school or college, with the very rare exception of actual celebrities, which are so rare that I don't think they are worth even including in these discussions.

So that leaves money. That's all I can work on. And I definitely don't want to lose half my stuff or pay alimony and I don't think I will. I don't even want to buy a girl a meal... I just want to be able to show/have status through money. I want to make $500,000/year or more. This is my only ticket to the hypergamy standard.

What do you think of this?

I am struggling to find answer of why I can't attract women regularly (other than the fact that I never go out lol).

I can figure out lots of stuff, but this one has me stumped.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I can only "work" on my looks so much.
There is no limit as to how far one can go with his looks, especially if one has money. It's a matter of desire and willingness. If you want a true evaluation of what you need to work on, PM me your pics. I'll be brutal but honest in what you need to do to get your pick of the litter.
 
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There is no limit as to how far one can go with his looks, especially if one has money. It's a matter of desire and willingness. If you want a true evaluation of what you need to work on, PM me your pics. I'll be brutal but honest in what you need to do to get your pick of the litter.
I will PM you.

I already spent money making my **** thicker and laser facial hair removal.
 

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Looks is something you can always improve. But should you offer inner game instead ? Or even phrases, words, etc.?
When you have looks, no or little game is needed. With no looks, with all the game in the world, you're still struggling. Focus on looks, and women will be picking you up and calling you for second dates.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Looks is something you can always improve. But should you offer inner game instead ? Or even phrases, words, etc.?
Nowhere in "Money, Looks, Status" do you see "inner game."

Buddhist monks don't get laid and they have all the inner game in the world.
 
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Laser facial hair removal?? Wth??? A lion without a mane is a lioness
Well that's your opinion. I couldn't grow one of those bushy beards anyway and I looked bad with stubble, so I got tired of shaving.

I have been told by girls that I look much better clean shaven.

Not all girls like beards.
 

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Richard, height? weight? Do you want my recommendations in this thread or PM?
 
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