"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Today at the bar a very pretty single mom showed up with her (I must say not so cute) baby.

She was all over the male bartender, to the point where she did not so much as make eye contact with me - in 40 minutes of sitting next to me (frankly I can't stand people who don't engage their surroundings with at least a passing glance but that's an other story. Granted I had a c0ck blocking beta male in between us. His reaction was to get all nervous, pause during our conversation, then rotate 60 degrees toward me and act like he's just really popular by talking to me too much).

The male bartender is a friend of mine, 23 and good looking, and totally broke, and sleeping with two sketchy barmaids who have thrown themselves at me and I refused.

This is the kind of decision young single moms can afford to make in the welfare state. I was someone who actually could have afforded to give her a good life (if I dated single moms), and she was choosing the welfare state and hotter, younger guys who aren't even available.

Single moms (and hot women in general) tend to be remarkably bad decision makers, and society enables them. Shouldn't we tax the hotter women with the "You obviously could have found some man you could have kept happy - and he would have taken care of you if you weren't impossible tax"?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Today at the bar a very pretty single mom showed up with her (I must say not so cute) baby.

She was all over the male bartender, to the point where she did not so much as make eye contact with me - in 40 minutes of sitting next to me (frankly I can't stand people who don't engage their surroundings with at least a passing glance but that's an other story. Granted I had a c0ck blocking beta male in between us. His reaction was to get all nervous, pause during our conversation, then rotate 60 degrees toward me and act like he's just really popular by talking to me too much).

The male bartender is a friend of mine, 23 and good looking, and totally broke, and sleeping with two sketchy barmaids who have thrown themselves at me and I refused.

This is the kind of decision young single moms can afford to make in the welfare state. I was someone who actually could have afforded to give her a good life (if I dated single moms), and she was choosing the welfare state and hotter, younger guys who aren't even available.

Single moms (and hot women in general) tend to be remarkably bad decision makers, and society enables them. Shouldn't we tax the hotter women with the "You obviously could have found some man you could have kept happy - and he would have taken care of you if you weren't impossible tax"?
I learned my lesson. A single mom is a horror ltr just for the fact u are last in everything and not appreciated for shiiit.
 

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Everyone eventually pays for their bad decisions one way or another. Hot girls get away with a lot of sh*t, but eventually father time gives them a good spanking they never recover from. Must really suck.

I'm a single man in my early thirties and very excited about how my dating and sex prospects will keep improving. If I was a single woman this age I would be mortified. But that's assuming I had the capacity to be honest with myself.
 

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My physical trainer is about 60. I asked him this morning "If you were 47 like me, would you have a child?" He said no.

With my last girl I said to her "Tell you what, if you beg me to have kids, I'll consider it". She was pleased with that response. Men who want kids creep women out. Men should want women and women should want kids.
 

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My physical trainer is about 60. I asked him this morning "If you were 47 like me, would you have a child?" He said no.

With my last girl I said to her "Tell you what, if you beg me to have kids, I'll consider it". She was pleased with that response. Men who want kids creep women out. Men should want women and women should want kids.
Guys who want kids creep men out too.

I rarely meet guys like that, but when I do I usually think they're gay until they mention being married or having a girlfriend.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There is no people shortage. Yes, a smart people shortage, but I really don't want to make more people. I hate people.
 

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Today at the bar a very pretty single mom showed up with her (I must say not so cute) baby.

She was all over the male bartender, to the point where she did not so much as make eye contact with me - in 40 minutes of sitting next to me (frankly I can't stand people who don't engage their surroundings with at least a passing glance but that's an other story. Granted I had a c0ck blocking beta male in between us. His reaction was to get all nervous, pause during our conversation, then rotate 60 degrees toward me and act like he's just really popular by talking to me too much).

The male bartender is a friend of mine, 23 and good looking, and totally broke, and sleeping with two sketchy barmaids who have thrown themselves at me and I refused.

This is the kind of decision young single moms can afford to make in the welfare state. I was someone who actually could have afforded to give her a good life (if I dated single moms), and she was choosing the welfare state and hotter, younger guys who aren't even available.

Single moms (and hot women in general) tend to be remarkably bad decision makers, and society enables them. Shouldn't we tax the hotter women with the "You obviously could have found some man you could have kept happy - and he would have taken care of you if you weren't impossible tax"?

Trust me, you didn't want to me that MILF's provider. Save your money for something worthwhile.

Single moms are meant to be pumped and dumped. The bartender will probably do this to her and she will feel attraction to him for doing it.

If you're saying that welfare moms are bad decision makers and this disincentivizes gold digging, I would think this is somewhat of a good thing, no?
 

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Trust me, you didn't want to me that MILF's provider. Save your money for something worthwhile.

Single moms are meant to be pumped and dumped. The bartender will probably do this to her and she will feel attraction to him for doing it.

If you're saying that welfare moms are bad decision makers and this disincentivizes gold digging, I would think this is somewhat of a good thing, no?
This woman is taxing you and I so she can make another bad decision. The fact we don't have to directly take care of her doesn't make up for the fact we still do (minus the sex).
 

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Granted I had a c0ck blocking beta male in between us. His reaction was to get all nervous, pause during our conversation, then rotate 60 degrees toward me and act like he's just really popular by talking to me too much).
Well, at least he was trying to display some value and some social proof, which is what PUAs teach you to do. In this case I think you call that beta game.
 

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What all you so-called DJ's don't understand about single moms is you have to be put above her children...if you don't then the ex is cucking you in a way,my theory is if she puts you first (above the kids,and she will do it ) then you can beat Desdinova's " high score theory" it works with hb 7 ,hb8,hb9 single moms.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What all you so-called DJ's don't understand about single moms is you have to be put above her children...if you don't then the ex is cucking you in a way,my theory is if she puts you first (above the kids,and she will do it ) then you can beat Desdinova's " high score theory" it works with hb 7 ,hb8,hb9 single moms.
and then it will show she is useless even to the only thing we really want from a woman, I said this before the main problem with single mom is its a no win for you, you won't be her first in the line, and if you are then she is not a good mom with makes her a really bad prospect to everything, if she can stop caring for her own kid you really can expect to her care about you?
 

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and then it will show she is useless even to the only thing we really want from a woman, I said this before the main problem with single mom is its a no win for you, you won't be her first in the line, and if you are then she is not a good mom with makes her a really bad prospect to everything, if she can stop caring for her own kid you really can expect to her care about you?
Yes, the question becomes: "Do you want a woman who abandoned the man she procreated with, along with her own offspring - for a shot and a line, respectively?"
 

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Nevermind that fact that she ignored you, wtf kind of woman actually goes to a bar and brings her baby with her? I'm pretty sure most bars don't even allow that. Even if it's a rest/bar like TGIF's. That's kind of fvcked up.
 

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and then it will show she is useless even to the only thing we really want from a woman, I said this before the main problem with single mom is its a no win for you, you won't be her first in the line, and if you are then she is not a good mom with makes her a really bad prospect to everything, if she can stop caring for her own kid you really can expect to her care about you?
Well said.

Single moms should be left to be single, and mom's forever. Ive dated 2. F them.
 
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