BPD's can control their behavior…they choose not to

[noBSgames]

It was ridiculous the fights she would instigate,over NOTHING.
I used to get mad when i was younger, now i am in disbelief of such difficulties

Mine would do the same picking fights and arguments over made up stuff like if my phone went off it was always who is that or your other girl is texting you it's like shut the hell up. She kept doing it.. then she got to the point where she would blame me for her actions.. mind you I remember her blaming me back when I used to share my location with her one night it showed me on a different street about 2 miles away... holy crap she flipped I woke up with like 1,000 mad red faces on my phone she did not want to hear the reason why it happened ( concrete walls) she had already made up her mind. I should of known when I first called her she's like (I've seen you in my dreams like I know you and I was meant for you) man some of the crap she said it's going to be hard to forget

 

[exhausted]

It was something, power. She was likely trying to shrink and diminishes some of your strength so she could be more prominent.

It was control for sure. Very controlling. And negative. And bossy. And mean.
But only half the time

 

[mrgoodstuff]

It was control for sure. Very controlling. And negative. And bossy. And mean.
But only half the time

Eff her

 

[Billtx49]

It was control for sure. Very controlling. And negative. And bossy. And mean.
But only half the time

Be glad she didn't go physical on you. Some do…

 

[noBSgames]

Mine did.. and when I forced her hands and arms away she started laughing.. man you should of saw the look on her face if it was not for me restraining her I would of got up and walked out.. it was creepy as hell.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Mine did.. and when I forced her hands and arms away she started laughing.. man you should of saw the look on her face if it was not for me restraining her I would of got up and walked out.. it was creepy as hell.

Like the devil I imagine. That's her B's ego.

 

[noBSgames]

That's going to be hard to erase out of my mind

 

[exhausted]

Be glad she didn't go physical on you. Some do…

I would laugh if she did. I have been boxing all my life along with studying other fighting disciplines. Not that i would ever hit a girl but it would just be a joke is all to see her act out like that. She did go crazy on me one time when i was driving and grabbed and pushed my right shoulder from the passenger seat, i just looked at her stupid and she stopped.
What a joke these girls can be

 

[noBSgames]

I would laugh if she did. I have been boxing all my life along with studying other fighting disciplines. Not that i would ever hit a girl but it would just be a joke is all to see her act out like that. She did go crazy on me one time when i was driving and grabbed and pushed my right shoulder from the passenger seat, i just looked at her stupid and she stopped.
What a joke these girls can be

Speaking about crazy while driving mine tried to jam my car in park while I was pulling off I raised my voice so loud she said I scared her. You don't screw with someone else's property more so if you don't own a car yourself

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Like the devil I imagine. That's her B's ego.

Old girl grinned like the devil because she KNEW she was phvcking you and you wouldn't do jack about it. Imagine a buddy that's male that physically dominate you and sticks it in. That type of mindset.

 

[noBSgames]

I see my ex has posted a picture of her birthday yesterday and she was like this makes up for last year and she posts a picture of some guy she's so stupid I can't find myself ever going back to her.. I'm just waiting for her to try be it her showing me her breasts or vajay jay

 

[exhausted]

Speaking about crazy while driving mine tried to jam my car in park while I was pulling off I raised my voice so loud she said I scared her. You don't screw with someone else's property more so if you don't own a car yourself

What a cvnt. These girls think they can get away with anything

 

[JonnyD123]

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[noBSgames]

What a cvnt. These girls think they can get away with anything

And the funny thing was she was like you better never speak to me like that again

 

[noBSgames]

She's back to her little mind games it's ether she had a replacement lined up well before we broke up or she's trying to make me jealous but I think it's the former. She would say stuff that would be crazy for a girlfriend of 2 years to even say.. like all these guys were trying to talk to me or I talked talking to this guy he had a nice car and we have breakfast every morning. Then she would get mad at me because I would stop her before she could finish.

 

[exhausted]

She's back to her little mind games it's ether she had a replacement lined up well before we broke up or she's trying to make me jealous but I think it's the former. She would say stuff that would be crazy for a girlfriend of 2 years to even say.. like all these guys were trying to talk to me or I talked talking to this guy he had a nice car and we have breakfast every morning. Then she would get mad at me because I would stop her before she could finish.

What a ****ing cvnt

 

[051AV]

And the funny thing was she was like you better never speak to me like that again

LOL isn't a BPDs temper fun lol, mine would get so angry at me she demanded that I give her an apology, she would lash out in anger at me then start getting all emotional. Its got to be their child like mentality because mine sure acted like a child at times. You will recover from being with a BPD, once you've been with one you know what to look for the next time you get installed with a crazy meter when you've been with a BPD.

 

[noBSgames]

What a ****ing cvnt

More the reason I don't feel bad at all and the more I look back she never really cared for anything I did.. we went to Disney world last year for vacation I paid for the hotel for the week rented a car went to a nice place to eat for the two nights I spent near $800 but she started to rage about the 3rd day in about how I did not spend money and she was spending all the money and I was like I'm not buying all this overpriced stuff at Disney between the food and the gift shops... so pretty much my $800 meant nothing at all. I've had her cry and stop like a light switch and it left me like a what the.. in my head it was very disturbing. I remember she was in my arms crying because she was pretty much talking to this guy in text and I turned around and was going to walk out the door.. she started the crying bit.. after her sob story about how she was sorry and it won't happen again she went back to finding ways to put the blame on me.

 

[noBSgames]

LOL isn't a BPDs temper fun lol, mine would get so angry at me she demanded that I give her an apology, she would lash out in anger at me then start getting all emotional. Its got to be their child like mentality because mine sure acted like a child at times. You will recover from being with a BPD, once you've been with one you know what to look for the next time you get installed with a crazy meter when you've been with a BPD.

Mine did the same thing she demanded that I apologize when I finally had enough and I said no holy cow that pissed her off she went to my mom and she started telling her I was starting to become more rude to her.. no that's just me putting my foot down and getting tired of the BS

 

[btownbuck2012]

I've had her cry and stop like a light switch and it left me like a what the.. in my head it was very disturbing. I remember she was in my arms crying because she was pretty much talking to this guy in text and I turned around and was going to walk out the door.. she started the crying bit.. after her sob story about how she was sorry and it won't happen again she went back to finding ways to put the blame on me.

It's all about control for them. They have to dominate you. However, the second you call them out on their bad behavior they switch to the victim mode, here is where you'll get the fake tears. They're either the bully or the victim and nothing else in between. Both the bully and the victim are different ways to CONTROL you.