"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is the meme of an 8-year old drag queen indicative of a deep sociosexual problem?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kids as young as 2 know when they identify as a different gender. If you want to force them to fit into a social mold they are more likely to be depressed and or attempt suicide.

have faith that everyone will find their path, the path that is for them, and not for anyone else.
 

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Kids as young as 2 know when they identify as a different gender. If you want to force them to fit into a social mold they are more likely to be depressed and or attempt suicide.

have faith that everyone will find their path, the path that is for them, and not for anyone else.
if your kid considers himself a horse would you do something to fix it or would you buy him a saddle to help him confirm his natural identity?
 

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I think there is a deeper meaning here: that society just doesn't have much use for real men anymore.
No. There are very few people like this, it's a tiny tiny part of society. You make it sound like most of society is like this, which it isn't. You just see stuff like this in the media exactly because it is so unusual, it generates a lot of clicks, people talk about and share it, more clicks and lots of ad revenue.

You don't hear about normal men in the media because it's ordinary and nobody would click on videos and articles about stuff they see every day. Doesn't mean ordinary men are useless, we're just not newsworthy because we're not freaks.

It's like people fearing terrorism but drive around in traffic without a single worry. Rationally speaking there's far more reason to fear traffic, but people fear what they hear most about especially when it's a rare occurrence. It's like that attraction in an amusement park that failed recently and killed 1 (one!!!) person, everyday things are still many times more risky, but still we fear the most unlikely things most.

I don't bother with weird people, they're few and far between. Society won't suddenly turn into LGBT people on a large scale, it just won't happen.
 

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if your kid considers himself a horse would you do something to fix it or would you buy him a saddle to help him confirm his natural identity?
If you want to be serious, instead of immature, let me know and we can talk about it like adults.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I always wonder what my parents would do if I was this far gone as a child. This type of stuff didn't exist back then, it just didn't make sense lol
 

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If you want to be serious, instead of immature, let me know and we can talk about it like adults.
I got this one, its a quote from some old boring lady...ehm not sure if its my auntie or my middle school teacher, any hint?
 

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If you want to be serious, instead of immature, let me know and we can talk about it like adults.
Gee willikers.....I think she is shaming you! You better act like she wants or else!
 
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