"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Coincidences

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My life is a series of the most uncanny coincidences.

I mentioned last year when I met my last girlfriend I was seated with her and two other beauties. I remembered all of their birthdays. One said "You are with the three Alphas". The third girl went on stage and I pulled off a 3-way kiss with the other two, then I left. My soon to be girlfriend (one of the two I kissed) later said that some girls came over after and said "You two should date!"

I never saw the other two girls again (and broke up with the third girl 5 weeks ago).

Well tonight, on my birthday, I went to the club. I didn't see any hot girls - except one. I walked over and tipped her and asked her if she had any tattoos. She said "Don't I know you?" and I asked her birthday. It took me a minute. I realized it was the third girl from last year! I went back over and said "We did meet. We met last September 23" (the day my 9 month relationship started).

She ended up sitting with me so I asked "Last year when I saw you, did you tell the other girl she should date me?" and she said "Oh my God! I did! I'm a matchmaker like that!"

So get this: she asked me "What day is your birthday?" and I said "Do you really want to know?" and I told her it was today. So she let me rub her feet.

She is 5'7" and 22. She agreed to do some photography next week - the midpoint between our birthdays (my theoretical best day of the year for any couple). This girl is born precisely 3 months from my last girlfriend (in theory her perfect Lesbian match, something I told them last year).

Anyhow, she gave me a kiss to remember. I can now say I kissed all three Alphas.

Do you ever notice crazy coincidences and wonder if that is a sign you are on the right path in life?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
This is probably the weirdest 'birthday gift' you could have gotten....
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Not when you have a foot fetish!

Last September I was rubbing my last girlfriend's feet in front of this girl so she knew.

Tonight she braided her hair in front of me and it made my heart sing. She looks strikingly like my last girlfriend, only taller. I showed her some photos and scores and she said "I will score higher!"

I truly was with the three Alphas that day. Those are the three hottest girls I ever saw there. As you guys know, most strippers aren't that great. I usually only like 1 in 50. So the odds of being with 3 I like are 1 in 125,000.

I realize that because I always seek self improvement, the whole process over the last 10 months of dating the first girl out of the 3 was like a boot camp training session. One girl trained me to please the other.

All of our women do this. They train us to keep the next (and always better) girl happy.
 
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bigneil said:
Do you ever notice crazy coincidences and wonder if that is a sign you are on the right path in life?
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I believe everything is predetermined or "predestined" if you will by God,remember even the very hairs on your head are numbered....(Luke 12:7) There are no coincidences.
 
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Red Legg said:
I believe everything is predetermined or "predestined" if you will by God,remember even the very hairs on your head are numbered....(Luke 12:7) There are no coincidences.
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I like Forrest Gump's take on it:
"I don't know if we each have a destiny, or if we're all just floating around accidental-like on a breeze, but I think maybe it's both. Maybe both is happening at the same time."
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I won't be surprised if I don't get a date with this girl from last year though. I chose the other one over her and girls usually never forget that. They want to be the best girl on Earth and she wasn't even the best girl at the table that day.
 
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She not only replied to my first text but confirmed the day of our first date which I mentioned last night.

That's a new record for me - a girl confirming a date in her first text.

Last week a girl confirmed a date in her second text. Even then I thought that is too fast to rely on her not flaking.

What is the optimal number of texts for a date?
 
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bigneil said:
She not only replied to my first text but confirmed the day of our first date which I mentioned last night.

That's a new record for me - a girl confirming a date in her first text.

Last week a girl confirmed a date in her second text. Even then I thought that is too fast to rely on her not flaking.

What is the optimal number of texts for a date?
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Depends on the girl and particular situation. This girl already met you before and you have social proof because you dated a girl she knows.

If it was someone you just met on Tinder it might not be a good sign if she confirmed a date after 1 text. I'd say at least 3-7 texts if she's completely new and you have never met in person before.
 
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