"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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article: Will Darwinism Kill Feminism?

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https://heatst.com/culture-wars/will-darwinism-kill-feminism
They are claiming that modern men are too stupid – or “feel threatened by their success” – to date 30-something “selfish career women,” who are increasingly having to freeze their eggs until they meet men they deem worthy of siring their children.
... these women were buying extra time because they were experiencing a “dearth of educated men”. Academics blamed this not on “selfish career women” but instead “sweeping social changes” and, of course, men.
“There is a major gap – they are literally missing men. In simple terms, this is about an oversupply of educated women”.
For the first time in human history, reproductive destiny is slipping from women’s grasp, and that is due to their own lifestyle choices.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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EDIT: This is a different article that references the same study in an earlier thread.
 

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From my experiences on other message boards lately, Darwinism is making a "Very Strong showing" among Alpha people nowadays.
Better jump on the bandwagon or we'll get left behind. LOL
 

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Feminism might be the last gasp [and distortion] of the idea of equality... which occurred no doubt due to the collapse of morality into politics. One wonders what a Darwinist world would really be like. I for one am not looking forward to it.
 

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Umm....you're already here and have been since "The origin of species".

Darwinism isn't a set of beliefs, it's tested, empirical evidence based understanding of the world.

You don't decide what your reality is, the world has been "Darwinist" since Darwin's discoveries busted the flush of creationism.

Or did God plant those dinosaur bones? That must be it. I suppose the details will be skipped over pretty quickly.....look over there!
Well, there is a popular social Darwinism that's stripped of all morality, humanism, and teleology. It is this politicization of Darwin that is dangerous. Just imagine what the world will like look if society was stripped of all moral constraints and based on brute force - there would be no society. Law and institutions are human artifacts, civilization is a collective, rational, cultural achievement.... or am I being too 'wordy' for you.

There are many ways to argue against a purely Darwinist view of the world that need not rely on 'Creation Science'. Many secular humanists do it very well.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Let me tell you something. If an EMP hits we will find out about real Darwinsim very fast.

Me? I'm headed to @bigneil in Texas if that happens. I'm hot, fit & can shoot straight & cook. He's big & can protect me & mine. I'll help him sort the young things. I'll show up packing & with gas and free labor in tow.

You can take The girl out of Texas; you'll never get Texas out of the girl ;)
 

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Dear MDJ,
"Will Darwinism kill Feminism?"....Most Philosophies carry within themselves the seeds of their own destruction...Feminism is a case in point and this article puts up a good case in arguing this point of view...No question in my mind that Feminism has been a major factor in the dangerous decline of Births in most of the Western World...Plain fact is we are not replacing ourselves...There was a weird Religious sect in the days of Tzarist Russia called the Skeptze,who also had a Death wish,the principal tenet of their belief was the evil of Sex and Lust...Male members were castrated and Females had their Breasts removed,which certainly dampened their enthusiasm for the deadly deed...Of course they died out fairly quickly...Interestingly there was for the Guys a silver lining in that like Castrati elsewhere,they lived placid,peaceful lives and managed to score an extra seven years life on normal Men.
 

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Feminism is a case in point and this article puts up a good case in arguing this point of view...No question in my mind that Feminism has been a major factor in the dangerous decline of Births in most of the Western World...Plain fact is we are not replacing ourselves...
The problem is, Darwinism will not cause women to change.

Women generally live for how they feel 'in the moment'. They've been riding on their entitlement, their privilege, their ability to get away with being selfish, their looks, and the laws that lean in their favour. They are NOT going to think about their reproductive organs, why men don't find them attractive, and what they can do to fix it. It's the men who need to show them that, and we're running a bit low on real men these days.

What I can see turning things around is the LGBTQ community. Feminism helped nurture this community into something more powerful. They felt bad for those who weren't able to procreate because of their natural feelings or their desires to identify as a different "gender", and got excited at the ability to help the rest of the world see that LGBTQ are people with special needs.

The problem is now the LGBTQ community is starting to eat it's mother. If a man wants to "identify" as a woman and participate in female sporting events, he should have every right to do so. If a man who "identifies" as a woman wants to use women's change rooms, he should have every right to do so. Feminism doesn't WANT this. It's not only taking the rights away from women, but it's giving rights back to men, albeit in a very unusual way. Women, including feminists, are now beginning to feel threatened and vulnerable and it's not by men, it's by the LGBTQ community that THEY supported!

Who is going to protect them?

What about the men? Oh wait, where are all the men? The ones who originally wanted to protect women when they were vulnerable creatures before the wave of feminism?

Those men have abandoned women because these women have told men that they can stand up for themselves and be independent. Now they have these LGBTQ creeps going into their locker rooms. Not only that, feminism has turned LOTS of men into feminists, and because men are not worried about being creeped on by the male trannies who identify as women, they are going to be SUPPORTING these trannies!

LOOK AT THE PENDULUM STARTING TO SWING THE OTHER WAY!
LOOK AT THE BACKLASH THAT IS GOING TO RESULT!

The next decade is going to be very interesting indeed!
 
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