#1 Key to Seduction

[bigneil]

The next time you find a girl who might be your dream girl, do this: disappear in the middle of the interaction. Don't let her see you leave. She will look for you for a long time and in her mind she will start a thread that seeks you. It will fade into a background thread in her subconscious mind. The next time she sees you, that thread will be resolved and she will think "There he is!!". She will run over to see you and you will own her.

 

[bigneil]

I don't see how you can leave in the middle of an interaction and not have her see you leave

Example: she's a waitress and she goes to get someone a drink. She's a bartender and she goes in the back room. She's a stripper and she goes on stage. It's actually ok if she sees you leave as long as she is in the middle of something and can't stop you.

I've never done this on purpose in order to increase her interest, but I've observed for many years (because I'm not a goodbye person) that the girls who like me best will come running over and ask "Where did you go last time? I looked everywhere!"

Note: they have to like you first before this does any good.

 

[bigneil]

Sunday night I met a girl who had the same braids as my last girlfriend on our first date, so I complimented her. Then I showed her a photo of my last girl wearing those exact braids. Then later she was flirting and I asked if she was single and she said "Yes, are YOU single?" Then I asked her birthday and they were born the same year. Then I asked her name and get this: she has the same name as my last girlfriend! She said she wanted to do modeling but I snuck out on her.

So last night I had ESP that she was at work again. So I walked in and I was literally exactly one step behind her walking in the same direction - and she had new braids - I followed her all the way to the back room and waited. She came back out and ran over and hugged me and asked where I went last time, and wrote her number down. So I ordered a drink (she is a waitress at a strip club) and I went over to tip the girl on stage and recognized the girl on stage as another girl who wanted to do modeling, born the same year and also with the same name (I now have 3 girls with that name in my phone, after 0 in my first 46 years). I snuck out again and both girls already texted back and asked where I disappeared to.

 

[Urbanyst]

Per usual.. treating women WELL turns them off.

They love abuse and dysfunction.

 

[RangerMIke]

The next time you find a girl who might be your dream girl, do this: disappear in the middle of the interaction. Don't let her see you leave. She will look for you for a long time and in her mind she will start a thread that seeks you. It will fade into a background thread in her subconscious mind. The next time she sees you, that thread will be resolved and she will think "There he is!!". She will run over to see you and you will own her.

This does work. I never really thought about it before, but you are right, I will have not had any contact with a chick in a while... than all of the sudden you meet them at a party and they are all over you. This happened to me a couple of weeks ago. I had a drinks date with a chick, and I thought things went well... when I reached out to her a week later she flaked. So I just walked away... fast forward a couple of months and there I am at a party and she's all over me... wondering why she hadn't seen me.

I think chicks are just really surprised when they come across men that don't chase them.... and you become more desirable.

 

[bigneil]

This girl from last night is already calling me love and baby and agreed to our first date on her second text.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Yep, this is 100% true and confirmed.

If you're a club / bar hopper, go early when it first opens. Park yourself at the bar and grab numbers early and often. Then bounce. They'll wonder where you disappeared to.

Always leave things early. Even your dates. YOU be the one to end it.

 

[bigneil]

Wearing a new custom tailored suit (where you pick the material and choose every option, and it takes 6 weeks, and then they fit it and it takes another week) and bow tie doesn't hurt either. Girls actually said "nice suit!" both times I wore one suit (buy one get one free at Jos A Bank - I haven't worn the other yet).

 

[darksprezzatura]

Per usual.. treating women WELL turns them off.

They love abuse and dysfunction.

Try that with women with extremely strong loving father figures. They'll smirk and hand your balls on a platter. Neil's observation works because a man who walks away on his own conveys non-neediness. It's not abuse.

 

[zekko]

I understand now, this works if you have good social skills and if you can create intrest.

I would say that bit there is the real "#1 key to seduction". Anyone can get up and leave. But not everyone has good social skills and can create interest in the first place.

 

[bigneil]

Try that with women with extremely strong loving father figures. They'll smirk and hand your balls on a platter.

I'm not sure this is true. My last girlfriend adores her father. The first 3 times I saw her I got her interested, then vanished and (she would later admit) she went looking for me all 3 times, each time asking coworkers where I went. The fourth time I saw her she sat on my lap and won me over. The club quickly banned girls from doing that. It's too sexy.

 

[darksprezzatura]

I'm not sure this is true. My last girlfriend adores her father. The first 3 times I saw her I got her interested, then vanished and (she would later admit) she went looking for me all 3 times, each time asking coworkers where I went. The fourth time I saw her she sat on my lap and won me over.

I was talking about being abusive. Walking away isn't abusive. It's probably the strongest display of strength a man can exhibit.

 

[bigneil]

Walking away is... probably the strongest display of strength a man can exhibit.

I realized I'm probably the only man in her entire life to walk away. She's probably holding out thinking "he can't possibly not write to me". She told me on our second date "Every man I've ever dated has asked me to marry them". I believe her too. A beautiful, sweet, rich girl with a brilliant mind. But she was dealing with a master seducer. It took me these extra 25 years to catch up to what a 21 year old woman naturally has.

 

[Urbanyst]

Try that with women with extremely strong loving father figures. They'll smirk and hand your balls on a platter. Neil's observation works because a man who walks away on his own conveys non-neediness. It's not abuse.

Abuse, rejection.. whatever. The point is.. women like it when you rock the boat. They don't enjoy peace or environments free of dysfunction.