"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FR - weekend

Bingo-Player

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ok so I've had a bit of a weird weekend

give my EX gf her final marching orders on Thursday - i declined her offer to meet and "talk" and told her I'm not interested anymore

after i did that strangely it felt like something had been lifted from the back of my mind an uncertainty if you like

on friday i came home after work and had a nice long chill out , decided i was going to make the most of this weekend

on Saturday i get up and start shooting off " what you up too " texts to my friends I'm not getting much in the way of responses so decide to take the day by the scuff of the neck and head out on my own

i go into town and run some errands , i find myself at a loose end and I'm a semi pro gambler so decide to head to the casino

spend about 2 hours in there chatting to people and making money i clear about 250 profit and decide thats enough to have a good night

I'm still not getting much back from my mates, my group of friends are useless they all like to hang out on the outskirts of the city in dive pubs just drinking to get smashed and it pi$$es me off

this is no good for me because my main priority when going out is pu$$y

it would of been easy for me at this point too just say f@ck it and stay in

then i notice on Facebook its an old friends birthday i ring him up to see what he's up too says he's going into town with his brother and i can hook up with them later

SWEET I've finally got a base to work from , i buy a small bottle of vodka and head back to my place to get ready

usually i would use the getting ready phase to text plates and arrange to meet them problem is because I've been in a relationship for 6 months ...........I've got 0 plates :(

although one of my more sociable friends finally gets back to me and says he's gonna come out and he's got a group of chicks we can meet

( nights starting to take shape now )

we head into town and meet the girls theres 4 of them 3 blondes and a brunette .......( with birds 3 is a problem because one inevitably ends up getting jealous but with 4 you can work on 2 of them and the other 2 will occupy themselves ) useful if you ever find yourself in a set like that

2 of the blondes are keen on me I've got one hell of a bad boy reputation in my area and they've heard of me i get to work on both of them and they both want the D , i kiss both of them and i notice this causes some friction ( guess a threesomes off the agenda ) i decide to be diplomatic and that this can be finished at a later date

i wonder off and pull another couple of chicks but notice I'm getting WAY too drunk (something i need to work on again )

i take myself home with a couple of numbers and lipstick marks

summary :

so i realise this story isn't very exciting and not a lot happened but in my mind it did i needed this weekend to make me realise i am still a fvcking DON at attracting women and that if anything my failed relationship has made me even stronger

also pay attention to the law of attraction working in the story

everything was against me going out .....nobody text me back , the weather was raining and sh1t and i didnt really have enough money to go out

i took each of those problems on head to head and the universe rewarded me for my persistence

going to follow the 2 blondes up later this evening ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheMonkeyKing

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Good man. Glad you finally sacked the ex off.

Onward and upward.
 

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Good man. Glad you finally sacked the ex off.

Onward and upward.
cheers for support TMK

yep she's been permanently removed from snapchat, insta , Facebook etc etc

think I've learnt more in the last 2 months about life than i had in the previous 2 years but hey ho !!
 
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