Girls who only know how to take, but cant give back

[Jetleg]

I don't know if thats a new thing nowadays,and I'm don't even necessarily talk about relationships, rather in general.

I don't mind giving and helping other people, but it seems many girls are not reliable when it comes to giving back.

For exampe, my uni mate was sick and kindly asked a female friend to sign for him in the course attedence sheet. Not sure if thats a thing in the states but in universities in Europe you need to sign in almost every course. Anyway this b1tch "forgot" to sign for him and now he needs to do the course again. (Thats an extra semester) Funny thing is, she never comes to uni and asks everyone to sign for her.

Today she texts me and asks me if i can sign for her in a course that takes place right now (its f*cking Saturday). I'm talking Like 5 minutes after the course began. "Can't make it, was raining crazy last night" (WTF, f*ck off b1tch) - I told her "No". She went crazy and texted me like 10 texts and i just ignored her. She never even says hello to me and expects me to do her a favor after she f*cked my mate... b1tch f*ck off.

Another example: i arranged a party in my home, and invited some friends. I told everyone - if you come in groups, bring some alcohol. Guess what? All the guys brought nice stuff to drink. And the girls brought... nothing.

I can't remember seeing a young female giving her seat to an elderly person in a buss. Its almost always a guy.

I'm not saying it's exclusively women, but they are significantly less reliable when it comes to giving back. I'm sick of this selfish mentality women have this days.

 

[bigneil]

That's why I have a strict rule that after a date, if they don't send a thank-you note, they never hear from me again.

Also, that's why you should make them pay for a few dates to prove themselves.

 

[Jetleg]

That's why I have a strict rule that after a date, if they don't send a thank-you note, they never hear from me again.

Also, that's why you should make them pay for a few dates to prove themselves.

Yeah i agree.

Thats why if im asking her out for the first time its gonna be for a coffee.

As for paying my experience is that most women would rather blow their dad's c0ck than pay for a date. They live in a society where everyone admire them and will give them sh!t for free.

I was going with a plate to the beach, i paid for cab on the way there but on the way back i told her its her turn. She made such a scene its not even worth it. She paid and bought me lunch too later on but only after a lot of complaining about how women should not pay... f*cking makes my nerves boil.

I have zero tolerance for em b1tches mate

 

[bigneil]

Yeah i agree.

Thats why if im asking her out for the first time its gonna be for a coffee.

As for paying my experience is that most women would rather blow their dad's c0ck than pay for a date. They live in a society where everyone admire them and will give them sh!t for free.

I was going with a plate to the beach, i paid for cab on the way there but on the way back i told her its her turn. She made such a scene its not even worth it. She paid and bought me lunch too later on but only after a lot of complaining about how women should not pay... f*cking makes my nerves boil.

I have zero tolerance for em b1tches mate

All dates should be in a position where there is some chance for sex to happen. So at least choose coffee in the evening, at a place where you could walk to a hotel if she wants.

I first got my last girlfriend to pay for a date on our 5th date last December. Months later in March (in my bed) she told me she could not believe I pulled that off, that I was a master negotiator. Until then she always thought she was the master. By then she was telling me she loved me. You need to get them invested or they won't truly be able to fall for you.

 

[Masculinity]

I don't know if thats a new thing nowadays,and I'm don't even necessarily talk about relationships, rather in general.

I don't mind giving and helping other people, but it seems many girls are not reliable when it comes to giving back.

For exampe, my uni mate was sick and kindly asked a female friend to sign for him in the course attedence sheet. Not sure if thats a thing in the states but in universities in Europe you need to sign in almost every course. Anyway this b1tch "forgot" to sign for him and now he needs to do the course again. (Thats an extra semester) Funny thing is, she never comes to uni and asks everyone to sign for her.

Today she texts me and asks me if i can sign for her in a course that takes place right now (its f*cking Saturday). I'm talking Like 5 minutes after the course began. "Can't make it, was raining crazy last night" (WTF, f*ck off b1tch) - I told her "No". She went crazy and texted me like 10 texts and i just ignored her. She never even says hello to me and expects me to do her a favor after she f*cked my mate... b1tch f*ck off.

Another example: i arranged a party in my home, and invited some friends. I told everyone - if you come in groups, bring some alcohol. Guess what? All the guys brought nice stuff to drink. And the girls brought... nothing.

I can't remember seeing a young female giving her seat to an elderly person in a buss. Its almost always a guy.

I'm not saying it's exclusively women, but they are significantly less reliable when it comes to giving back. I'm sick of this selfish mentality women have this days.

You handled the class situation well. Some of these women have a delusional sense of entitlement or believe that by attending a party they're already doing you a favor.

 

[El Payaso]

Because women are taught and learn from an early age that the world owes them whatever they want. That and men supplicate to them at the snap of their fingers. They have no incentive to be generous or loyal in return.

 

[darksprezzatura]

That's why I have a strict rule that after a date, if they don't send a thank-you note, they never hear from me again.

Also, that's why you should make them pay for a few dates to prove themselves.

Same. Unless I get a 'Thanks I had a great time', it's a soft next.

Today I'm going out with this girl for the 5th time and I generally pick up the tab. It's 70-30 right now.

How do you make them pay to prove themselves?
Dynamics: We've slept together once.

 

[Konada]

Well you missed an perfect opportunity to play her out... I would've just agreed in text and then 'forget' to sign her in. B!tch needs to be taught a lesson.

 

[bigneil]

Same. Unless I get a 'Thanks I had a great time', it's a soft next.

Today I'm going out with this girl for the 5th time and I generally pick up the tab. It's 70-30 right now.

How do you make them pay to prove themselves?
Dynamics: We've slept together once.

I told my last girl she should pay for 1/5 dates (20%) because that's her tipping me basically.