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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

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Plate Wants Equality, Power Play?

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So i get a text from my plate today..

I want things more equal.. i don't think you want to give me that.. or can give me that..

It's not all about sex blah blah blah

Bit of background.. I have had a dom/sub relationship with this chick..
So i was quite dominant with her..

Especially sexually.. dominate, tie her up, and bang her hard..


Plus i let her do pretty much all of the texting.. she does the good mornings and good nights etc..

I think she wants more power...


I just want to bang this chick and get as much sex out of her as possible...

She is killing the sex vibe...

How to proceed?
 

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I can tell she is already playing games with the texting..

She intentionally takes her time to text back.. waits for me to text her first...

Think she wants to hold some power...

I don't want a relationship with her... so would it matter to make it an equal playing field aslong as I am just banging her...

Could this be a chit test??
 

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It's a text, or a sign of disinterest bc new supply in the picture, or both.

Human nature is to become arrogant once you have more options and stability

This is the sense i am getting too... this why thinking I may just drop this plate...

Feel uneasy about sticking my dik inside her..
 

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Plus she is not sex texting as much as before
 

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Yeh i'm picking up bad vibes... she is coming over tonight.. i am thinking of banging her... the next day going GHOST

It's that gut instinct feeling you get... usually not a good idea to ignore it..

The sex with her is crazy, and this can become quite addictive..

I think i need to rid of this one before chit hits the fan... or keep my distance and only fuk her, when she is making a big effort to come and see me
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Just tell her u like the way things are, and that you're too player for all that other stuff. Just keep it G with her and then let her decide what she wants to do
 

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Just tell her u like the way things are, and that you're too player for all that other stuff. Just keep it G with her and then let her decide what she wants to do

I don't know man.. things where very sexual before, i had total control over her sex wise, even had her agreeing to a 3sum..

But she wants things equal... which is fine by me, but it's killing off the sexual vibe for me.

Also as other posters have suggested, i am noticing a decline in interest..

That could be because there is another dog in the yard?

She is preparing to dump?

Or simply because she is not happy with the current state of play.. i.e she wants things equal..

I usually let her do 80% of the texting, this may be bothering her.


All that being said, i have only been banging her 3 months, so not a big deal if i drop this plate or she drops me...

I can sense trouble ahead with this one
 

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Proceed with silence. Don't even respond. Wait a day or few until she messages you about a different subject. She'll get the message.

Too late for that man, i am seeing her tonight. I intend to bang her, and just ignore what she said..

I aint changing chit for her... if she walks then fuk her
 

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I don't know man.. things where very sexual before, i had total control over her sex wise, even had her agreeing to a 3sum..

But she wants things equal... which is fine by me, but it's killing off the sexual vibe for me.

Also as other posters have suggested, i am noticing a decline in interest..

That could be because there is another dog in the yard?

She is preparing to dump?

Or simply because she is not happy with the current state of play.. i.e she wants things equal..

I usually let her do 80% of the texting, this may be bothering her.


All that being said, i have only been banging her 3 months, so not a big deal if i drop this plate or she drops me...

I can sense trouble ahead with this one
it sounds like she thinks all you care about is sex. Try hitting her up just to talk sometimes, make her think u care. Maybe one day when she comes over don't have sex, just chill with her and act like u don't care about it. Because if she thinks that's all you want she'll try to withdraw it from u to try and control you, so i say beat her to the punch. That's if you really want to keep her around tho
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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it sounds like she thinks all you care about is sex. Try hitting her up just to talk sometimes, make her think u care. Maybe one day when she comes over don't have sex, just chill with her and act like u don't care about it. Because if she thinks that's all you want she'll try to withdraw it from u to try and control you, so i say beat her to the punch. That's if you really want to keep her around tho

Well she mentioned to me, that sex is not everything to her..

I agreed with her, and said... no it is not.. i guess it's about having a good balance..

I only said that chit to keep her sweet, she probably feels i have too much power over her, or all i care about is fuking her..

So maybe play it cool.. bang her and kinda show some caring too...

But reality is.. this chick is not worth anything more than a plate..

She is too sexual, she banged me within one hour of meeting.. she came straight to my house from POF

And immediate bang.. only worth keeping for sex, even then risky
 

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Well she mentioned to me, that sex is not everything to her..

I agreed with her, and said... no it is not.. i guess it's about having a good balance..

I only said that chit to keep her sweet, she probably feels i have too much power over her, or all i care about is fuking her..

So maybe play it cool.. bang her and kinda show some caring too...

But reality is.. this chick is not worth anything more than a plate..

She is too sexual, she banged me within one hour of meeting.. she came straight to my house from POF

And immediate bang.. only worth keeping for sex, even then risky
Ok u didnt say she was off pof.. yea **** that ho lol. Just enjoy It while it lasts. all good things gotta come to end eventually anyways right? All my plates off pof end up disappearing, or I lose interest. That's normal OLD stuff tho. Youll find another freak off there to replace her with
 
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Well she mentioned to me, that sex is not everything to her..

I agreed with her, and said... no it is not.. i guess it's about having a good balance..

I only said that chit to keep her sweet, she probably feels i have too much power over her, or all i care about is fuking her..

So maybe play it cool.. bang her and kinda show some caring too...

But reality is.. this chick is not worth anything more than a plate..

She is too sexual, she banged me within one hour of meeting.. she came straight to my house from POF

And immediate bang.. only worth keeping for sex, even then risky
When you met off POF, was it just based on her attraction to your muscles?

Did it even matter what you said?
 

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When you met off POF, was it just based on her attraction to your muscles?

Did it even matter what you said?

I just told her i wanted to to treat her like my sub... dominate her.. she drove over 2 hours, to fuk me
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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You need to elaborate more, but my guess is she feels like this relationship is all about you. Her needs aren't getting met is what she means by things not being equal. She likely feels all you want her for is sechs and she wants more. You know chics are kind of "relationship" minded. ;) She has handed out the sechs in order to get a relationship and you haven't given anything back to her.
 
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You need to elaborate more, but my guess is she feels like this relationship is all about you. Her needs aren't getting met is what she means by things not being equal. She likely feels all you want her for is sechs and she wants more. You know chics are kind of "relationship" minded. ;)

Yeh i'm getting that kinda vibe too... but I DO NOT want a relationship with her...

I could maybe pretend i can have one with her lol..


But if she isn't happy, i'm willing to let this plate go..
 
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You need to elaborate more, but my guess is she feels like this relationship is all about you. Her needs aren't getting met is what she means by things not being equal. She likely feels all you want her for is sechs and she wants more. You know chics are kind of "relationship" minded. ;)
Which is a fancy way of saying nothing. Get into a relationship with her so she can cheat on you as soon as she gets bored? After having wasted much of your time.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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