"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Females mentioning breaking up with bf

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So, in casual convo, she says she's about to break up because of this or that.
Obviously this isn't public info, or should not be. So it makes me think...
Is this possible branch swing, attention seeking, or my own projections of being da man since I did lose a little weight and am feeling myself hahaha.
Any similar stories?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thorninmyside

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Elaborate on this.
Girls who don't have boyfriends say "I have a boyfriend" when they want to put you off. Girls who tell you they'll be single soon want to be hit on, OR want to use you as their friendzoned listening b.tch. Don't listen to anything else on the matter. Just hit on her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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You seem like you've been here before. Any flirting tips? More touchy, less vocal.
I know touch goes a long way.
 

Thorninmyside

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I would spring a last-minute date on her, like call her 2 hours before on a Wednesday or Thursday and tell her you're on your way out to check out a bar or restaurant and invite her along. Don't listen to any of her relationship crap, just loosen her up with drinks, flirt and see what happens. You don't want it to sound like you've been thinking about it a long time.
 
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