"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Pure Infidelity

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Friday night I was in the zone. I had just seen the 20 year old stripper and then stopped by my local pub. I rarely have any success there, it's almost always a bunch of grumpy men. Sure enough, there were four women but they were all on dates.

However, I was in the zone. It was disturbing what occurred.

1) A man came over to me and said he wanted to introduce a woman (HB7) who he said liked me. She was totally attracted to me. I assumed she was single. Then I saw this terrible look on his face and I realized they were swingers, and she was trying to cuckold him. I could see it was breaking his heart. I did not take them up on the offer, instead buying him a Scotch.

2) My best friend the bartender said his girlfriend left him - on his birthday.

3) My second best friend's girl came over (HB6) and whispered in my ear "If you promise not to tell (his name), you can do whatever you want with me. I'll have a three way. I'll do anything you want. You can suck on my titties, but don't tell him!!" I would never do that to my friend.

4) The bartender said "That girl said she knows you" - I went over and (HB6) she took my photo and said "I like a man". But she was completely sauced so I left.

5) Both girls who were trying to cheat on their men with me commented that a girl at the bar was staring at me. She was. She was the hottest. HB8. Her boyfriend looked over his shoulder at me, and then stormed off! I went over and said hello. She said "Sit down. That guy was a loser. He used the N word." so I said "Are you single?" and she said "Yes, (looking at her phone) my girlfriend just pulled up so I have to go, but give me your phone" - and she put her number in. Or so I thought. She put HIS number in, and got me to text HIM about how nice her legs were.

6) All this the week my girlfriend divorces her husband and tells me she has a new third party already.

It made me wonder - what is it like for her, being at max SMV. If an old guy like me can have that many women throwing themselves at me, imagine what she sees at the strip club?

Is this what success with women looks like in 2017? I want to throw up.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I might suggest trying to hang out with different people. Just reading this one post alone based off your experience could really begin to make anyone jaded on society in general.
 

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I might suggest trying to hang out with different people. Just reading this one post alone based off your experience could really begin to make anyone jaded on society in general.
That didn't happen in a vacuum. That's just how women act when men look good.

Not many men understood women like Billy Joel.

 

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I was at the lake this weekend hanging with some wealthy men who own nice yachts. They were late 40's to early 50's. All of them had big guts, bald spots, and were pretty boring to talk to. And you guessed it, they all had attractive women with them that were 10-15yrs younger. It was clear that these girls weren't into their men as I observed their interactions the entire day. These men provided financially for these women and that was the root of their attraction. One of the girls gets railed by some hot younger guy on the side. One of the others is a swinger. Both of these girls were smiling and giving me the eye several times thru out the day. I got more attention from them than they gave their men. I've seen this dynamic play out many times.

Just like @RangerMIke said on another post....if you want to play this game with the same woman long term, you risk your mental health and emotional stability. Its really flat disgusting to me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That didn't happen in a vacuum. That's just how women act when men look good.
Are you sure? I classify it as poor impulse control, but also pu$$y men letting their women get away with this crap. In my entire life I have never once been hit up by a woman telling me I can do whatever I want with her despite her man being there with her because she's cucking him out.

So either I look like the hunchback from Notre Dame or I've just not been seen in those types of places. ....ok maybe a little of both.
 

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In my entire life I have never once been hit up by a woman telling me I can do whatever I want with her despite her man being there...
Is this supposed to be a good thing?

I just gave 6 examples - 6 out of the 7 women I saw. I don't think I was that lucky/unlucky. I'm in one of the nicer suburbs of Atlanta. I think it was a sample of the bar crowd population.
 

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One of the girls gets railed by some hot younger guy on the side. . Its really flat disgusting to me.
If he's so hot, why is she hanging out with richer, older guys?

Oh yeah, it's because the hot guy has no money. She is faithful to neither.

Why do you think the guy born with looks is intrinsically superior to the man who had to work hard to earn money?
 
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