Greetings from Vietnam (temporary)

[Antonio94]

Hi everyone! I'm Antonio, 23 years old, from England. I'm currently living in Vietnam for 3 months but probably I'll leave soon. Though I don't have problems in interacting with girls, it seems I don't have much charm in terms of loving relationship. I've only realized this when I broke up with my girlfriend 2 years ago and now remembering it back. There must be something wrong to my side but I have yet to know it.
I hope to learn and share my experience with you guys. Thanks!

 

[wifehunter]

Hi everyone! I'm Antonio, 23 years old, from England. I'm currently living in Vietnam for 3 months but probably I'll leave soon. Though I don't have problems in interacting with girls, it seems I don't have much charm in terms of loving relationship. I've only realized this when I broke up with my girlfriend 2 years ago and now remembering it back. There must be something wrong to my side but I have yet to know it.
I hope to learn and share my experience with you guys. Thanks!

That refreshing, most new guys, come here for quick fixes.

 

[machoMax]

I hope you found some nice Vietnamese girl

 

[Antonio94]

That refreshing, most new guys, come here for quick fixes.

Curious... You mean like they want some sort of quick solution rather than long-term solution?

 

[wifehunter]

Curious... You mean like they want some sort of quick solution rather than long-term solution?

Yeah, noobs want to know what to do, in their current situation...whereas, being a DJ, is about knowing what to, before it happens. Noobs, usually, have no anticipation skills.

For instance...a girl gives out mixed signals...shows she likes you, then, is all cold later... Noobs want to know what to do in this instance. A DJ would know already.

There is no 'get chick rich quick' here. Things take time, sometimes years or even decades. Most people have personal issues they need to deal with before they can attract women on a longterm and consistent level. There's alot going on with women's hot buttons, most of which, is not immediately obvious. Most guys don't get that.

I was fortunate enough to have the expirience of having a witch for a mother and a sweetie for a sister...so, I know how bad, and good, things can get.

It's science...ladie's social/communication parts of their brains are more involved and active. Most of the time, they can read us like a book.

So, go read some books, so they can't read you like one!

They want FUN, mystery, intrigue, etc. Most guys, can NOT provide these things.

 

[Antonio94]

Yeah, noobs want to know what to do, in their current situation...whereas, being a DJ, is about knowing what to, before it happens. Noobs, usually, have no anticipation skills.

For instance...a girl gives out mixed signals...shows she likes you, then, is all cold later... Noobs want to know what to do in this instance. A DJ would know already.

There is no 'get chick rich quick' here. Things take time, sometimes years or even decades. Most people have personal issues they need to deal with before they can attract women on a longterm and consistent level. There's alot going on with women's hot buttons, most of which, is not immediately obvious. Most guys don't get that.

I was fortunate enough to have the expirience of having a witch for a mother and a sweetie for a sister...so, I know how bad, and good, things can get.

It's science...ladie's social/communication parts of their brains are more involved and active. Most of the time, they can read us like a book.

So, go read some books, so they can't read you like one!

They want FUN, mystery, intrigue, etc. Most guys, can NOT provide these things.

Yeah I think I can get the "personal issues" here. My previous failure was also due to my ignorance of my personal life... guess it's time to read more book XD