Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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No reply after sti txt

custardpie

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I've had these 2 plates spinning for a good few months now. I recently heard off one of the plates that she contracted chlamydia off another guy she slept with. I immediately went and got treatment online and also went for a test which confirmed I had chlamydia.

Of course the proper thing to do is to tell the other plate, which I did straight away. I sent her a txt explaining that I'd got the sti off someone else and she should get treatment herself. I sent the txt yesterday afternoon and no reply since then....

Now i know nobody like getting told they have to get tested and they may have a disease but am I right in thinking she's acting quite immature about this? I mean it's no one person's fault.....she never asked me to use a condom and we were never exclusive even though we've been going out for meal/drinks and such. She's still been talking to guys on POF and has updated her pic on there just a couple weeks ago so there's no way she could've thought we were exclusive. Plus we've only been seeing eachother about every 2 weeks maximum as she works a lot of unsociable hours.

How should i play this? Do I just give her a while to calm down then txt back in a couple weeks asking if she get her treatment sorted?
Maybe send a sarcastic txt like 'Well thanks custardpie for letting me know, I know these things happen and I'm mature enough not to put all the blame on you' :p

I really would like not to lose this plate as she is a good fvck and never fails to absolutely soak my bed after every session lol
What is you guys' advice here?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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copy/paste and resend the exact same text as you did before that she didnt respond to..maybe the text didnt go through (this happens)...so i would just send it again and see if you get a response.
 

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copy/paste and resend the exact same text as you did before that she didnt respond to..maybe the text didnt go through (this happens)...so i would just send it again and see if you get a response.
Nah mate I sent it through Whatsapp and it shows the message was read.
 

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lol do it anyway


i learned this tactic from an ex. she would spam me the exact same message until i responded. lol
 

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What would I be hoping to achieve by that method? I'm not trying to nag her into replying if she really doesn't want to.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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just forget about the hoe and let her spread her chlamydia infected snatch to the masses. u did your duty and informed her.

she also probably thinks you are a scumbag. so take it as you will.
 

custardpie

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just forget about the hoe and let her spread her chlamydia infected snatch to the masses. u did your duty and informed her.

she also probably thinks you are a scumbag. so take it as you will.
Yea funny how that works, you always blame the person who told you. To just blow me off with no reply though, what a *****! Been seeing her for about 9 months now as well so it's not like we just met.
 

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my post was too machievellien so i deleted it lol. sry mate. u did the right thing.
 
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Same thing happened to me a couple yrs back.
I had zero symptoms. Wrap that sh*t up man, believe me I don't care for condoms ether but the peace of mind is waay worth it.

I'd say just drop the plate, not worth the headache. Find a new clean slate.
 

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Yes definitely will be wrapping up from now on, sucks having to lose this one though I'll be honest! That sopping wet pvssy is so addictive....
Least i've still got the other plate left so I'm not out in the cold lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who cares. You've told her. It's up to get what to do with the information now. Move on.
 

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You're still going to bang the one who gave you chlamydia? What are you hoping to catch next? o_O
She's been treated so she's clean now, so not really any more chance of getting something from her then any other random lay. Plus I'm wearing condoms from now on.
 
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