I'm trying to understand DJ mindset/attitude but I'm kind of confused?

[GeeMale]

I started reading up on here over a month ago after I got this chick's number at the gym(didn't go well because I overanalyzed techniques on here and was conflicted due to religious differences).It's funny and interesting that I have to see her at least twice a week at the gym because we literally act like we don't know each other unless I make a charming gesture and she mirrors it. She propelled me to read on how attracting women works 6 weeks as she was the first hot chick interested in me for first time in months as I've been out if shape with no confidence. I've also gotten 2 more hot chicks numbers after it didn't work out and I'm ready to set up dates with them.

I was 'MGTOW' for a couple months by accident because of funny YouTube videos but realized that type of mindset made me want to suppress my attraction towards women and made me want to hate/become jealous of them, So it's basically dumb to think that way.Im glad I found so suave.


My question is: Is a DJ a mindset in which you are constantly improving all all areas of life and becoming a good man while simultaneously numbing my fear of rejection with women and seeing where it goes?

That's the way I see it so far if I am wrong about the attitude /mindset please enlighten me as I'm in a place of in my life where I'm replacing bad habits with good ones and spiritually understanding the world And myself better


I'm a Muslim guy and have 4 older sisters and 1 younger sister with no brothers so it was sort of hard askijg ther kind of questions growing up pertaining to attracting women. One thing is for sure "30 dating rules" is so true as women really dont give men good advice about attracting women

 

[wifehunter]

Yes, constant progress, is the DJ way.

Once you start stagnating, you become uninteresting, and lose value.

Not chasing, and making yourself scarce, is also a core element.

If you're the prize, you don't have to chase, because women will hunt you down.

 

[RedZone]

Yes, constant progress, is the DJ way.

Once you start stagnating, you become uninteresting, and lose value.

Not chasing, and making yourself scarce, is also a core element.

If you're the prize, you don't have to chase, because women will hunt you down.

Agree. this applies to anything in life. Once, you become stale it's time to start something new and interesting. Obviously, the more interesting you are the more value people will see in you and the more opportunities you will get.

 

[Reykhel]

If you're the prize, you don't have to chase, because women will hunt you down.

Sounds great this theory.

Can we have some real life examples where woman are hunting you down.

You need to be putting yourself out there in life, Socially putting yourself within the vicinity of women....
granted if you're in a bar or club and a women or women are interested, yeah sure she will approach you
and maybe turn her back towards you. But she's putting herself close to you so that you can approach her....

This poster is a confirmed loner and introvert who believes that most women are garbage......I'm genuinely curious as
to know in what circumstances (in real life and not just fantasy) are women "hunting him down"...

 

[devilkingx2]

If you're the prize, you don't have to chase, because women will hunt you down.

being the prize is a mindset, not reality. if any of us were really the prize our game would already be perfect and we'd have a harem of supermodels like leonardo dicaprio

 

[Julian]

sosuave used to be about being alpha male bad ass ultra player with women, coming up in life and being at the top of your game physically, mentally, financially, spiritually. Improving yourself to be at your peak levels, thus bringing women into your life much easier. this was the idea of being the prize.


now its mostly autistic back an forth flaming

 

[RedZone]

Sounds great this theory.

Can we have some real life examples where woman are hunting you down.

You need to be putting yourself out there in life, Socially putting yourself within the vicinity of women....
granted if you're in a bar or club and a women or women are interested, yeah sure she will approach you
and maybe turn her back towards you. But she's putting herself close to you so that you can approach her....

This poster is a confirmed loner and introvert who believes that most women are garbage......I'm genuinely curious as
to know in what circumstances (in real life and not just fantasy) are women "hunting him down"...

Yeah, like said already its a mindset. It's rarely going to be like it is for Mad Men. You just have to go in believing you're the best. Always remember, don't take rejection personal. It happens to everyone. Take that rejection, learn from it and get motivated by it.

 

[Plums]

I started reading up on here over a month ago after I got this chick's number at the gym(didn't go well because I overanalyzed techniques on here and was conflicted due to religious differences).It's funny and interesting that I have to see her at least twice a week at the gym because we literally act like we don't know each other unless I make a charming gesture and she mirrors it. She propelled me to read on how attracting women works 6 weeks as she was the first hot chick interested in me for first time in months as I've been out if shape with no confidence. I've also gotten 2 more hot chicks numbers after it didn't work out and I'm ready to set up dates with them.

I was 'MGTOW' for a couple months by accident because of funny YouTube videos but realized that type of mindset made me want to suppress my attraction towards women and made me want to hate/become jealous of them, So it's basically dumb to think that way.Im glad I found so suave.


My question is: Is a DJ a mindset in which you are constantly improving all all areas of life and becoming a good man while simultaneously numbing my fear of rejection with women and seeing where it goes?

That's the way I see it so far if I am wrong about the attitude /mindset please enlighten me as I'm in a place of in my life where I'm replacing bad habits with good ones and spiritually understanding the world And myself better


I'm a Muslim guy and have 4 older sisters and 1 younger sister with no brothers so it was sort of hard askijg ther kind of questions growing up pertaining to attracting women. One thing is for sure "30 dating rules" is so true as women really dont give men good advice about attracting women

Ask your sisters to set you up with someone. They know you very well and will be able to find a suitable match for you.

 

[resilient]

This poster is a confirmed loner and introvert who believes that most women are garbage......I'm genuinely curious as
to know in what circumstances (in real life and not just fantasy) are women "hunting him down"...

I don't know about his track record, Reykhel. However, I've read about his plate rotation in previous threads, yet it's true no FR/DR/LR or pics have been confirmed in recent memory. I still think some of that DJ logic he wrote holds up. Think of all those times a plate swung for another branch. Was it at a time where the guy started to get better results in the gym? job promotion? salary raise/bonus? hit on infront of the wife/gf?

When a DJ steps away from the helm of the ship, the ship veers off course, he slips into a depression, gives up on himself, aspirations, motivations, hobbies, hanging out with the guys, prefers isolation 24/7... it's naturally logical that she will lose interest in response to his declining SMV.

It's the equivalent to a wife/gf sitting on the couch, eating bonbons, a bucket of ice cream and binging Netflix constantly without a thought of cardio or healthy snacks crossing the mind.

 

[Reykhel]

However, I've read about his plate rotation in previous threads,

Links? Seriously this poster contradicts himself all of the time. He spits MGTOW theory and alludes to these mysterious plates.....
He's an introverted loner who thinks all women are garbage. He's also a bible basher...
All I'm saying is.....
If he doesn't have to do anything and "women are hunting him down", which goes against most of the MGTOW theory, to give one
or two real life examples of "women hunting him down"

Why do you have a problem with that request? Is that not a reasonable request?

Mate, this guy is pulling your fvcking leg...

 

[resilient]

Links?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/new-plate.240147/
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/korean-girl-sparks-fly.238816/
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/instadates.238511/
Looks like approaches/interactions, not confirmed plate status. I stand corrected.

...give one or two real life examples of "women hunting him down"

I get that. Unless you're a celebrity, high SMV, public figure, serious charisma, you typically don't see women flock to a guy when he enters the room without God-Mode frame.

Why do you have a problem with that request? Is that not a reasonable request?

Reasonable. It's good that we hold each other accountable on this forum. We don't learn anything unless we're challenged and grow. Appreciated, Reykhel.

 

[Reykhel]

@resilient I appreciate your honesty...

Look the guy has started a thread entitled "yesfap" stating that he masterbates three times per day.......now does that sound
like he's actively spinning plates? does that sound like Don Juan material?

This guy is MGTOW and he's pulling all of your legs...........

What masculine man uses that amount of smilies and memes in his posts? It's just too much feminine energy....

He's even stating that he's trolling. And you believe this is a Don Juan @resilient ? Seriously mate? Is it because he is religious ?