The Duke
Master Don Juan
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Everything reached the breaking point the other night when she showed up at my house. She started accusing me of cheating on her with her friend. I’m 99% sure that this was the friend that she wanted to have a threesome with. Her friend did like me, but there was nothing that would ever lead a person to a “rational” conclusion that her friend and I were messing around with each other. I listened to her rant and accuse me of all sorts of irrational made up schitt. Finally I had enough and told her to leave or I would call the cops. This angered her even more and she threw a chair and tossed a pan of chicken she had prepared. The chair broke and The chicken made a huge mess.
While I was cleaning up the mess, she went outside. I assumed she was going to leave. Instead she went around to the other side of my house came back inside and hid in one of the spare bedrooms. After I found her I escorted her to her vehicle. She finally left kicking and screaming.
On her way home she starts texting me that she is going to kill herself. At this point I called up her friend that she thought I was messing around with. We compared notes and discovered she had sent both of us a text earlier in the day asking us to send her our gps locations. When we both refused, she came to the irrational conclusion that her friend and I we were together having sechs! Lmao.
Her friend calls the cops and asks them to do a welfare check. Once the police are on the scene they end up calling me. Now, I’m a little concerned. I’m thinking this stupid crazy biatch hurt herself and is going to pin it all on me. I can hear my girl yelling in the background thru the police’s phone. They end up handcuffing her and taking her to the hospital for evaluation. A few hours later I get another call from the police. He apologized for hanging up on me earlier and that I didn’t have anything to worry about.
She spends about 36hrs in the hospital. She is sending hate messages to everyone. They ended up taking her phone away. She then uses the hospital phone and can only make local calls. My phone number is the only number she has memorized. So I spend the entire morning notifying her family/friends of the situation and coordinating thru her which was a huge struggle as she was still angry. I was not going anywhere near this girl for fear of what I might get falsely accused of. Her childhood friend ended up driving from 2.5hrs away to take care of her.
I talked to 3 of her best friends, her son, and her mom. I figured they would all be hostile towards me, but this wasn’t the case. They thanked me for handling the situation like I did, and told me they were very thankful she had me in her life. She had told her friends and family that I was the best guy she ever had. It became obvious that this wasn’t the first time she had such an episode, but it was the first time it got this bad.
I’m pretty sure this girl is bipolar. I dated one other girl that was confirmed bipolar and they have a lot in common. I found out that this girls sister is bipolar.
When in the manic stage, they require little sleep, talk fast, eat very little, have tons of energy, are very productive, confident, creative. Once they flip, they become irritable, can’t focus, lose interest, self-esteem drops, they have little energy, hopeless, and this is when they start having suicidal thoughts. At times she has zero empathy and no ability to understand anyone else’s point of view. At other times she is always doing nice things for people and is very generous. She also has a hard time accepting responsibility. Its almost always somebody else's fault with her.
It’s a sad situation. When you look past all her anger, this girl has a huge heart and a lot to offer but I’m not going to be the one to deal with her crazy side. I truly hope she gets some professional help. I used to think people ended up with cluster b issues because of how they were raised. Although that certainly has an impact, it is not entirely the cause. It also has to do with how a person is wired.
I'm sure this won't be the last I hear from her, but I have no plans of communicating with her again. I've already received a long apology text.
While I was cleaning up the mess, she went outside. I assumed she was going to leave. Instead she went around to the other side of my house came back inside and hid in one of the spare bedrooms. After I found her I escorted her to her vehicle. She finally left kicking and screaming.
On her way home she starts texting me that she is going to kill herself. At this point I called up her friend that she thought I was messing around with. We compared notes and discovered she had sent both of us a text earlier in the day asking us to send her our gps locations. When we both refused, she came to the irrational conclusion that her friend and I we were together having sechs! Lmao.
Her friend calls the cops and asks them to do a welfare check. Once the police are on the scene they end up calling me. Now, I’m a little concerned. I’m thinking this stupid crazy biatch hurt herself and is going to pin it all on me. I can hear my girl yelling in the background thru the police’s phone. They end up handcuffing her and taking her to the hospital for evaluation. A few hours later I get another call from the police. He apologized for hanging up on me earlier and that I didn’t have anything to worry about.
She spends about 36hrs in the hospital. She is sending hate messages to everyone. They ended up taking her phone away. She then uses the hospital phone and can only make local calls. My phone number is the only number she has memorized. So I spend the entire morning notifying her family/friends of the situation and coordinating thru her which was a huge struggle as she was still angry. I was not going anywhere near this girl for fear of what I might get falsely accused of. Her childhood friend ended up driving from 2.5hrs away to take care of her.
I talked to 3 of her best friends, her son, and her mom. I figured they would all be hostile towards me, but this wasn’t the case. They thanked me for handling the situation like I did, and told me they were very thankful she had me in her life. She had told her friends and family that I was the best guy she ever had. It became obvious that this wasn’t the first time she had such an episode, but it was the first time it got this bad.
I’m pretty sure this girl is bipolar. I dated one other girl that was confirmed bipolar and they have a lot in common. I found out that this girls sister is bipolar.
When in the manic stage, they require little sleep, talk fast, eat very little, have tons of energy, are very productive, confident, creative. Once they flip, they become irritable, can’t focus, lose interest, self-esteem drops, they have little energy, hopeless, and this is when they start having suicidal thoughts. At times she has zero empathy and no ability to understand anyone else’s point of view. At other times she is always doing nice things for people and is very generous. She also has a hard time accepting responsibility. Its almost always somebody else's fault with her.
It’s a sad situation. When you look past all her anger, this girl has a huge heart and a lot to offer but I’m not going to be the one to deal with her crazy side. I truly hope she gets some professional help. I used to think people ended up with cluster b issues because of how they were raised. Although that certainly has an impact, it is not entirely the cause. It also has to do with how a person is wired.
I'm sure this won't be the last I hear from her, but I have no plans of communicating with her again. I've already received a long apology text.
