"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
A guide to women, crazy matrix
- Thread starter Von
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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The female of our species is the weaker gender. They rely on males for their survival. Don't let them confuse you with nonsense.The girl I am seeing send me this, after a date:
Hot Crazy Matrix - A man's guide to women
Pretty conservative women and religious
Good video, hilarious.
Oh what should i reply
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Konada also posted it 5 minutes ago
Lol, she sent me this 15 minutes after our date after I told her she should send me song she loves (we were at a concert).... I will send her: Definitely, I date 8 and above so which of the 4 zone you are? About the man matrix... the whole package I am ;p
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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It's an old and well circulated video, I've seen it on all video platforms I use.
Just answer with "haha".[/QUOT
Did reply: Lol, amazing, I date 8 on the hotline and 4 crazying and I am so husband material
Something like that... hilarious video, nice discovery