Please help me true this struggle boys - life choise here

[TheGambino]

Im proud about myself, I lost lots and lots of weight in the years before I joined this forum so I came from really nothing to a lot right now.

I can pull hot women, have fun and escalate. I always have been a positive and outgoing guy but this forum learned me how to win a womens heart. Be the best version of yourself, always approach, lead and go on and on. I pulled some crazy hot girls in the years and I'm still bettering myself, I only need to kill the neediness, that's the last thing I need to focus on.

The thing I love about this forum is that I really think 9 out of the 10 guys on here really give feedback to help the brothers out and I ask all of you to help me out one time on a big choise and how to play this. It is not women related.

I need advise, motivation, guidance and sharpness here. I ask the succesfull guys out here that have descent jobs and are educated to help me true this and advise me on this topic please.

You guys have helped me in the years and your opinions always have been the best for me and I did my best to give that back to the community. I really hope that you guys can give me an honest opinion on something that's very important to me.

I'm studying. Bachelor degree. I made mistakes. I'm in my fourth year of my bachelor degree but a lot of my academic credits are lost because I took to long to complete my courses and classes.
If I don't get my degree and quit now I have to pay back the government 40K, If i complete it within 2 years (possible) the state gives me 28K so I only have to pay back 12K and I could make more money and have more chances for a descent job.

Now I can start again in September and do it over. I got my first year degree but it's going to be a long way, if I work very, very hard I could do it in 1 year with a bit of luck. Maybe 2 years. If I quit now I have to work for a mediocre salary and it's going to be harder for me to get a descent job. I'm a great salesman though and my boss really appreciates my skills, I'm his best guy.

Problem: Money
Problem: Motivation

I could go back to school and work very hard 1 or 2 years and finish my study. This will reduce my income to a minimum.

School doesn't really want me to come back, I failed twice to meet my appointments and they don't really trust me but they can't refuse me to come back and finish my courses to get my degree.

On top of that I need to pay 2K in octobre for school again for classes the whole year. I got the money but it's nearly half of what I have right now so you see the struggle.

Live money for the year. Im going to work twice a week that will make me about 800 euros a month, that's not enough for me.

Options for side money so ill be able to pay my bills, go to the gym, go out once a week and live.

Option 1: I talked to a study coach, she doesn't like me. I could tell her my life has been rough, problems at home and try to win her over to write a letter with me to the government to help me one more year with a loan. She said that my situation is not checked to get that loan and I need her signature. She says that my chances are slim but I could try to write her a motivation and she will look at it. I have to break my honor here but IF it works out I could get a 900euro loan (300 a gift from the government) every single month. So 300 gift, 600 loan. Great to finish my degree.

Option 2: Work very hard now this summer, don't go out much and live on a budget the upcoming year. Don't need anyone but I need discpline for that, hard for me.

Option 3 (they will do it): Ask my boss to give me a loan. He already said that he could always do that for me. But he will like it because I will be in his hands for the upcoming years. I make a lot of money for him so he doesnt sweat it to give me a loan.

Problem at school: I already wrote a couple of letters and lots of teachers and finance guys know me that I paid my bills too late so my reputation isn't so good at school but fvck them even though they don't like me Im going to get my diplome, I don't care about them.

What would be the best option and what's my play here bro's? I really need that diplome to get on with my life. I could do anything I want with it and I completed roughly 50% of everything.

 

[shesabranchswinger]

Your 50% down the road. Why turn back now.
If you could man up an do option 2 that's what I would do. That way you owe nobody nothing except what you owe the government already, and prove to yourself that you can stand up in the face of adversity.

 

[Von]

I remember you posted in a previous thread how useless school was because you were going in business....

Maybe your degree ain't something you interested in.

Personnally, I would continue your education and move on

2 options
1) continue current degree and go in another program or ''master''
2) Switch current degree and continue your education

While doing that keep contact with the work world outside. They your best bet for a job after or run after internship

Finish that stuff and build your futur

 

[sazc]

Yea, im confused as well.

You made the decision to go into business with your boss, based on needing to earn money to take care of your mom, etc. You reported that things were going well in that endeavor and that you were happy.

What happened to change all of that?

 

[TheGambino]

My boss doesnt want to let me in so early on anymore. It was his method to motivate me but I started to become concrete about it with making an appointment at the bank and making a business plan then he told me straight up that its to early for that and that my chances lie in the future. I responded by finishing my degree. Business economy bachelor.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

What would be the best option and what's my play here bro's?

suck it the fvck up and finish. Stop everything else. Girls will still be there when you finish. Surgically remove everything from your brain except the desire to finish. Any financial pain or lonely-penis pain will be temporary.