Learning Fundamentals of Manhood

[Chev.Chelios]

So been in deep thought every night for quite some time now.

Have read over hundreds of threads of single fathers dealing with breakups and how royally fvcked
their lives have been raped because mommy decided to leave and go party while hes stuck with the kids.

id say about 80% of fathers are left completely devastated.
The past 50 years of modern feminism has been cooking.
and men find out after the fact they have kids with their chick how lethal it is.

So... these are some of the beliefs im getting more and more bought into as
the days go by, all the single mothers iv met in my neighborhood, in bars in
clubs, the single mothers at my part time job, all the idiots on facebook crying
about how hard their life is raising a kid alone.

Mans god given rights to live on this earth are still ours.
The government and societal standards placed on us are
just man-mind rules we THINK we have to live by.

I am a single father with a BPD ex and a 2 year old.
Shes has done everything to run me into the dirt.
But the fact is i am okay, because i live free.

- I make my own money in cash(buying and selling of craigslist)
- I know how to hustle my own business, make friends and get new girls.]
- I live simple and legally i barely make any income at all.
- I do not work for paychecks, and hopefully never will.

the government cant come after me for child support, I am not married and
never plan to be now. Actually, I will get married on my terms, no i wont get a
license issued the government(wtf is that chit anyway?)

Ill meet a nice gal i get along with great and have a nice wedding beside some lake or
some chit.. god himself will join us, fvck paying ailymoney, fvck paying child support,
fvck the government dipping its fingers into your paycheck and forking it over
to a lunatic woman.

fvck beta step fathers that beg to raise your kids for you.
fvck mothers that leave their kids at daycare all day to pay
the bills they cant even afford. (especially car payments.. for chitty cars)

The only answer men have to counter act this evil system is to live by their own means.

In an ideal world, Men need to have their income, property and assets to belong to them.
and nobody else. I want to build my own house, own all of my own stuff, build a kickazz business
and kill it in life. I dont want anything or anybody coming to take away things that I OWN.

If i meet a woman that wants to join me in my life then so be it, if she wants to leave good
luck getting anything from me.

If she wants to take the kids to another mans cave, then let him pay her way instead.

The cold fact is, YOU ARE A FVCKING MAN.

THIS WORLD IS TOUGH..

Reality is fvcking terrifying.

LIFE IS REALLY FVCKING HARD.

We men stand up to adversity everyday, and the woman and children that follow and rely on us need a strong masculine presence to guide and protect them..

Todays laws stripped us of that duty. The government is our father now.

Not to sound like an anarchist, but I am really pissed off at the way things are.
And i simply do not want to play this game anymore. Their is no point in this.
Scoring a good job, getting legally married, getting a mortgage and be in debt.
why are so many people indulging in this pipe dream? Every guy ends up with
nothing in the end. Except paying an ex cash that belongs to them as they go
marry a complete fvck wad and ruin the kids lives as well.

What are your guys opinions on this rant? am i full of chit or is what im saying
at least a little right?

 

[Thechamp]

You are 100 percent right my friend

 

[AlphaNate]

Sounds like you're jumping on the @Tenacity/@Urbanyst bandwagon. It's not wrong, but it's a bit angry for my taste.

Life's too short to be angry all the time.

 

[Urbanyst]

Sounds like you're jumping on the @Tenacity/@Urbanyst bandwagon. It's not wrong, but it's a bit angry for my taste.

Life's too short to be angry all the time.

I don't post angry stuff. I just care a lot about MONEY and I think being HIGH VALUE solves most dating related problems.

 

[Tenacity]

What are your guys opinions on this rant?

That just about everything you said is 100% correct.

I was born in the 80's, when I GOT to this Earth/America, it was already fvcked up.

This notion that's promoted on here, that you can just "think positive", expand your paradigm, control the frame, and use some c0cky/funny techniques......and this is going to make a woman BREAK from all of the feminist/gynocentric bullshyt to be your 1930's wife, is just bullshyt.

The market has changed and if you want to survive, you have to adapt. That means realizing that marriage makes absolutely NO SENSE today as a Man, and that if you want to create children...PLEASE think longgg and hard about the decision and try to pick a woman that makes the same or more than you to create the kid with.

It also means realizing that women offer NO value to you other than sex and companionship. They are basically Escorts but cheaper, because you will have to "pay" (by taking her on dates) but overall that "payment" would be a lot lower than continually screwing Escorts.

 

[Bible_Belt]

You are 100 percent right my friend

He is, except that part about the government not being able to come after him for child support. Even if he is primary caregiver right now, there's always the chance of her getting a lawyer and suing for custody.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

Sounds like you're jumping on the @Tenacity/@Urbanyst bandwagon. It's not wrong, but it's a bit angry for my taste.

Life's too short to be angry all the time.

Havnt really read anything from tenacity or urban yet, these are just ideas boiled down from months of agony, and yes I am VERY angry lol
before the breakup i was absolutly oblivious to any of this red pill stuff, becoming aware of todays reality, and reading rational male, all the awesome
content here on sosuave im getting completely knocked on my azz lmao..
wont be angry soon when all this is behind me, just growing pains
im only a 24 year old guy!

The market has changed and if you want to survive, you have to adapt. That means realizing that marriage makes absolutely NO SENSE today as a Man, and that if you want to create children...PLEASE think longgg and hard about the decision and try to pick a woman that makes the same or more than you to create the kid with.

It also means realizing that women offer NO value to you other than sex and companionship. They are basically Escorts but cheaper, because you will have to "pay" (by taking her on dates) but overall that "payment" would be a lot lower than continually screwing Escorts.

I think adapting isnt the way, men going back to living as men should is the way.

Or adapt back to the fundamentals.

Idealy, if you lived like you did in the old days, though todays laws its impossible.

- Make your money in cash where noone can tax you or garnish your wages.
- Live on your OWN land and OWN your own house!
and by own i mean you actually really fvcking own it.
No laws or taxes can take that away from you.

Have a wife and kids and then see what happens.
If she leaves shes forced to take care of herself and the kids.
like nature pretty much intended? thats why family is loyal
and need to stick together?

Family members stick together and stay loyal to each other is because our there in hardcore nature..
Theirs nobody else thats going to provide or protect you.. well besides needy beta chodes, but you
get the point.( if the woman leaves your home, then let the beta chodes pay for her..)

But now the big brother government does.

Man owns and runs his own chit, the woman and children follow.
When the woman and children leave and the law makes you
pay them is where things get fvcked.

Why in the actual fvck should you be required to pay somebody that left?


I know you can poke a million holes in what i just wrote out, im just venting my ideas,
and hopefully its make sense to some of you lol.

 

[Tenacity]

Havnt really read anything from tenacity or urban yet, these are just ideas boiled down from months of agony, and yes I am VERY angry lol
before the breakup i was absolutly oblivious to any of this red pill stuff, becoming aware of todays reality, and reading rational male, all the awesome
content here on sosuave im getting completely knocked on my azz lmao..
wont be angry soon when all this is behind me, just growing pains
im only a 24 year old guy!



I think adapting isnt the way, men going back to living as men should is the way.

Or adapt back to the fundamentals.

Idealy, if you lived like you did in the old days, though todays laws its impossible.

- Make your money in cash where noone can tax you or garnish your wages.
- Live on your OWN land and OWN your own house!
and by own i mean you actually really fvcking own it.
No laws or taxes can take that away from you.

Have a wife and kids and then see what happens.
If she leaves shes forced to take care of herself and the kids.
like nature pretty much intended? thats why family is loyal
and need to stick together?

Family members stick together and stay loyal to each other is because our there in hardcore nature..
Theirs nobody else thats going to provide or protect you.. well besides needy beta chodes, but you
get the point.( if the woman leaves your home, then let the beta chodes pay for her..)

But not the big brother government does.

Man owns and runs his own chit, the woman and children follow.
When the woman and children leave and the law makes you
pay them is where things get fvcked.

Why in the actual fvck should you be required to pay somebody that left?


I know you can poke a million holes in what i just wrote out, im just venting my ideas,
and hopefully its make sense to some of you lol.

Everything that you feel is just, right, and natural. Don't let anybody make you feel bad for how you feel. At 24 you are WELL ahead of the game.

My only recommendation to you is that you should focus on money though. Yes, I pay taxes out of the a.ss too brother, but cost of living is getting higher and it's just not going to be easy to live on very little going forward. I want to make sure you are taken care of.

Strive to live in a low or average cost of living area and make at least $40k per year, while still living somewhat like a Minimalist. That's the bare minimum that will allow you to enjoy life, live comfortable, and not work TOO many stressful hours (like I do) to drive yourself nuts. You also have no nagging wife or kids so that's good.