"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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NPD, BPD...yeah, about that...

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It's very common...It's also obvious these women are a god unto themselves. You will always be THEIR subject OR servant, they will be subject to no one...they are only compatible with betas and white knights, who will happily worship, supplicate, and always ask for permission etc.

Keep your boundaries / distance from all women, until they prove otherwise. That way, you'll be able to get away relatively unscathed. If not, they will destroy you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I hear you man... those red flags are there... please please listen to your gut.

Honestly man its not worth the sex.. if it does not feel right.. then it probably isn't
 
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soulforge said:
I hear you man... those red flags are there... please please listen to your gut.

Honestly man its not worth the sex.. if it does not feel right.. then it probably isn't
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Always have an exit strategy.
 
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wifehunter said:
Always have an exit strategy.
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If you are savvy and in a FWB situation then ask for commitment via text (NOT FACE TO FACE). She will move quickly between wanting it and detesting the idea. She won't give you a straight up answer and will blow hot and cold on the idea. This is your chance to walk away and block her. That way you are almost making it her decision and her ego can handle that better. Just get through the stalking for a couple of months and you will be home and free.
 
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wifehunter said:
It's very common...It's also obvious these women are a god unto themselves. You will always be THEIR subject OR servant, they will be subject to no one...they are only compatible with betas and white knights, who will happily worship, supplicate, and always ask for permission etc.

Keep your boundaries / distance from all women, until they prove otherwise. That way, you'll be able to get away relatively unscathed. If not, they will destroy you.
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You are right about the Beta males and BPDs my ex is with the biggest Beta man you can ever meet she snaps her fingers he jumps. The guy she was with before me he's a beta man. I'm not a beta man she found that out, her fingers would get sore snapping them I didn't jump, she turned really submissive with me. Things did get ugly when she started fighting with me she wanted to see me pay for what I did claimed I hurt her deeply.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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