"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What aspect of your life, or your "game", do you need to personally work on most?

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What: I have been getting out a lot more, practicing my game, keeping my social life thriving. WIth that being said, I want to work on myself more. I want to keep thriving before I head off to school in July.I have 3 months and I want to keep improving myself. I really want to get outside more, preferably learn a new outside hobby.

Why: I want to work on this area because I feel like it would make me a more well rounded person as a whole. I don't want to be one sided with just studying, just hitting the gym and just getting girls. I want to have more to myself than just those things.

How: Currently I fish, which is great. It has allowed me to travel my state and go on trips to explore new places. However, I want a hobby that is more action packed. I believe that I want to go back to my roots and either buy a dirt bike or a new downhill mountain bike. I want to get out and do this new hobby at least 2-3 times a week.

If anyone has any other good outside hobbies I can do, please let me know! I am open to just about anything.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There are two poles to desire. When the desired is generally of poor quality, it is time to restrain the desirer; namely , me. I think I have gone monk mode.. or MGTOW.:rolleyes:

It's a process; it may require a under-grad course in Stoicism, and then a post-grad course in Epicureanism.
 

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What:the way i talk
Why:girls say its tufff
How:no idea
 

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This question gives women credit before credit is due. What one aspect of your 'game' could you work on? That means you have to improve yourself to get women. Wrong mindset.

I think the question we should ask ourselves is "What do you what do with your life? Be a doctor, be a lawyer, be an actor, be an investor? Whatever you to do, take the necessary steps to achieve that and have the woman of your dreams come along for the ride.'

The word 'GAME' is the worst word ever. It should be replaced with 'education' or 'how to be great for society'. o_O
What are you even saying.

This question doesn't give women anything.. it gives you an opportunity to acknowledge something about yourself you'd like to improve on for YOURSELF. I dislike the term myself, but I added the word "game" to make it a little more relevant to this forum as a lot of men here see the forum as a forum on how to "game" women versus a forum that promotes self-improvement.... my question was worded to cater to both audiences, and regardless, the central message of it is the same: to work on yourself, for yourself... Nowhere does it imply you're giving women credit.

This question has NOTHING to do with getting women. I guess you can interpret it as such and answer it as such if you want but then you're missing the point.

What: I have been getting out a lot more, practicing my game, keeping my social life thriving. WIth that being said, I want to work on myself more. I want to keep thriving before I head off to school in July.I have 3 months and I want to keep improving myself. I really want to get outside more, preferably learn a new outside hobby.

Why: I want to work on this area because I feel like it would make me a more well rounded person as a whole. I don't want to be one sided with just studying, just hitting the gym and just getting girls. I want to have more to myself than just those things.

How: Currently I fish, which is great. It has allowed me to travel my state and go on trips to explore new places. However, I want a hobby that is more action packed. I believe that I want to go back to my roots and either buy a dirt bike or a new downhill mountain bike. I want to get out and do this new hobby at least 2-3 times a week.

If anyone has any other good outside hobbies I can do, please let me know! I am open to just about anything.
Sounds you need to get a mountain bike or dirt bike before this summer my friend.

What:the way i talk
Why:girls say its tufff
How:no idea
Yeah, I don't really care for how you talk either.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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