"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Every Woman Is On OLD (So If OLD Is Low Quality, Then All Women Are)

Desdinova

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I'm honestly not seeing how Facebook and OLD are one in the same with their contribution to garbage women. I see Facebook as just an online extension of her social life. IMO, it's not really a bad thing to be on Facebook. Women need some sort of drama in their lives to keep things interesting, whether it be from TV, books or Facebook. If they don't have any of those, they will create drama in their relationships to make their lives more interesting. I'd rather her interact with friends on Facebook instead of making my relationship with her more difficult.

You see ultimately my BIGGER point here, is that the online social media/online dating world is making American women worse. They were bad before, NOW, with all of the attention they are getting online (even if they are HB4) their attitudes, entitlements, bad behaviors, weight problems, multiple kids with no accountability, bad finances because some Simp will take care of her anyway, etc., etc., etc., continue to get WORSE as more and more men are now being seen as accepting of the behavior.
A woman's use of Facebook isn't always to gain attention. Some of them, yes, but not all. Many of them are interested in their drama-filled friends. Watching the drama of their friends and relatives is 100% more interesting than watching "Days of our Lives". I may go as far to say that soaps will become extinct within the next 20 years because Facebook does a better job filling a woman's need for drama.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Good Gao

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I think it's all subjective, esepcially you to your enivroment

For example you gonna have hotter women doing OLD if it's in LA/NYC/Toronto compared to North Dakota/Idaho/Minnesota
WHy? it's all numbers game at the end, you have more girls (espeically hot girls) in all those places alone (LA/NYC/Toronoto) than you would have all those places put togther (North Dakota/Idaho/Minneosta)

Take it from a guy who travels, online dating in those rural areas suck ass, you are better of hitting the field

whereas online dating in those other places you can actually get a hottie
LOL

Please don't put Toronto and hot women in the same sentence, that place is a dump.

I've been to Minnesota, tons of quality women there.
 

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All of the girls (literally all of them) that are decent looking in my area do NOT have OLD profiles, just FB. The less attractive or backburned girls do though, but any that are approached constantly have one. They get their attention fix just from IG and FB.
 

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All of the girls (literally all of them) that are decent looking in my area do NOT have OLD profiles, just FB.
Yeah, that's why I contact them via some of the community groups in Facebook. lol. Saw this one cutie post something on a virtual yard sale in my area. Some patio furniture. Might pretend to be an interested customer to get me to come out to take a look at them. lol She's got quite a few cleavage selfies on her profile. lol
 

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Tenacity....back with another episode of....im always right and fk you all
And if you check he liked this comment, lol. You got to give him credit he is right more often than not, intelligent and entertaining all at the same time! :D
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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