Possible to change this situation?

[ythfknot]

Straight to the point here:

I DO NOT FEEL WANTED in my relationship. Sexually that is. My ego is a bit tarnished,and I feel a deep seeded frustration with my relationship and its sex life.

There are plenty of things that lead up to my feeling this way. Ill keep it short:
1.Found a **** pic in her phone when she was showing me old pics. She didnt know it was there, and was there before we started dating. The **** was atleast 12 inches, bigger than mines. I asked if that was what she liked and of course she denied it. However, it still bothers me, based on her lack of interest in my ****. She has no **** pics of me in her phone. She doesnt even ask for them.

2. She is a very critical person towards the physical aesthetics of people. For instance, a homeless man pulled his **** out and peed in public. She looked at him and started laughing and spoke on how small it was. She never says anything about my body, so I often wonder what she REALLY thinks.

3. She never initiates sex unless I say that she shows no interest in me. Sex initiated from her is 4 out of 5 times because I say something about her output. When i am in the mood for sex and she senses it, she quickly changes the subject and starts to yap about random **** that kills the mood...

I have NEVER felt insecure about my sex game or my body in a relationship. My ego is a bit tarnished by all of this. I try my hardest not to show it, but I am starting to feel powerless and very beta. Again, this has never happened to me before, I am used to having my gf's worshipping my ****. This relationship is nothing like that. I am very much in love with the girl but I am at the ends of my wits.
Her behavior makes me feel like I dont **** her good enough, or my **** isnt sufficient enough to her. I cannot get the picture on her phone out of my head. She says my **** is average. She may as well have said that my **** is small. She said my **** feels perfect for her. However, her behavior and previous actions do not make me believe her. Should I deny her sex? Have i exposed myself to be an insecure beta to the point where none of this is reversible? Do i have a just reason for my thoughts? This ****ing sucks.

 

[Roober]

She does not respect you. A woman will not fvck a man she does not respect

Just for context... Had a plate recently who I bedded. Got her in the sack, and I usually begin with smacking on the a$$, just to test the waters. She stopped, looked at me, and said "don't do that". I flipped picked her up, threw her against the wall (not painfully), put her legs over my shoulders and went to town. Needless to say, an hour or two later, a couple more positions, and I couldn't smack her @$$ hard enough. She wanted more...

My main plate will do anything with me, most of which is her first time ever...

Every woman wants to be treated like a slvt

soo..
1. can't change your di6k size, so need to learn to work it and make her bust multiple nuts. Also learn how to keep going after you bust a nut. Takes practice, but it does wonders for the woman
2. you talk about having sex too much, need to play with her, dirty talk, etc.
3. give her dread... hit the gym, hang out with the guys, start talking to women openly
4. Don't let her stop after one orgasm... it will be sensitive for a minute or so, but the second one will be much more explosive...

 

[AlphaNate]

I DO NOT FEEL WANTED in my relationship.

This is all you needed to say, and you know it. Drop this cancerous ***** now.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

No real twelve inches man. Even the very largest in porn are nine to ten inches.

 

[ythfknot]

My sex game is very good I would say. I have never gotten complaints and every girl I have been with always says i was their best. This current girl i am with, she advertised herself as a Nympho when we first started talking. Now that were together, she has no sex drive or passion. She works and takes care of her younger sister. understandable. But the amount of sex we have is not fulfilling my appetite. I do not want to cheat on her as I do love her and would like us to work out. But i am so frustrated. I feel very limited with this one.

 

[ythfknot]

it was bigger than mine, and thats all that matters.

No real twelve inches man. Even the very largest in porn are nine to ten inches.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

it was bigger than mine, and thats all that matters.

You have to compare to his hand or something.

 

[Jetleg]

Straight to the point here:

I DO NOT FEEL WANTED in my relationship. Sexually that is. My ego is a bit tarnished,and I feel a deep seeded frustration with my relationship and its sex life.

There are plenty of things that lead up to my feeling this way. Ill keep it short:
1.Found a **** pic in her phone when she was showing me old pics. She didnt know it was there, and was there before we started dating. The **** was atleast 12 inches, bigger than mines. I asked if that was what she liked and of course she denied it. However, it still bothers me, based on her lack of interest in my ****. She has no **** pics of me in her phone. She doesnt even ask for them.
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Did not even read the rest.
When you find a f*cking ****PIC you should react accordingly and not ask "ohhh is that what you like?" your action was really bad mate.

I would have just tell her to have fun with that **** pic and left at this point and never contact her again. She probably got it in Whatsapp (i get photos in whatsapp all the time and they get auto-downloaded tomy phone) which means

-She is having sexual conversations with another guy or even multiple.

Even if she got it from her BFF a it doesnt matter. Its shows of ZERO respect to you to have a pic of someone elses pic on her phone and she knows it.

Now why waste time on a girl that won't even treat you right when you can find a girl that will beg you to s*ck your c*ck? drop her now.

 

[devilkingx2]

No real twelve inches man. Even the very largest in porn are nine to ten inches.

largest in the world is like 13 or 13.5 inches

 

[Juanto]

When you find a f*cking ****PIC you should react accordingly and not ask "ohhh is that what you like?" your action was really bad mate.

Spot on

 

[Krueg]

I dated a girl once where the sex was awkward and I had trouble staying hard and things just seemed off. I dont really know what it was, maybe we were better friends than lovers but, had to break things off cause things didnt feel right. Just the way life is sometimes.

 

[ythfknot]

Did not even read the rest.
When you find a f*cking ****PIC you should react accordingly and not ask "ohhh is that what you like?" your action was really bad mate.

I would have just tell her to have fun with that **** pic and left at this point and never contact her again. She probably got it in Whatsapp (i get photos in whatsapp all the time and they get auto-downloaded tomy phone) which means

-She is having sexual conversations with another guy or even multiple.

Even if she got it from her BFF a it doesnt matter. Its shows of ZERO respect to you to have a pic of someone elses pic on her phone and she knows it.

Now why waste time on a girl that won't even treat you right when you can find a girl that will beg you to s*ck your c*ck? drop her now.

I said that the pic was there before we started talking. She had thousands on pics on her phone and she said she forgot it was there. Which i trust is the truth. But the fact that she had this pic in her phone, despite her reason being her friend sent it to her and she saved it to send to someone else, is the reason im bothered. Its bothersome because it felt like she saved it to send to all her other friends to worship the size of the **** or whatever. Whilst she never asks for pics of my **** or shows any interest in it whatsoever.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I said that the pic was there before we started talking. She had thousands on pics on her phone and she said she forgot it was there. Which i trust is the truth. But the fact that she had this pic in her phone, despite her reason being her friend sent it to her and she saved it to send to someone else, is the reason im bothered. Its bothersome because it felt like she saved it to send to all her other friends to worship the size of the **** or whatever. Whilst she never asks for pics of my **** or shows any interest in it whatsoever.

Thousands of c0ck pics? Wow...