I'm legitimately starting to despise women

[9Volt]

I'm tired of their makeup and fake non-natural look.

tired of them always getting their way.

tired of them treating good men like shyt.

tired of them AWing on social media.

tired of them ignoring men on old.

tired of their lies and manipulative ways.

tired of them period.

 

[Sho-No-Luv]

I'm tired of their makeup and fake non-natural look.

tired of them always getting their way.

tired of them treating good men like shyt.

tired of them AWing on social media.

tired of them ignoring men on old.

tired of their lies and manipulative ways.

tired of them period.

Is that all, lol?

 

[fastlife]

Would you despise them if you were getting what you wanted from them? Or if your life was so awesome that you didn't need anything from them to begin with?

It's easy to rationalize this type of mindset as being from a place of moral superiority or idealism--but usually all that frustration magically dissipates when our more carnal desires are being met or we're making meaningful progress in other areas of our lives. The other possibility is that you're looking for women to be something that they're not--and that will just lead to perpetual disappointment & resentment.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Would you despise them if you were getting what you wanted from them? Or if your life was so awesome that you didn't need anything from them to begin with?
It's easy to rationalize this type of mindset as being from a place of moral superiority or idealism--but usually all that frustration magically dissipates when our more carnal desires are being met or we're making meaningful progress in other areas of our lives. The other possibility is that you're looking for women to be something that they're not--and that will just lead to perpetual disappointment & resentment.

You make a good point, but you can feel the way the OP feels with getting what you want from women. I know a few men who bang women frequently who feel this way, you know guy talk

 

[Infern0]

Mindset like this is about you. Not them.

 

[fastlife]

You make a good point, but you can feel the way the OP feels with getting what you want from women. I know a few men who bang women frequently who feel this way, you know guy talk

Definitely agree. But even then it's usually a validation issue--i.e. the source you desire validation from doesn't measure up to your conception of it. For example, if you met a nice, quiet, beautiful girl, who was close with her family and doesn't go out much, and you slept with her, you'd feel super validated; if she told you later that she's fvcked 100 dudes, then all of the sudden you'd feel super devalidated. Even though nothing really changed.

Of course, all of us will always be at least a little susceptible to validation-related highs and lows--but the less you depend on girls for validation and the more realistic your expectations for what they can/can't provide you, the less extreme those high and lows will be. For example, I never expect honesty, loyalty, or intellectual stimulation from girls--I have enough experience to know that girls aren't great providers of those qualities and that if I see those qualities in the women I meet, it's often just projection on my part or mirroring on theirs.

But I'm also able to appreciate the fluidity, the spontaneity, the perceptiveness, the excitability of the feminine and enjoy the abundance of that instead of bemoaning the qualities they lack.

 

[SuckItUp]

I'm tired of their makeup and fake non-natural look.

tired of them always getting their way.

tired of them treating good men like shyt.

tired of them AWing on social media.

tired of them ignoring men on old.

tired of their lies and manipulative ways.

tired of them period.

You realize you just listed a bunch of ways to bust a woman's chops while basically raising their interest level. Hell, you may able to pull using angry ranting game.

But you wouldn't get mad a cripple for being crippled, so why get mad at women for being women.

 

[9Volt]

I'm sick of women's shyt. fvck it. the advice given on here is 100% spot on.

fvck em.

 

[9Volt]

Would you despise them if you were getting what you wanted from them? Or if your life was so awesome that you didn't need anything from them to begin with?

It's easy to rationalize this type of mindset as being from a place of moral superiority or idealism--but usually all that frustration magically dissipates when our more carnal desires are being met or we're making meaningful progress in other areas of our lives. The other possibility is that you're looking for women to be something that they're not--and that will just lead to perpetual disappointment & resentment.

I just wanted a woman to love me is that so wrong?

maybe I need to adopt the abundance mentality and stop being afraid to approach.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Abundance mentality over Alpha

 

[9Volt]

I need the vision to get in that mental state set of abundance. channel the spirit of pook and pray with my right hand on the dj bible

 

[zekko]

I need the vision to get in that mental state set of abundance. channel the spirit of pook and pray with my right hand on the dj bible

Guys get frustrated with women, or a woman, and rush out to put their faith in the wrong thing.

 

[resilient]

Look 9Volt. I've been there before. It sucks. I'm about to next my main plate within days. Crappy thing is that I dropped my other plates the closer I got to my main plate. Now the main plate is losing IL and flaking (most likely going out with orbiters in secret). Point being, it doesn't matter.

I've talked about it a little bit here... I'm getting my head focused on my career vision that is in process that still has 3-4 years till it matures.

Maybe what you need right now is to go monk mode.

I went monk mode last fall and accomplished a ton while I stopped dating. I quit porn. I got ripped. I got PADI (scuba) certified. I worked on my wardrobe, grooming (grew facial hair). I picked up archery more. I saw various social groups actively. I was happy. For the first time in a long time I was happy for an awesome three month window with zero plates, no dating... period. Women picked up on my new confidence and began taking interest and asking me out on dates. I started plate spinning at my peak around Christmas and January till I got to a STR. It all went to hell.

Fast forward a few months and now my family and friends think I'm moody, irritable, withdrawn, and anxious/depressed 24/7. Even my grades have slipped from straight As to Bs.

Any guy who chooses a plate to be main plate and going steady should never feel depressed or downcast. It's fool's gold. Not normal.

It's amazing what a man can get accomplished when he forges his iron cast goals and let's women know they aren't priority numero uno and not even close to it.

Forge that passion and fire, man.

Once you fix what's going on within you, in theory, the quality plates should improve to match or meet your improved SMV and (in theory), will behave better.

 

[Desdinova]

I'm sick of women's shyt. fvck it. the advice given on here is 100% spot on.

I came to this point a couple of years ago. I was just fvcking done with them. The bytch I was dating was full of orbiters and she flaked on the night of our 6-month. I dumped her days later. All the women before her majorly pissed me off as well.

I took a much needed 7 month break from women. It was glorious! No stress, no bull5hit, no nothing. After that 7 months, I was able to deal with the next bytch who pulled pretty much the same garbage without hating women in general.

When you get tired of womens' garbage, you have to take some time and do your own 5hit. Your right hand doesn't flake on you, so indulge in masturbation and your own pleasures for a while.

I just wanted a woman to love me is that so wrong?

No it's not, but you're not going to find her in the state that you're currently in. Take a break from bytches and indulge in the things you enjoy for a while that aren't women-related. You'll get back into the game feeling refreshed.

 

[ku17]

9Volt is being facetious and trolling all of you.

 

[Trunks]

This mindset will prevent you from getting laid. Instead of hating women, you should view them as entertaining robots with a vagina.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

I'm tired of their makeup and fake non-natural look.

tired of them always getting their way.

tired of them treating good men like shyt.

tired of them AWing on social media.

tired of them ignoring men on old.

tired of their lies and manipulative ways.

These are all things that you tolerate or you don't. I don't know how many times I have to say it; the only thing you are in control of is your behaviour and your reaction. If a girl behaves a certain way you don't like, pfft, indeed fck em. But don't let that alienate the whole fcking species; that's a childish, emotional reaction.

Learn not to react with emotion. There are a$$holes in the world and you're not going to change their behaviour. The only thing you can change is how you react to them. You will notice how quickly your quality of life improves when you start being a bit more discerning about the company you keep.

 

[backseatjuan]

I took a much needed 7 month break from women. It was glorious! No stress, no bull5hit, no nothing.

I do believe I'm at this point now. Though my break is more than 7 months already, in June it will be 1 year, lol.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

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When you get tired of womens' garbage, you have to take some time and do your own 5hit. Your right hand doesn't flake on you, so indulge in masturbation and your own pleasures for a while..

Nope, I am with @resilient on this one. There are plenty of horror stories out there where masturbation and porn have led to sad, lonely, impoverished lives of the worst addiction. Freedom!... from both women and all that other rubbish. Then you will be in a position of strength to find the woman of your choice.

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A Variation on Tennyson’s Oak

The perfect word will never come
While at my desk my fingers drum,
Gazing out to skies thread-bare -
Wallowing will take you nowhere.

And so I take me to a park,
Where trees out-standing, stripped and stark,
Stretch attendant to the sun,
And expecting that which comes.

 

[Reykhel]

I'm tired of their makeup and fake non-natural look.

tired of them always getting their way.

tired of them treating good men like shyt.

tired of them AWing on social media.

tired of them ignoring men on old.

tired of their lies and manipulative ways.

tired of them period.

Ah the art of reading.....

*Checks literary devices*.....oh oh oh I know! The author is applying a large dose of irony.........

......and it appears to be going over the audience's heads...