"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Where do you find this sweet spot? I mean, I assume most of us dont want a girl who is lousy in bed, doesnt move, and basically just opens her legs for you. On the other hand, I personally also dont want a slvt, that I know that has been with 50 other guys before and will likely be with 50 other guys more in the future ( even though she might the bomb in the sack).

So, what is your sweet spot mainly concerning stable plates or gf´s?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is life perfect? no. Can you enjoy things in life anyway? yes. All right, so we've established that not everything is gonna be a Disney novel, but we can find our spot anyway. What this means is you don't need a virgin.

Next there's the question of where you get your sense of self-worth. Guys who get it from things they can't control but which can control the validation they get from them, like another person, are in a blue pill state of mind. That's why posing with a celebrity on your instagram photo should not make you feel better, and why being uncomfortable having a girlfriend who has taken more cvm than your buddy's wife - while a perfectly valid feeling - in actuality means you don't feel complete without validating yourself through her. Is it gonna be easy to get to that mental point? no, but you aim there to get as close as you can. Living without need for validation is what freedom is.

If you don't need to be validated through her, how much does it really matter if she's svcked 0, 3 or 15 d!cks before you in of itself? try to find an answer that doesn't revolve to what someone thinks of you.

What matters to me (theoretically as I've never bothered with a ltr) is her congruence, honesty, self-respect, and that she's faithful while in a relationship. What congruence and honesty mean is for example, I have more respect for a girl who likes men and likes having sex, understands men may not want her for that reason and is open about that and herself, than an ex-party girl who now pretends to be another kind of woman (for as long as she thinks she has to). Self-respect means if she doesn't respect herself, neither can I. If I find out she's had 3 partners but she ate their @sses and they were disgusting lowlifes, I would rather be with a girl who's had 100 partners.

In summary what you should ask yourself is, does she respect or look up to you? does she respect herself? does she like to please you? do you enjoy being with her? does she turn you on? if yes, you next need to find out why. Is it because that's who she is, or who she pretends to be? if it's who she really is, then you have found "good enough", which is what reality runs on.

TL;DR: the specific number itself is irrelevant.
 
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My sweet spot is a nympho.
 
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Juanto said:
Where do you find this sweet spot? I mean, I assume most of us dont want a girl who is lousy in bed, doesnt move, and basically just opens her legs for you. On the other hand, I personally also dont want a slvt, that I know that has been with 50 other guys before and will likely be with 50 other guys more in the future ( even though she might the bomb in the sack).
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pick one.

what's more important, that your girl be chaste or that she be good in bed? pick one, and focus on finding that girl, and dealing with the consequences.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LARaiders85 said:
Have never had this issue with any girl I've been with, and the more experienced women were not any better than the less experienced. In fact the least experienced girl was the wildest.
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This has been my experience as well. I thought my exgf was good in bed because I was comparing to my exwife. My current plate is miles better than my exgf, and its not even close. It was like bad to okay to holy crap...

To answer the question, I prefer a woman with a low lay count who is willing to be complete slvt for me. She is open to try anything and is an unselfish partner....
 
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Roober said:
To answer the question, I prefer a woman with a low lay count who is willing to be complete slvt for me. She is open to try anything and is an unselfish partner....
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This to me seems the ideal scenario too.
 
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