devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
that's not a good thing man, you need some bros
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What's your social circle look like?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I work and have my kid during the week, so I only see my friends on the weekends. They are all guys I met last summer. All of them are PUA and heavily into night game. Otherwise I have some guys I know in the car scene that I see at shows.
It helps to have friends that know about game. They understand what the world is really like and are good wings.
It helps to have friends that know about game. They understand what the world is really like and are good wings.
I know! Someone bro with me!
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
i'll be your bro if you own a PS4 and like to play pool (billiards)
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Dah fuq is up with this thread? I think a lot of you are unbearable on this forum so naturally, most cool guys are going to avoid you in the real world.
For me, I had a great social circle out of college in NYC. I lived in a naturally young part of the city where people were in their 20s, apartment buildings had a community atmosphere to them, and neighborhoods were young. Saw some people around a few times in the apartment, they started randomly talking to me and me to them and then they invited me to some events. Met one guy then another and then they knew some girls and those girls had friends and then it all came together into one large loosely connected social circle.
Recently I've been focusing on my career but my workplace is mostly people in their 20s so I have made friends to some degree with coworkers but also friends with some of their acquaintances, mutual friends thing is real.
I have a lot of people to hang out with if I want but I also spend a lot of time (60+ hours a week) working so not as much time to party, the option is there though.
For me, I had a great social circle out of college in NYC. I lived in a naturally young part of the city where people were in their 20s, apartment buildings had a community atmosphere to them, and neighborhoods were young. Saw some people around a few times in the apartment, they started randomly talking to me and me to them and then they invited me to some events. Met one guy then another and then they knew some girls and those girls had friends and then it all came together into one large loosely connected social circle.
Recently I've been focusing on my career but my workplace is mostly people in their 20s so I have made friends to some degree with coworkers but also friends with some of their acquaintances, mutual friends thing is real.
I have a lot of people to hang out with if I want but I also spend a lot of time (60+ hours a week) working so not as much time to party, the option is there though.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.