Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

Anyone help me figure out why girl blocked me on Facebook

Rhscmike10

New Member
Joined
Feb 28, 2017
Messages
6
Reaction score
0
Age
34
I was messaging this girl who seemed to like me giving good responses and was talking about hanging out then she was asking where lived so I used that stalker line to push pull I said "I hope you aren't stalking me " and I went to see if she responded and I was blocked ? I'm so confused how was that block worthy when before she was all cool and interested ??
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

9Volt

Banned
Joined
Apr 21, 2015
Messages
891
Reaction score
390
I was messaging this girl who seemed to like me giving good responses and was talking about hanging out then she was asking where lived so I used that stalker line to push pull I said "I hope you aren't stalking me " and I went to see if she responded and I was blocked ? I'm so confused how was that block worthy when before she was all cool and interested ??
Easy solution.

Send her a FB message asking her why she blocked you. Problem solved.
 

Rhscmike10

New Member
Joined
Feb 28, 2017
Messages
6
Reaction score
0
Age
34
How if I'm blocked lol am I the only one that doesn't think it makes sense to get blocked for saying that i could have just told her but I wanted to push pull and not be boring
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

9Volt

Banned
Joined
Apr 21, 2015
Messages
891
Reaction score
390
How if I'm blocked lol am I the only one that doesn't think it makes sense to get blocked for saying that i could have just told her but I wanted to push pull and not be boring
Send her another message asking her nicely to unblock you. easy work.
 

PeasantPlayer

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 20, 2013
Messages
3,069
Reaction score
946
Who cares, you can be the best poet, athlete, rapper, rocker, scientist. Women will flake and due stuff you perceive as weird, flush the toilet kid move on
 

El Payaso

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 16, 2014
Messages
3,621
Reaction score
2,624
She's not interested. Move on.
 

dude99

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 1, 2016
Messages
2,550
Reaction score
3,105
Age
53
I was messaging this girl who seemed to like me giving good responses and was talking about hanging out then she was asking where lived so I used that stalker line to push pull I said "I hope you aren't stalking me " and I went to see if she responded and I was blocked ? I'm so confused how was that block worthy when before she was all cool and interested ??
She was too childish. Next.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

logicallefty

Moderator
Joined
Apr 26, 2006
Messages
6,000
Reaction score
5,151
Age
52
Location
Northeast Florida, USA
Your stalker line was fine. Something I have said to chicks. She was just an insecure b!tch who can't handle a little humor. Next..
 

Rhscmike10

New Member
Joined
Feb 28, 2017
Messages
6
Reaction score
0
Age
34
Your stalker line was fine. Something I have said to chicks. She was just an insecure b!tch who can't handle a little humor. Next..
That's what I'm saying I've used it before too and it worked well for push pull teasing or else I would have just given the dry yes or no response I didn't even think I was taking a risk lol so surprising
 
Top