ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
Geek becomes PUA. PUA then graduates, if he is lucky, to become a 'natural'."PUA" is the last thing to become a "natural" unless you meant a natural weirdo.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Geek becomes PUA. PUA then graduates, if he is lucky, to become a 'natural'."PUA" is the last thing to become a "natural" unless you meant a natural weirdo.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Most likely they "graduate" to become a so-called "MGTOW"Geek becomes PUA. PUA then graduates, if he is lucky, to become a 'natural'.
Well, that is kind of what a natural cool dude is.... a person who is going their own way. They are doing their own thing, have other things going on in life, and just happen to meet the odd woman now and then. In other words, women are peripheral not central to their life. Until of course they find the One.Most likely they "graduate" to become a so-called "MGTOW"
Yet so-called "mgtow" do nothing but whine in circles about chicks instead of "going their own way" from chicks like they claim.Well, that is kind of what a natural cool dude is.... a person who is going their own way. They are doing their own thing, have other things going on in life, and just happen to meet the odd woman now and then. In other words, women are peripheral not central to their life. Until of course they find the One.And then they have graduated MGTOW.
You ain't kidding. MGTOW have raised the bar on pedestalizing chicks even more than "PUA" goobers.The only true MTGTOW are super high value males who can get laid anytime they want. Only abundance allows you to go your own way to higher pleasures in life, not bitterness and jadedness. The majority of MTGTOW movement are sexless losers that have women on their mind 24/7.
There is no such thing as renouncing women and sex unless you are a monk. There is only conquering women and then moving on with your life.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
"MGTOW" is what these "PUAs" wind up "graduating" to. Same gullible weirdos who sexually frustrated d1cks think for them.Many years ago I used to have a harem of gf's. This was when I truly went my own way. I got my college degree, started hustling, climbed mountains, meditating, etc. I was truly productive in every facet. Women were never meant to be the object of your life like for the majority of bitter MTGTOW guys. For REAL MTGTOW guys, women are an afterthought.
If you fail to conquer women, you'll just be stuck in bitterness and women dominate your life even more. You ain't gonna be free. That's a fantasy.