"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Threatening a woman with leaving her if she doesn't put out is now considered rape!

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The guy's a fckn loser for staying with women who doesn't want sex with him. You might say that he was stitched up if it was just one bird, but three different women...?

At the end of the day, if you force yourself on a woman by whatever means and she says no, it's rape. To be fair, he does look a bit like a rapist.

Wouldn't pay too much attention to the Daily Mail all the same.
 

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The guy's a fckn loser for staying with women who doesn't want sex with him. You might say that he was stitched up if it was just one bird, but three different women...?

At the end of the day, if you force yourself on a woman by whatever means and she says no, it's rape. To be fair, he does look a bit like a rapist.

Wouldn't pay too much attention to the Daily Mail all the same.
Force yourself on a woman by telling her you will leave her is still rape? Ok dude I like your posts but that is pretty rediculous. The physical abuse ok I get, but threatening to leave is definitely not rape.
 

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Force yourself on a woman by telling her you will leave her is still rape? Ok dude I like your posts but that is pretty rediculous. The physical abuse ok I get, but threatening to leave is definitely not rape.
The headline, like most in the mainstream news, is misleading. The blackmail wasn't the real issue. The article says he physically forced himself when they said no. He's just a rapist in the classic sense.
 
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If you read the article objectively, you can see that it's heavily biased and opinionated with very little FACTS. The few tidbits of quotes are one sided and don't explain the extent of the 'relationships'. Without knowing more about the situation, it seems that all of these women were in consensual relationships with this man, and did AGREE to have sex with him. I'm not defending the guy, he could be a complete deusch, and the way his relationships are described are not my cup of tea. However, it does seem, considering the 50 Shades of Grey phenomenon, that women do like that extreme submission type of role play which seemed to be described here.

There's really just not enough FACTS to go with the story to confirm that this guy legally raped this women. Reading between the highly descriptive adjectives of the one-sided story, it does seem that, at the time, this was all consensual.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Did I read the same article? Im not reading any charges because he threatened to leave if she didnt put out. Where are you getting this? Im reading charges that he did actually rape them. Yes, it does seem a little 50 shades of grey, gone too far. Have these girls ever heard of a safe word? lol

"... she submitted to his unwanted sexual advances after he threatened to leave her if she did not have sex with him."

This is only a very small portion of the story, and has nothing to do with the actual rape charges.
 
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