"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ok so i nevvvver get pvssy like im a pretty good looking guy nothing crazy but im not ugly. 5'10 stocky go to the gym alot. Have a good job but i literally never get girls l... its so frustrating. I mean i hit on them and everything but i guess i have absolutly 0 game i literally have gone Years without *****. Ill be lucky to fvck 2 girls in a year. Seriously...... im a country boy lookin guy not white trash but the only type of guys around here that get pvusy are the pretty boys...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok so i nevvvver get pvssy like im a pretty good looking guy nothing crazy but im not ugly. 5'10 stocky go to the gym alot. Have a good job but i literally never get girls l... its so frustrating. I mean i hit on them and everything but i guess i have absolutly 0 game i literally have gone Years without *****. Ill be lucky to fvck 2 girls in a year. Seriously...... im a country boy lookin guy not white trash but the only type of guys around here that get pvusy are the pretty boys...
1. Don't feel bad.

2. Read the bible
 

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I mean i dont feel bad and ive read the bible... i feel like my style and type of person i am doesnt fit in with my area.
 

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Getting women is not area specific. The only thing that changes with area are the quantity of available women per area.
The only way area would come into play is if you are from one continent and living in another and dealing with a different female mindset you are not accustomed to. The east vs. west thing.
 
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My quantity of available woman is low lol. Maybe im uglier then i thought
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Go to night clubs and dance / grind with them. Bingo.
 

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Been trying all that man its like i just dont get it im telling you in my area the "look" is tats skinny with crazy hairdo allllll thise types of guys get ass. Me im country looking im not a redneck or hillbilly just a southern man living up in yankee territory lol. Im from sc living in dc area suburban md. Im telling you i do not click with these woman up here
 

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Adapt, overcome, and adjust your style if needed. Don't need tats or new hair style. Pick new hangout places and see if the crowd is different.
Had the best luck earlier in life when I was from Texas and living in Indiana's largest city. Girls wanted to find out for themselves how different I was. Own where you are from or blend in and not be unique and different.
You keep trying to blame your lack of success on the area and people being different. Look inward for your answers.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Been trying all that man its like i just dont get it im telling you in my area the "look" is tats skinny with crazy hairdo allllll thise types of guys get ass. Me im country looking im not a redneck or hillbilly just a southern man living up in yankee territory lol. Im from sc living in dc area suburban md. Im telling you i do not click with these woman up here
Don't worry about it, most chicks are wh0res anyway. You don't know where they've been! They probably have an STD.
 

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Been trying all that man its like i just dont get it im telling you in my area the "look" is tats skinny with crazy hairdo allllll thise types of guys get ass. Me im country looking im not a redneck or hillbilly just a southern man living up in yankee territory lol. Im from sc living in dc area suburban md. Im telling you i do not click with these woman up here
There is soooo much self-limiting belief in this post, it makes me wonder why you are even here on SS.

Fix your mindset, the women will come.

Kind of reminds of something I read in the Book of Pook. "Aim High"... The high standards you apply to your desires must be applied to yourself

Stocky? To me, that says your big, but not tone at all. If you want tone women, get tone! Abs are made in the kitchen!
Country boy? Does this mean you wear jeans and flannels everywhere? Do they fit properly? City girls tend to swoon over country boys, who properly present themselves. "Country boy" could mean so many things
Haircut? neatly groomed?
Clean Shaven?
Use deodorant and cologne (a good one)?
Glasses or contacts? If glasses, are they stylish or modern?

I could go on and on about looks, but it does nothing for your mindset. You shouldn't ever "hit" on women. You talk to them like a normal person while eye fvcking them, light kino, joke with them, and go for the number. You haven't been rejected enough to really find your rhythm.

Treat women like your little sister!
 

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There is soooo much self-limiting belief in this post, it makes me wonder why you are even here on SS.

Fix your mindset, the women will come.

Kind of reminds of something I read in the Book of Pook. "Aim High"... The high standards you apply to your desires must be applied to yourself

Stocky? To me, that says your big, but not tone at all. If you want tone women, get tone! Abs are made in the kitchen!
Country boy? Does this mean you wear jeans and flannels everywhere? Do they fit properly? City girls tend to swoon over country boys, who properly present themselves. "Country boy" could mean so many things
Haircut? neatly groomed?
Clean Shaven?
Use deodorant and cologne (a good one)?
Glasses or contacts? If glasses, are they stylish or modern?

I could go on and on about looks, but it does nothing for your mindset. You shouldn't ever "hit" on women. You talk to them like a normal person while eye fvcking them, light kino, joke with them, and go for the number. You haven't been rejected enough to really find your rhythm.

Treat women like your little sister!
I concur...

As for High standards.... My goal, is a woman who will hunt me down to the ends of the earth, and back again. Don't settle, you won't be happy, she won't be happy. Settling is a "lose lose" proposition.

Is why, still single, lol!!! :p
 

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BTW, where is poonz???
 

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Im not big im 5'10 205 i was a competitive powerlifter im not super lean but you can tell i lift for sure. As far as country boy i wear clean white t's cowboy boots and nicer jeans. My hair is medium length i always wear a hat. Im always clean smell good etc... i look more like a classy version of country. Not some dirty redneck that wears camo and fishhooks in his hat etc. People that are around eventually always begin to copy my style really.... its simple but looks good in any occasion. I do not wear glasses.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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