She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
roosh has no game to begin with.Whatever man. Game is game.
If that was the case, no guy in Hollywood would be able to get a date, ever. It sure sounds like Roosh is more of an expert on taking it up the @ss than on what attracts females.I was watching one of Roosh's latest videos and he had a great point.
Roosh said that if you were imprisoned, do you look like you would be more likely to be ass raped, or do you look like you would be doing the ass raping on someone?
If you look like you'd be taking it back door, it means you're probably not going to be attracting women. If you look like you would be the one doing the raping, than women are likely going to be finding you attractive.
What do you guys think? I think Roosh is SPOT ON here. Women want the bad boy.
^^^This.If that was the case, no guy in Hollywood would be able to get a date, ever. It sure sounds like Roosh is more of an expert on taking it up the @ss than on what attracts females.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I've had a problem with Roosh for a long time (there's articles around the web of my opinion of him), yes occasionally he makes some goods points but he isn't good at communicating generally.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Precisely. Bent on blaming everyone else but himself. On the contrary, I went to the states and banged four decent chicks in two weeks. I wonder what gives... To be fair, I am better-looking and more charismatic than Roosh. Even his tone of voice is just a constant whinge-fest.I don't doubt Roosh banged a few girls in some of the places he has travelled, BUT he left America because he sucked.
What many seem to forget is to demonstrate their own progression and learning, still; not necessarily about women, but also life in general. This is why they end up becoming boring to watch, because they keep on harping the same old 'gospel' that they think they know. Nothing ever stays the same way forever. Roosh's material and outlook doesn't seem to change, therefore his material is already about a decade out of date.Like most manosphere figures, he doesn't strike me as the type who sleeps with many women. Just some edgy angry writer.
well it's entirely possible that he takes breaks from smashing women to write books and blog.I used to follow Rooshi. I had his website bookmarked and I would browse daily. Then I followed his youtube to hear and see the man behind the words. My first thought:
"This guy, really doesn't look like the type of guy that seduces a lot of women."
Then his ideas became extreme and I realized he wasn't in that great of shape. Like most manosphere figures, he doesn't strike me as the type who sleeps with many women. Just some edgy angry writer. You know who I would believe if they were a manosphere figure? Dan Bilzerian. But I suppose when you live like that you don't really have time to cook up theories, tactics and techniques for fūcking women
Yeah Roosh is "taking breaks" from banging all the babes to bang on his keyboard.well it's entirely possible that he takes breaks from smashing women to write books and blog.
isn't one of the central tenants of game that looks aren't everything?
True. Looks aren't everything and I'm not saying that. I'm not expecting Roosh look like a model but the way he carries himself just doesn't strike me as someone who sleeps with a lot of women. He isn't very charismatic nor well groomed or dressed (in the times I've seen him). And he appears to not to be in great shape, despite his website advocating for lifting weights.isn't one of the central tenants of game that looks aren't everything?
yeah, because nobody who is good with women uses the internet right?Yeah Roosh is "taking breaks" from banging all the babes to bang on his keyboard.
to be fair that could be part of the point, proving that his game isn't about being good looking would require him to play the game on hard by not being particularly good looking or well groomed or put together.True. Looks aren't everything and I'm not saying that. I'm not expecting Roosh look like a model but the way he carries himself just doesn't strike me as someone who sleeps with a lot of women. He isn't very charismatic nor well groomed or dressed (in the times I've seen him). And he appears to not to be in great shape, despite his website advocating for lifting weights.
I could be wrong. Maybe he kills it with the ladies but if I knew him in real life I certainly wouldn't look to him for any sort've advice or aspiration. One of the pluses of his persona used to be his social commentary and ideals but over time he has become quite extreme and fringe. Not to mention his constant fear mongering of the impending destruction of America and constant advocation of living in a foreign country just for the sake of dating "better women."
When I first got into the game shít I was excited to have any figure to look to but I got a little wiser and realized most of these dudes are posers. Sosuave is as real as it gets regarding the manosphere and people are even posing here.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yeah because a dude that is more worried about pissing off feminists, needing to go elsewhere because his whole home country "svcks", admits he fails overseas, is endorsed by other angry faceless weirdos, and spends the majority of his time writing books, making videos, doing blogs, sitting on his forum etc. is just "slaying pvssy".yeah, because nobody who is good with women uses the internet right?
the more he talks about failing, the more likely it is that he succeeds.Yeah because a dude that is more worried about pissing off feminists, needing to go elsewhere because his whole home country "svcks", admits he fails overseas, is endorsed by other angry faceless weirdos, and spends the majority of his time writing books, making videos, doing blogs, sitting on his forum etc. is just "slaying pvssy".
get real
I'm sure Roosh is a real "slayer". World's most eligible bachelor, heart breaker extraordinaire. I mean it's "obvious" right? All them PUA's too. Banging all those "10s". One can only dream of living the playboy life of Roosh. lmaothe more he talks about failing, the more likely it is that he succeeds.
why? because people who are chronic failures are more likely to lie about their successes and talking about failing doesn't really do a good job of maintaining the lie (and only people who succeed at least some of the time would realize that you'll fail more than you succeed).
remember, we're talking about something where a 50% success rate is considered a near unattainable god tier level of success here.
this reminds me of when two of my friends absolutely insisted that you couldn't just go up to and talk to a random girl as if it was some unwritten law that you can't talk to strangers or somethingI'm sure Roosh is a real "slayer". World's most eligible bachelor, heart breaker extraordinaire. I mean it's "obvious" right? All them PUA's too. Banging all those "10s". One can only dream of living the playboy life of Roosh. lmao
Roosh has provided ample evidence he isn't good with chicks.this reminds me of when two of my friends absolutely insisted that you couldn't just go up to and talk to a random girl as if it was some unwritten law that you can't talk to strangers or something
apparently there's some unwritten law about what someone good with girls looks and acts like, may I ask what your credentials are to be able to tell someone good with women just at a glance and how accurate those glances are?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.