Which is why I could care less to express my opinion whether they agree or not. If they don't like me they don't have to. Doesn't mean I'm going to dance for them to try to make them "like" me. Big difference between needing their approval and not. Try to learn something for once.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Smoking hot chick voted for Hillary. I did too.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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This is called a strawman fallacy. Keeping sensitive topics to yourself has nothing to do with "needing their approval."
Aaaand you just wouldn't mention a "sensitive" subject like who you voted for when she may've voted opposite why? Because you're afraid if you don't keep quiet you might not wind up getting laid. You ain't fooling anyone.
Her opinion has you shook and all for the sake of maybe getting some of the golden vag. If a subject comes up and I have my opinion on it I'll give it. I'm not walking on eggshells for some broad because I need her to validate me with her puss.
Serenity
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I prefer pvssy more than being the puppet of a political party. I wouldn't be turned on by a woman talking politics at all, regardless of her opinion. Who you voted for isn't gonna make her wet, regardless of who you did vote for. Politics is not sexy, that is the point you keep missing in this thread.
Besides I don't judge based on who someone voted for, I judge according to their actions in my presence.
point being someone states their opinion I'm stating mine.
believe it or not chicks appreciate dudes that aren't yes man head nodding Mr agreeables.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Serenity
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Politics is still not sexy and your argument applies to when a woman demands something a man doesn't really want to do, but does it anyway just to pander.
I'm not saying I will agree. I'm saying I don't give a flying fvck about it because I can't put my c0ck in a woman's opinion. I will most likely lose any erection I may have had regardless of who she votes for, wether I agree or not.
Expressing your opinion if the topic comes up isn't pandering. Keeping quiet in hopes she sees you as a yes man is pandering. Try to learn something for once.
Serenity
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To use your style of (stupid) argument, expressing your political opinion in the hopes she sees you as an alpha is pandering. Seriously though, why the fvck would you even bother discussing politics with a woman? It is utterly pointless.
That's just obnoxious, behave like a decent man for once. You've said this more than once, it has lost it's impact.
I think you're losing it. Nearly 400 posts in a month on this forum, that just cannot be a healthy sign. What happened? Guys don't bury themselves in a forum like this for no reason, what are you running away from? I have a strong feeling your life isn't going so well, especially when you divert attention away from talking about it. It's alright, you can talk about it, we can help you.
Yeah bro my life's horrendous.
dudes trying to argue that not being afraid to voice your opinion if a topic comes up is "pandering" but keeping quiet in hopes you get some isn't.
sit down and learn something