"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm about ready to go MGTOW again

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I must remain you guys again...RAY RAY and Pookie are getting top notch black women with PhDs and the dude:

- Has no home, no car, no job
- Lives off of her
- Depends on her to survive

So if "improving" yourself is what it's all about, how do you explain this situation?
So you consider women who date Pookie ray ray top notch because they have pads.

Did you get college educated simply to get the chicks you feel you and you alone deserve?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheFixer14

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Honestly I'm just tired. I'm tired of going to clubs and bars that I don't have fun at. I'm tired of dating women who don't treat me threat that I deserve. I'm tired of going to parties looking for a woman. I'm tired of how bad this market is. And I'm tire of thinking about some young woman that I don't even have sexual feelings for.

Life is a b!tch isn't it? I don't even know what to do. Part of me waves to go on a rampage. But I don't know if I have that fortitude in my right now.
 

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I must remind you guys again...RAY RAY and Pookie are getting top notch black women with PhDs and the dude:

- Has no home, no car, no job
- Lives off of her
- Depends on her to survive

So if "improving" yourself is what it's all about, how do you explain this situation?
Depends on the definition of "top notch" i guess. Because i could go out and sponge off some codependent woman if i wanted to (have actually had the chance) but i find that girls with a bit of ambition and drive in life generally want the same in a partner
 

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Honestly I'm just tired. I'm tired of going to clubs and bars that I don't have fun at. I'm tired of dating women who don't treat me threat that I deserve. I'm tired of going to parties looking for a woman. I'm tired of how bad this market is. And I'm tire of thinking about some young woman that I don't even have sexual feelings for.

Life is a b!tch isn't it? I don't even know what to do. Part of me waves to go on a rampage. But I don't know if I have that fortitude in my right now.
Look mate, you need to sort yourself out. You are just whining and complaining "oh its all soooo hard"

Maybe taking a break from girls could be an option, get back in touch with YOU, your aims, goals, passions.

When i see people with your mindset that's usually whats gone wrong, and once you sort that out and get on track women usually become easier. If you are looking at game as a chire, somethings gone wrong.
 

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So you consider women who date Pookie ray ray top notch because they have pads.
Depends on the definition of "top notch" i guess. Because i could go out and sponge off some codependent woman if i wanted to (have actually had the chance) but i find that girls with a bit of ambition and drive in life generally want the same in a partner
A woman of at least "decent enough" quality is one I define as:

- Having looks that's at least a 6 - 7
- Good finances/Education/Career
- Decent Personality/Attitude

In terms of education, this chick might have a PHD and still date Ray Ray if she's black.

On Youtube there's an on-going debate about Black Educated Lames and Black Thugs, and who Black Women choose. The Black Educated Lame is a term for the non-thug. Check out this video:

 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TheFixer14

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I have been on a semi break. I did go on one date a few weeks ago, but outside of that I've been focused on my projects and improving my craft as an actor. Bummer is that there are a lot of women who act. I mean my new scene partner is a Lakers dancer.

Sex is too everywhere to really not think about. Especially L.A. On top of all that I am on a dry spell right now.
 
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