"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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1 year since I last logged in: They were right

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I randomly thought of this thread today. I realised I had not been here for quite a while and the thirst thought I had was something I remember reading here a lot.. whether it's still preached or not I don't know (I'm going to spend the next few days browsing and catching up, get an idea of the principles)

That preach was something I didn't understand at the time but I can attest it is totally true, and it was "You know you finally have unplugged when you stop reading these posts".. or to that effect.

The strange thing is that I remember being in that stage and I didn't believe it.. I remember thinking this unbelievable source of knowledge, the knowledge that changed me from the shy awkward dude to a person that can now say (and it took me a while to do it) really don't give a f**k.. and that is the best lesson to learn... easily... that knowledge I will always need to be filling up on every day to keep up the success..

But they were right.. and I only post this for the guys that are fresh here and have the same impression I used to have.

Don't get me wrong, look up my old or original posts and you'll witness a shamefull man.. lost in his own blue pill world. I don't want this post to come off as a self ego boost so I will not elaborate as to why I realised today that I actually was ready when I stopped reading and that 'They were right' all the material is amazing but fellas.. listen to what is said here, these guys brutalised me when I needed it.. and... They were right... I stopped reading, because it became natural, the sky has been the limit since.

One day you'll stop reading these.. and when you do, You've succeeded... just remember to come back a year later and write a rambling message such as this to encourage the next guys.

Keep up the good work guys.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I randomly thought of this thread today. I realised I had not been here for quite a while and the thirst thought I had was something I remember reading here a lot.. whether it's still preached or not I don't know (I'm going to spend the next few days browsing and catching up, get an idea of the principles)

That preach was something I didn't understand at the time but I can attest it is totally true, and it was "You know you finally have unplugged when you stop reading these posts".. or to that effect.

The strange thing is that I remember being in that stage and I didn't believe it.. I remember thinking this unbelievable source of knowledge, the knowledge that changed me from the shy awkward dude to a person that can now say (and it took me a while to do it) really don't give a f**k.. and that is the best lesson to learn... easily... that knowledge I will always need to be filling up on every day to keep up the success..

But they were right.. and I only post this for the guys that are fresh here and have the same impression I used to have.

Don't get me wrong, look up my old or original posts and you'll witness a shamefull man.. lost in his own blue pill world. I don't want this post to come off as a self ego boost so I will not elaborate as to why I realised today that I actually was ready when I stopped reading and that 'They were right' all the material is amazing but fellas.. listen to what is said here, these guys brutalised me when I needed it.. and... They were right... I stopped reading, because it became natural, the sky has been the limit since.

One day you'll stop reading these.. and when you do, You've succeeded... just remember to come back a year later and write a rambling message such as this to encourage the next guys.

Keep up the good work guys.
Most of the info in the end is "common sense" and how things actually work.
 

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I randomly thought of this thread today. I realised I had not been here for quite a while and the thirst thought I had was something I remember reading here a lot.. whether it's still preached or not I don't know (I'm going to spend the next few days browsing and catching up, get an idea of the principles)

That preach was something I didn't understand at the time but I can attest it is totally true, and it was "You know you finally have unplugged when you stop reading these posts".. or to that effect.

The strange thing is that I remember being in that stage and I didn't believe it.. I remember thinking this unbelievable source of knowledge, the knowledge that changed me from the shy awkward dude to a person that can now say (and it took me a while to do it) really don't give a f**k.. and that is the best lesson to learn... easily... that knowledge I will always need to be filling up on every day to keep up the success..

But they were right.. and I only post this for the guys that are fresh here and have the same impression I used to have.

Don't get me wrong, look up my old or original posts and you'll witness a shamefull man.. lost in his own blue pill world. I don't want this post to come off as a self ego boost so I will not elaborate as to why I realised today that I actually was ready when I stopped reading and that 'They were right' all the material is amazing but fellas.. listen to what is said here, these guys brutalised me when I needed it.. and... They were right... I stopped reading, because it became natural, the sky has been the limit since.

One day you'll stop reading these.. and when you do, You've succeeded... just remember to come back a year later and write a rambling message such as this to encourage the next guys.

Keep up the good work guys.
Most of the info in the end is "common sense" and how things actually work.

Some of it like continuing to reward a lady who's doing bad and paying her with good treatment, such as helping her out, being available, buying her gifts etc is hard with the blue pill lenspoint to
figure out what's right because you want to treat others how you want to be treated. WIth the info here, we will not supplicate or reward poor behavior.
 

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Most of the info in the end is "common sense" and how things actually work.

Some of it like continuing to reward a lady who's doing bad and paying her with good treatment, such as helping her out, being available, buying her gifts etc is hard with the blue pill lenspoint to
figure out what's right because you want to treat others how you want to be treated. WIth the info here, we will not supplicate or reward poor behavior.
And that has been a big learning point for me... give give give... not monetary things, but others... I have imagine every aspiring DJ needs different lengths of time here before the knowledge becomes second nature and experiences begin to mold who you want to be...

I am that way with some things that I see others post as I think... "geez, that is sooo rudimentary"... other things I ask about, guys probably think the same thing about me... "like duh, you know what to do..." But we don't and that is why we ask. Once we have enough experience to answer our own questions, you reach a point where the knowledge here is part of you...

That is really what this is all about... Identifying your flaws and becoming the best man you can be for yourself and your family. The sweet reward is the amazing effect it has on women.
 

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And that has been a big learning point for me... give give give... not monetary things, but others... I have imagine every aspiring DJ needs different lengths of time here before the knowledge becomes second nature and experiences begin to mold who you want to be...

I am that way with some things that I see others post as I think... "geez, that is sooo rudimentary"... other things I ask about, guys probably think the same thing about me... "like duh, you know what to do..." But we don't and that is why we ask. Once we have enough experience to answer our own questions, you reach a point where the knowledge here is part of you...

That is really what this is all about... Identifying your flaws and becoming the best man you can be for yourself and your family. The sweet reward is the amazing effect it has on women.
One of our flaws was just thinking they will just "do right". But it's not how they are wired.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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One of our flaws was just thinking will just "do right". But it's not how they are wired.
It is what we hear from birth...

Fortunately, my boys will have a much different upbringing
 

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And that has been a big learning point for me... give give give... not monetary things, but others... I have imagine every aspiring DJ needs different lengths of time here before the knowledge becomes second nature and experiences begin to mold who you want to be...

I am that way with some things that I see others post as I think... "geez, that is sooo rudimentary"... other things I ask about, guys probably think the same thing about me... "like duh, you know what to do..." But we don't and that is why we ask. Once we have enough experience to answer our own questions, you reach a point where the knowledge here is part of you...

That is really what this is all about... Identifying your flaws and becoming the best man you can be for yourself and your family. The sweet reward is the amazing effect it has on women.
One of our flaws was just thinking will just "do right". But it's not how they are wired.
It is what we hear from birth...

Fortunately, my boys will have a much different upbringing
There are ones who will "DO RIGHT", but they "DO RIGHT" almost all the time and usually are more "boring" than the "hot girls" so sought after on sosuave.net.

The "hot girls" usually leverage the white nights and naïve, get all their needs except sexual and fun met, and bone and play with the male equivalent crook/cheaters up to celebrity level if they are able. You have to run game on them or you will
get taken.
 
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