General thoughts

[C00lAF]

Hey all,I just wanted to share some thoughts of mine and what i have experinced lately,i will put them in the form of points.now some of those arent mine in words,but the idea is the same.

1.experinces will change you.
2.you are not really important to some people as you think you are.
3.life WILL test your standards and morals and value in the harshest way possible.
4.women will never ever make you happy.
5.write down your values on a piece of paper.
6.not every value is valuble.
7.most people wont do anything to you unless it benefits them somehow.
8.you dont have to be a good person.
9.dont you ever try to please everyone
10.betas come in all shapes and sizes.
11.you can get away with beta words sometimes,but rarley with actions.
12.game and alpha-ness is much more than banging.
13.not because you kissed/fvcked/took number/saw signs of HI means that the girl is SO into you.
14.you cant win them all,what works for this might not work for that.
15.jadedness comes over time,but you might become jaded overnight.
16.have a life philosyphy or somebody will sell you one.
17.be comfortable with being hated.
18.extravert or introvert,you should learn to live alone.
19.words dont mean sh1t,look at actions.
20.sometimes staying in the dark is better than knowing the ugly thing under the light.
21.once you are red pilled you can never go back,and if you did you will be much worse than pre red pill
22.there are bad people out there that would be more than happy to see you suffer,and sadly you sometime call them bros/friends
23.the mind loves what its used to,dont be very surprised when friends trip when you start to change.
24.sibilings and parents are the biggest obstacle in evolving.
25.once you become succesful with something most people are not succesful with,keep in mind,at that point you have probably 1-2 real friends max,rest is fake,or just in it for the benifit.

Ill be adding more(hopefully)
Insights?

 

[Glassguy]

A woman's interest in you can literally change overnight. Circumstances both within and beyond your control will effect it. Strike while the iron is hot. Dont worry about it when it gets cold.

A woman can also fall in and out of love in an instant. They are emotionally driven and emotions can change instantly.

Always have options so walking away is an easy choice she knows you will make if you need to. Spin plates.

Attention to women is like sechs to men. Do not give it undeservingly.

Every woman has a sloot locked inside her. Its your job to get it out.

Do not put any weight into what a woman says. Only focus on what a woman does.

Spin. More. Plates.

Anything but a yes is a no.

If you are texting a chick and she is not eventually asking the questions and showing signs of interest, move on. She may come back into the conversation once she sees you are not wasting time.

Do not waste any time with low interest chicks. That is clearly chasing and you cannot keep frame unless you are the prize.

 

[RangerMIke]

Everything you think is really important really isn't.

 

[C00lAF]

Do not put any weight into what a woman says. Only focus on what a woman does.

This,i had a girl telling me about all the dirty **** she would do to me in bed,i didnt get excited or anything,i was like"if it happens it happens other wise i wont be very excited about it" and demonstrated that thru actions and words,didnt become super texty suddenly and all that. Next thing i know she flaked lol,still didnt affect me.

 

[C00lAF]

Everything you think is really important really isn't.

Wealth,health,family,emotional stability and well being,every other thing can be thrown in the back burner.

 

[C00lAF]

But the real issue sometimes is branched qualities,and where most people fail and dont know why,for example,you value wealth,and in order to get that you have to do stuff that you really hate to do,waking up early for example. Thats why i think that i should branch the things i value and the qualities i need to acquire in order to achive them so everything falls in its place.

 

[Roober]

Actions speak louder than words!

AND

People will tell you who they are, you just have to listen!

Best words for an AFC or newly evolving DJ. I always knew this, but it is hard to live by it when in the middle of the storm. One tends to "justify" the other's actions.

 

[logicallefty]

SS Hall of Fame/Hall of Excellence candidate post right there, OP. Outstanding!!

 

[RangerMIke]

Wealth,health,family,emotional stability and well being,every other thing can be thrown in the back burner.

I agree. The things that matter we often take for granted, so you don't think it's important.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

You don't have to be a good person I totally agree with that. I'm doing ME Point blank period

 

[Urbanyst]

Don't let others set your priorities. Decide what is important to you. Live by that.

Things you never have to justify to anyone:

1. Your sex life
2. Your lifestyle
3. Your political beliefs
4. Your religious beliefs
5. Your friends
6. Your career choice
7. Your relationship status

 

[C00lAF]

26.avoid spending too much time on SS or any other dating forum,or even read too much dating related books
27.do not become an E-DJ ir an I-DJ (electronic-internet);too much reading gives you the impression that you know even tho you did not experince a similar or even close to situation,causing you to give wrong advice and sometimes newbs stumble upon it.
28.always be objective about everything and think about it without letting your prefrence or emotions lean you to one side or another,just look at the positives and negatives.
29.do not depend on anyone to do or handle you sh1t.
30.if at all you need to vent or look weak,do it to the taxi driver that you will probably never see again in your life.
31.keep your values infront of you all the time and you will get the 0 fks given mode naturally.
32.be responsible of what you think about.
33.your self image is everything
34.finance is the most important thing after health,who tells you otherwise is probably justifying his shortcome to you and himself.

 

[wifehunter]

He who trusts his own mind, is a fool.