Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Boris Rum

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After experiencing the worst from women, I decided to be running background checks on pump and dump dates. 99% of them will fail and here are the common findings that indicate permanent emotional damage:

1. Kids taken away and parental rights terminated.
2. Has filed several restraining or protective orders
3. Has severe financial difficulties
4. Married twice before or more times
5. Always changing location, apartment to apartment
6. Appears on several dating sites
7. Multiple past boy friends.
8. Kids with different fathers
9. Either working in nursing, teaching or as a therapist lol


Then through talking to them (women are crazy) you learn all about the abortions, psychiatric meds she takes and past STDs. The trick is to loosen yourself, relax around her and she will open up. I wonder why men are still getting married to these *****s.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Explain this one to me.
Based on my experience, other men and court records etc, it seems women in these fields are damaged goods emotionally and mentally. No wonder they relate well to children, people in pain or those with metal issues. Most of these women have childlike behaviors and innocent looks, but remain dangerous to a typical man.
 

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I've never experienced anything that bad, and these are non-strippers?

Now do you believe me when I say there is no real difference between attractive women?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Run a background check on yourself, 99% of us here are fvcked up fellows that got it straight.


P.S. They are all damaged goods, all of them. Because our standard proof is an 18 year old virgin.
 

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Based on my experience, other men and court records etc, it seems women in these fields are damaged goods emotionally and mentally. No wonder they relate well to children, people in pain or those with metal issues. Most of these women have childlike behaviors and innocent looks, but remain dangerous to a typical man.
Not experience with therapists but would definitely agree about nurses and teachers.
 

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Also sorry brothers, if your wife or LTR is in nursing, chances are very high that she fvcks co-workers, due to the nature of the job, stress, loneliness and working in hidden spaces. The chance this happening increases to 101 % if she works the night shift. Just go to any major hospital during the night and see why doctors love their jobs lol.
 

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Run a background check on yourself, 99% of us here are fvcked up fellows that got it straight.


P.S. They are all damaged goods, all of them. Because our standard proof is an 18 year old virgin.
Yes we are all damaged to a certain extent, especially after all the false restraining orders, cops being called on you, being cheated on, your assets being taken away by the divorce courts, forced to raise another man's child and so forth. And all this has led to the loss of emotional love feelings for any woman, it's just pump and dump or spinning plates at a rate never before seen by humans.
 

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I've never experienced anything that bad, and these are non-strippers?

Now do you believe me when I say there is no real difference between attractive women?
BigNeil, the ones who have never experienced $trippers like you and I have will never understand that there is no difference.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's really simple. A given girl has at her disposal a certain percentage of men (and women).

A 10 basically can have sex with 100% of the people she meets. A 7 can have sex with 70% of the men she meets.

Therefore, when you upgrade from a 7 to a 10, you have to compete with about 42% more people (30/70). Also, those extra 30% of the people who are available to your 10 are the hottest 30% of people.

Those who say "Why would you treat a 7 differently than a 10" should observe this. Sure, you might be able to pretend you don't care, but eventually you will care if you are with the girl you truly think is the most gorgeous.

Thus, it becomes exponentially more difficult to maintain a girl the hotter she is (which is why I hired a physical trainer).
 

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Why would you treat a 7 differently than a 10?

When they're bent over, it's hard to tell the two apart, except for the 7 is probably trying harder.
 

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Why would you treat a 7 differently than a 10?

When they're bent over, it's hard to tell the two apart, except for the 7 is probably trying harder.
True, which is why I don't fall in love with a 10 if I have sex with her. That said, if you're dating a 7 and 10 over the course of several months, the one with a perfect body, perfect face and perfect vagina will probably be more likely to make you fall than the one who seems average next to her.

Having a 10 go all out to make you fall in love with her is a good problem to have, but it's still a problem when you fall. Every man has a breaking point. For me, it took an HB9+ (25 years my junior) 2 months of being willing to do anything before I started to fall. I remember the exact moment it happened too. I've managed to maintain it 2 more months but it's not easy. To be honest, being in love with the most beautiful girl you know sucks. You have fleeting moments of paradise followed by days of longing and uncertainty, then it repeats.
 

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People who have a fvcked up history never gets better, got it.

Uhm, how did anyone on this forum ever get better?
 

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Explain this one to me.
I have dated nurses, therapists and teachers. They were all damaged. Treat them like s hit and they will chase you around the world. I just f ucked them until it was time to move on. I'm not a big enough a sshole for most of them. No mater, I still have fun for a while and move along.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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