And do these strippers ever offer to reciprocate?
Doesn't matter if I earn $6 an hour or $600 an hour. If a chick or anyone doesn't ever reciprocate yet just takes you are being used.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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Doesn't matter if I earn $6 an hour or $600 an hour. If a chick or anyone doesn't ever reciprocate yet just takes you are being used.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Well let's have a look:
Crappy reading comprehension? Check.
Insults off of emotions because he is triggerred like Hillary supporters? Check.
Refusing to acknowledge my posts which explain the very thing he wants me to prove? Check.
Trying to shame people based on what he values? Check.
Overly emotional responses? Check.
Supporting of throwing money at women? Check.
Hmmm... Yup, it seems pretty clear to me. We have a feminist boys. This would be the last place I would expect to see one.
Yet you still haven't figured out how to rewrite the mess of crossed signals in your brain.
Yes. If you aren't paying big bucks to strippers to get them to say yes to a date with you. You MUST be a "h0mo".
God help those people at the airports you work at.
Serenity
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I will take it as a lie, you're evidently not done in this thread.
@bigneil You're not better.
I'm gonna go grab some popcorn for this sh!tshow. Keep arguing, I'm really excited to see who wins.
Whoever gets the last post before a mod closes this thread wins the argument, because he had the last word.
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
I win, in that case. Some people in here can expect some messages.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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