"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dating co-workers

051AV

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They say never sh*t where you eat well its true, I was warned don't do it, even my brother said are you fvcking nuts.

Its been nearly 2.5 years since I had to walk away from my job, I'm lucky thou I could fall back into my previous field of work after being away from it for little over a decade. Most guys have pigeon holed themselves into one skillset/career. I was planning on returning to my previous field of work the supervisor job I had in the corporation became stressful. It kinda turned into a big blow out fighting with management at work, fighting with the BPD who wanted to see me leave my job because she hated me.

Women will win any human resources dispute it doesn't matter if she's in the wrong she will always win my manager even said that he said you are fighting a losing battle you will lose. All my representatives in my dispute lodged against me said your going to lose plan on finding another job. Amazing how a senior employee can get thrown out of a corporation by a employee that had very little seniority. All my hard work wasn't even paying off I was the "bad guy" I had to leave. Management did realize how much I did they started scrambling when things started screwing up.

I looked at my co-workers I worked with most of them started with the corporation at a young age its all they know they have nothing else to fall back on. I have mentioned the guy dating the BPD he's fvcked if he loses his job there isn't many 80-90k a year jobs he's limited to what he can do.

If you've ever had the thoughts of dinking the woman at your workplace get that thought out of your mind. I think a lot of the past but I'm glad I'm where I'm today, I wouldn't ever get involved with a co-worker.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yep I know the feel, I dread coming to work every day, where my ex works, it's miserable stuff. Looking for other work right now.
 

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Yep I know the feel, I dread coming to work every day, where my ex works, it's miserable stuff. Looking for other work right now.
I knew it was a risk but I also knew I had a backup plan to leave the job I was in because I was so miserable because of it, thought things would improve if I had another woman in my life but she turned out to be a BPD so my life got even more miserable lol. Like they say don't sh*t where you eat its not worth it women always have the upper hand the guy gets fvcked every time.
 
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