"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do women prefer to chase men no matter how "independant" they may act?

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I tend to second guess myself on this one all the time due to the women worshipping society we live in. I remember when I was learning how to get over my insecurities I tended to not give a **** about what guys or girls thought of me and didn't make an effort to chase anyone not willing vibe with me. It got to the point where I believed that so as long as I dressed clean and smelled good it was gonna be a good day. 9/10 times it was good because I exuded natural confidence. And combined with my love for meeting new people I started to notice that I didn't have to try hard for girls at all--if anything some of them would give me subtle signs that they wanted me. This all started to change when I transferred to a local university (very commuter) I just started to notice that all the girls, especially the attractive ones, had this "on the go" type of vibe that made them seem very anti-social. I also noticed more that have this animosity towards men and praise the "independent woman" movement--similar to MGTOW except for females.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ArmyStrong90 said:
I tend to second guess myself on this one all the time due to the women worshipping society we live in. I remember when I was learning how to get over my insecurities I tended to not give a **** about what guys or girls thought of me and didn't make an effort to chase anyone not willing vibe with me. It got to the point where I believed that so as long as I dressed clean and smelled good it was gonna be a good day. 9/10 times it was good because I exuded natural confidence. And combined with my love for meeting new people I started to notice that I didn't have to try hard for girls at all--if anything some of them would give me subtle signs that they wanted me. This all started to change when I transferred to a local university (very commuter) I just started to notice that all the girls, especially the attractive ones, had this "on the go" type of vibe that made them seem very anti-social. I also noticed more that have this animosity towards men and praise the "independent woman" movement--similar to MGTOW except for females.
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Yes, they are called feminists. I would stay away. They'll only be compatible with orbiters.
 
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