“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Case Study: She Had a One Night Stand

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she went and ***** a guy behind op's back and he's bragging about having sex with her. Clear definition of a wh0re. How about you actually provide a decent rebuttal instead of attacking imaginary **** for once? This girl is clearly a wh0re or Op wasn't good enough for her, so he makes some topic bragging about screwing her like wtf. A real man wouldn't have to worry about his plates ******* other guys.
Behind my back? That implies a commitment. You are declaring sex as an official declaration of commitment? She was the one who voluntarily told me. You are clearly a fat, black woman on welfare (or her 16 year old virgin son) who hoped I would pay momma's rent but is mad I prefer an HB9 21 year old. Trainwreck is obviously another DJ wannabee who thinks he can suspend Tom Brady and prevent him from winning MVP. I just planned my next photo shoot with the girl who is 25 years my junior and rated HB9.9. Sorry, Latisha. But you can still get Cool Ranch Doritos on your EBT card, at my expense (I work) until Donald Trump takes over. Then, it's back to Mexico City for you and your 3 kids.

She went cold on tc for a month. That has precum written all over it. Quit defending beta tactics lad
Winner! Most likely SS member to be a non-white, female welfare recipient!

Trainwreck = Muslim man expecting arranged marriage.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If a girl likes a guy, why would she randomly go cold on him for 4 weeks? This is clearly an obvious indicator that the op should have took to cease contact with the girl.
Here is a photo from when I took the opposite advice of Brainwreck, just before I led her to my bedroom. If anyone ever led a hotter girl to their bedroom I say prove it.

 

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@bigneil is that the 'afraid of the color white' chick?

nice a$$ btw!
 

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@bigneil is that the 'afraid of the color white' chick?

nice a$$ btw!
Yes, I triggered her with some dark memory of her losing her innocence (as if that ever existed). I don't quite understand. But you can see that with that ass, she has a lot of credit.

Trainwreck has girls who are SO much hotter! Her cat.

Special thanks to Trainwreck for recommending to SS members they avoid having sex with girls like this.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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@bigneil I just read your first post...lol, dat a$$ initially distracted me

You're top shelf enough to realize that a well grounded female (someone who is really in touch with how they feel) isn't going to be fvcking a dude, and then telling you she loves you soon after she gets caught, right? Obviously I dont know you and I have no place to assess that moment, but it feels as if she was throwing that in to hopefully shore things up with you. It is, quite literally, a b1tch move. Not healthy. Just keep your eyeballs on straight, eh?
 

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@bigneil I just read your first post...lol, dat a$$ initially distracted me

You're top shelf enough to realize that a well grounded female (someone who is really in touch with how they feel) isn't going to be fvcking a dude, and then telling you she loves you soon after she gets caught, right?
You are saying you would refuse to have sex with her? You think she could fake making love? What would you have done? I'm not THAT top shelf.

You guys are basing it strictly on "she cheated last month", not "she had sex with you 10 times since"?

Seriously, are you guys wearing turbans? You think she is obligated to be committed to me because we had sex? I never even told you her situation. She was honest enough to tell me she had a ONS, and is clearly an HB9+ (per consensus), but so you say dump her? Face it: no man would dump a girl with an as-s like that. I'm getting tired of you pvssies here trying to discredit me at all costs.
 

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You are saying you would refuse to have sex with her? You think she could fake making love? What would you have done? I'm not THAT top shelf.

You guys are basing it strictly on "she cheated last month", not "she had sex with you 10 times since"?

Seriously, are you guys wearing turbans? You think she is obligated to be committed to me because we had sex? I never even told you her situation. She was honest enough to tell me she had a ONS, and is clearly an HB9+ (per consensus), but so you say dump her? Face it: no man would dump a girl with an as-s like that. I'm getting tired of you pvssies here trying to discredit me at all costs.
You are literally a white knight op. Quit putting pvssy on a pedestal.
 

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The moral: Bigneil had sex with an HB9.9 and members here are obviously none too pleased.

Maybe someday they will have sex themselves.

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Trainwreck loses her virginity.
 

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You are saying you would refuse to have sex with her? You think she could fake making love? What would you have done? I'm not THAT top shelf.

You guys are basing it strictly on "she cheated last month", not "she had sex with you 10 times since"?

Seriously, are you guys wearing turbans? You think she is obligated to be committed to me because we had sex? I never even told you her situation. She was honest enough to tell me she had a ONS, and is clearly an HB9+ (per consensus), but so you say dump her? Face it: no man would dump a girl with an as-s like that. I'm getting tired of you pvssies here trying to discredit me at all costs.
I wouldn't have sex with her, my boyfriend would get pissed, unless he got invited.
If I were a dude I would TAP THAT A$$, however, I'm a chick.

Legit, No sideswiping or harshing, I'm coming from a real place. No judgement.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The moral: Bigneil had sex with an HB9.9 and members here are obviously none too pleased.

Maybe someday they will have sex themselves.

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Trainwreck loses her virginity.
I had sex yesterday...... ;)
 

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I wouldn't have sex with her, my boyfriend would get pissed, unless he got invited.
If I were a dude I would TAP THAT A$$, however, I'm a chick.

Legit, No sideswiping or harshing, I'm coming from a real place. No judgement.
I appreciate your honesty. At least when I say she is the most beautiful woman I ever saw, the rest of you know I'm not exaggerating.
 

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You are saying you would refuse to have sex with her? You think she could fake making love? What would you have done? I'm not THAT top shelf.

You guys are basing it strictly on "she cheated last month", not "she had sex with you 10 times since"?

Seriously, are you guys wearing turbans? You think she is obligated to be committed to me because we had sex? I never even told you her situation. She was honest enough to tell me she had a ONS, and is clearly an HB9+ (per consensus), but so you say dump her? Face it: no man would dump a girl with an as-s like that. I'm getting tired of you pvssies here trying to discredit me at all costs.
My 2 cents: if you are not exclusive with her, dont dump her of course, especially since she is very attractive to you. Just keep on boning her and if she wants something more serious, then decide what is best for you
 

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My 2 cents: if you are not exclusive with her, dont dump her of course, especially since she is very attractive to you. Just keep on boning her and if she wants something more serious, then decide what is best for you
Thanks for getting it, Juanto. I'm between amazed and appalled by some of the advice here.

We have men who seem to think that after a woman kisses a man, that there is an implied commitment, and that if she has sex with anyone else (even if she tells him) it's "behind his back". Again, these opinions are those of c*ckblocking welfare moms disguised as DJ's and Muslim men who always had arranged marriages.

The goal of a date is to have sex, not to find some reason why she is disqualified from having sex. I love how these guys pretend they wouldn't even f*ck her with my d!ck.

Furthermore, the fact this is a girl 25 years my junior who is arguably the most beautiful woman in the world doesn't seem to be a factor to some of these virgins here. Tell you what, I'll keep having sex with the hottest girl I know, and you guys can explain why you're better off not having sex with her.

There is no commitment until SHE asks for one and he accepts.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Strippers are gonna cheat, it's part of their game. As long as bigneil is dealing with at least two he's doing fine.
Gorgeous, 21 year old bisexual women are going to have sex with other people. It's not cheating unless she previously promises not to.

Last month when she and I talked about her having been unfaithful, it was a joke. This time she apologized and told me about each and every partner she has had in the past year. To be honest, it was less than I thought. The fact she is now apologizing for having been with other men and telling me she likes me best is a step in the right direction.

But a lot of people here are miffed that I got such a hot girl to begin with and thus are desperately trying to unf*ck her for me. "OOH! She didn't call you back last month! That sex last week doesn't count!!!"

Try to realize something: if we had sex yesterday, that proves whatever she did last week was not because of low interest. Thus, anyone who declared low interest has been proven wrong.
 

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I would like some people to explain - word for word - how they would have handled this situation. Drop her off at home? Not asked her out to begin with? When the night ends with the best sex you ever had, you didn't stray too far from your goal.
 

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I would like some people to explain - word for word - how they would have handled this situation. Drop her off at home? Not asked her out to begin with? When the night ends with the best sex you ever had, you didn't stray too far from your goal.
i'd have done what my manly role model would've done, poison gotham city's water supply
 

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After several hours of intimacy, she kissed me goodbye like never before. Then she initiated the next text conversation. When I asked her out again (which implied another risque photo shoot) she said "Of course!!". Where did I go wrong again?
 

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You call having a 10 swallow as little reward? 4 months of sex with the hottest girl you ever saw in your life as little reward?

Show us photos of what you consider a lot of reward.
I don't consider a woman a reward or prize. Sex with a 10 is fun. But it's still just sex.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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