Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
He's a clown whose been banned from here before for being a racist who contributes nothing to the forum. In his past life, he was notorious for explaining away his manic depressant behaviors by blaming the white man. Now, he's accusing other manosphere members of doing this same thing. He's a walking manifestation of projection.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Everything about Mgtow/Manoshpere is a facade. They give you this image of brave men speaking out against the evils of feminism and the flaws of modern day society. In actuality, they are just losers bvtching about why some 10/10 woman won't just suck their dvck in public on command. They bvtch about how women don't like them despite their shvtty attituteds/personalities. They bvtch about it's not their fault they failed in life because liberalism is giving handouts to women, minorities, and etc. As a result, they are obsessed with a reactionary based ideology because they look back in times when women and other groups of people didn't have as much power over men. There is nothing honorable about the Mgtow/Manosphere community at all. In fact, idk why they haven't been labeled hate groups because all these recent rage incited mass killers participated in these communities.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Well this community has murdered innocent people, so I'm not ignoring shvt!
