GF wants a threesome (MFF)

[IBreatheSpears]

Apologies for the impending wall of text. I have a few questions and feel compelled to give the full background to make sure they can be answered accurately. So please accept my apologies and thanks in advance if you choose to read on, whether or not you answer

My girlfriend has brought up the idea of having a threesome several times. At first as a fantasy to describe to each other during foreplay but now as something she actually wants to do. I'm obviously up for it.

- gf and i are open. I'm fùcking another girl she knows about and she has fùcked one guy that i know of
- A few weeks ago we met another girl who has apparently expressed interest in having sex with us.
- last week gf met my ex and said she'd rather sleep with her. I suspect because gf and ex are both flat chested while other girl is bustier. I don't want to sleep with my ex, i think she wants me but she's banging my buddy who just lost his gf of 3 years, i'm not about to ruin that for him. She's not my type any more any way. Plus i miss playing with tiddies. Side chick is a B cup but this girl is like a D
- tiddy girl has a bf, i don't know if he would give permission or even know about this threesome but i don't mind cucking him. It's his gf's responsibility as i see it

Thank you for reading this far. Now my questions:

1. Does it sound like my gf is trying to figure out if i like tiddy girl? Or she has cold feet about involving a girl i might like more?

My gf is prettier and i go by face mainly so i'm not gonna fall in love with tiddy girl. Plus she has a bf.

2. I know girls don't hesitate to poach and upgrade but how can i reassure my gf so she's more comfortable with the tiddy girl? So far i've been able to talk her into staying open (i made a thread about it)

Thanks again for reading

 

[bigneil]

Threesomes are overrated. You'll always like one girl more. If it's the other girl, your girl will be mad. If not, you'll yawn. If you happen to get your favorite two girls on Earth together (which I did in 1993) they'll be too jealous of each other. Finally, the sex feels like trying to pee with someone talking to you. Three way kissing is fun, but that's as far as I want to take it.

 

[Serenity]

1. Probably not, sounds like she REALLY likes sex. You don't like tiddy girl anyways, so nothing to worry about.

2. How can you change someone's mind? If I knew I would be all powerful, I am not. Your GF might be jealous of big tiddies, because she don't have them.

 

[sam010101]

What im getting here is pick up forums are full of guys that dont get laid and have no clue, and you are better off going outside and practicing or asking teh advice of people that you see doing well in real life

 

[escaleraroyal]

sam010101, I agree, most are virgins, but there are a few guys who are good.

 

[RangerMIke]

Two girls giving you a blow job is the best. But if you are going to do a sex three way, it's best to do it with a lesbian couple. One of my yoga instructors is bi and lives with a lesbian... every couple of months or so they feel like bringing in a dude to mix things up... and I just HAVE to help out.

 

[sazc]

Pictures or it didn't happen

 

[IBreatheSpears]

1. Probably not, sounds like she REALLY likes sex. You don't like tiddy girl anyways, so nothing to worry about.

Yeah, she has a quite high sex drive.

Your GF might be jealous of big tiddies, because she don't have them.

She said she's not jealous/insecure about her boobs when we went to a strip club (idea of her lesbian friend. I, ofc, was only too happy), can't remember how we got onto the subject but she didn't suddenly declare it like an insecure person might, I told her most of my exes are chestlets (true and it was relevant) and I guess she interpreted it as me assuming she was insecure and trying to placate her.

She also said she wanted a girl with tits. The only thing she (openly) is unsure about is whether tiddy girl is pretty enough. Like I said, tiddy girl is not as pretty as my gf, and gf said she wants a girl who is pretty but not prettier than her. Apparently tiddy girl may not be pretty enough, she said she'll think about it.

 

[IBreatheSpears]

Two girls giving you a blow job is the best. But if you are going to do a sex three way, it's best to do it with a lesbian couple. One of my yoga instructors is bi and lives with a lesbian... every couple of months or so they feel like bringing in a dude to mix things up... and I just HAVE to help out.

I'll bet, wish I knew a lesbian couple like that. GF's friend is a """lesbian""" who sleeps with men, so I'd mention her to my GF, but a good friend of mine likes her (weird; I think of him as a natural but he seems to have oneitis for this chick. She does admittedly have something of a bewitching charm, like she just instinctively and effortlessly knows how to be sexy) and I don't wanna step on his toes.

Pictures or it didn't happen

LOL

Well it didn't happen yet, that's the problem. Wouldn't spread pictures of her, anyway, that might reduce my ability to get more
Plus I'm selfish

 

[sazc]

I'll bet, wish I knew a lesbian couple like that. GF's friend is a """lesbian""" who sleeps with men, so I'd mention her to my GF, but a good friend of mine likes her (weird; I think of him as a natural but he seems to have oneitis for this chick. She does admittedly have something of a bewitching charm, like she just instinctively and effortlessly knows how to be sexy) and I don't wanna step on his toes.


LOL

Well it didn't happen yet, that's the problem. Wouldn't spread pictures of her, anyway, that might reduce my ability to get more
Plus I'm selfish

Lol, if it happens message me and I'll give you my email. Heee, I'd like to see that. I'll keep it private and have your back that it happened, promise
In all seriousness, good luck with the endeavour!! (and shoot me a pic )

 

[bigneil]

To me the most disgusting thing is the concept of swingers or sex parties. As someone who is only attracted to about 1 in 25 strippers and 1 in 200 women in general, I can't imagine these parties are full of women I want to sleep with. I'm picturing it more like an orgy of ok looking or below average people. Wouldn't it be like getting a table dance from a random stripper, or talking to a random girl at the bar? I've never been to a sex party, but I fear girls who are into that crap and don't even want to know.

 

[C00lAF]

What im getting here is pick up forums are full of guys that dont get laid and have no clue, and you are better off going outside and practicing or asking teh advice of people that you see doing well in real life

sam010101, I agree, most are virgins, but there are a few guys who are good.

Sorry to ruin your fun boys,but we disscused this over several threads week or so ago,let us please dont go that road mmk?

 

[devilkingx2]

Apologies for the impending wall of text. I have a few questions and feel compelled to give the full background to make sure they can be answered accurately. So please accept my apologies and thanks in advance if you choose to read on, whether or not you answer

My girlfriend has brought up the idea of having a threesome several times. At first as a fantasy to describe to each other during foreplay but now as something she actually wants to do. I'm obviously up for it.

- gf and i are open. I'm fùcking another girl she knows about and she has fùcked one guy that i know of
- A few weeks ago we met another girl who has apparently expressed interest in having sex with us.
- last week gf met my ex and said she'd rather sleep with her. I suspect because gf and ex are both flat chested while other girl is bustier. I don't want to sleep with my ex, i think she wants me but she's banging my buddy who just lost his gf of 3 years, i'm not about to ruin that for him. She's not my type any more any way. Plus i miss playing with tiddies. Side chick is a B cup but this girl is like a D
- tiddy girl has a bf, i don't know if he would give permission or even know about this threesome but i don't mind cucking him. It's his gf's responsibility as i see it

Thank you for reading this far. Now my questions:

1. Does it sound like my gf is trying to figure out if i like tiddy girl? Or she has cold feet about involving a girl i might like more?

My gf is prettier and i go by face mainly so i'm not gonna fall in love with tiddy girl. Plus she has a bf.

2. I know girls don't hesitate to poach and upgrade but how can i reassure my gf so she's more comfortable with the tiddy girl? So far i've been able to talk her into staying open (i made a thread about it)

Thanks again for reading

don't pick either girl, pick a girl who is actually single because the last thing you need with a complicated and delicate situation is to add relationship/friend drama into the mix

as for 1&2 don't even bother trying to do a 3-way if your girl isn't sure she's 100% okay with picking any reasonable willing choice(AKA if she's being super nitpicky about random ****, because it's hard enough to find girls willing to do a 3-way with you it doesn't need extra complications too lol), that's a disaster waiting to happen.

as in, you don't buy first class plane tickets for a flight across the world if your girl still isn't certain if she's over her fear of flying yet, unless you want your life to play out like a seinfeld episode.

 

[Serenity]

Well, can't really help you with this. Just be careful assuming things, many things end badly because of misunderstandings.

 

[sam010101]

Sorry to ruin your fun boys,but we disscused this over several threads week or so ago,let us please dont go that road mmk?

NO

 

[C00lAF]

NO

Fine e-juan.

 

[IBreatheSpears]

To me the most disgusting thing is the concept of swingers or sex parties. As someone who is only attracted to about 1 in 25 strippers and 1 in 200 women in general, I can't imagine these parties are full of women I want to sleep with. I'm picturing it more like an orgy of ok looking or below average people. Wouldn't it be like getting a table dance from a random stripper, or talking to a random girl at the bar? I've never been to a sex party, but I fear girls who are into that crap and don't even want to know.

Yeah I feel the same way about actual orgies, I know a girl who keeps trying to invite me and she's pretty gross. I need to make new friends tbh.

 

[bigneil]

A few weeks ago I got a stripper's number (Girl A) but she never texted back. Then she saw me with the Russian girl who I was dating (Girl B) and told me she REALLY liked that girl and that she wanted to join us, but I ignored her. Well then I was on my third date with Girl B and she says "Neil, I got a text from Girl A today and she asked if she could join us"! She said no and I was happy. Women are so corrupted these days.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Been at parties with an orgy going on in a dark room. I saw who (or what) had gone into that room. No thanks.

I think threesomes are great for bragging rights but I am getting older. I cannot guarantee the number of boners I am going to get in a night anymore, let alone enough to satisfy two women.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Why don't you make a foursome? That could be a cool conversation to have: "yeah I mean I've had a foursome, just not a threesome". Plus, this way you don't get any third wheels or any of that if the girls are horny enough.