"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've finally reached that point...

Slash Dolo

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...of where I want to be with women and life.

We are all on here for different reasons. Some want relationships, others want to bang a multitude of girls, others want to learn social tricks, etc. I came here for all of it.

I've been on this site for several years and the information here has been invaluable in achieving my goals. I apologize if I sound like a braggart here, but I need to share with my fellow DJs. I'm about to reach 40 different sexual partners at 27 years of age. Being around an attractive girl makes me subconsciously tap into my inner DJ without a second thought to get her interested. I'm making more money than I've ever made this year; bought a new Jeep Wrangler Rubicon (the number one p*ssy magnet vehicle IMO) and I'm at the point where flakes no longer phase me--I'll just go to the next plate. I'm sure there are others here who have done better, but for me, I am content with all these things.

There's still times of stress, sadness, anger, but overall I have reached a level of zen, almost. And I have this site to thank for it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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fastlife

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Congrats bro. Just make sure to stay grounded. Appreciate what you have; but the minute you attach your identity to success or the acquisition of success objects, those assets become potential liabilities.

Basically, those achievements are yours but you're NOT you're achievements.

Every time I feel I have it all figured out, life has a way of tearing that out from under me. Never be afraid to set your sights higher & expose yourself to potential failure--we were made for the struggle & no matter how good things get, that'll become your new baseline.
 

El Payaso

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Congrats bro. Just make sure to stay grounded. Appreciate what you have; but the minute you attach your identity to success or the acquisition of success objects, those assets become potential liabilities.

Basically, those achievements are yours but you're NOT you're achievements.

Every time I feel I have it all figured out, life has a way of tearing that out from under me. Never be afraid to set your sights higher & expose yourself to potential failure--we were made for the struggle & no matter how good things get, that'll become your new baseline.
This. Just make sure not to tie your emotional well-being and state of mind to your physical possessions or the amount of women you're getting. Because as easy as it's coming, as easy as it could all vanish.
 
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